his depravity...
Posted by IntriguedScorp
Well honestly if your first reaction was that he was depraved. You know cap maybe you should be looking inward on how you perceive this guy.
You broke up with him!
Posted by IntriguedScorp
Every now and then step back and think: "how could what I'm doing be interpreted by those we love".
Try to be less subtle and a little more out there.
I think we always know why we are doing things and rarely they are from a negative place but let's face it our ways are mysterious to the people not living in our heads.click to expand
I'm not trying to throw this in your face, but I also hate being put on the defense. i did break up with him. i see your point, scorp. i did suggest we take a few weeks and go our separate ways. at the near unanimous suggestion of friends here on dxp! he wanted us to stay in touch. that was his request. he drunk dialed me. i called him a week later. marrakesha if you want to claim that my intent was to rekindle in one phone call... make that claim. my intent in the phone call might have been naive, but you are right... i am not THAT stupid. and the only game i'm playing, or was playing, with myself was that he and i could remain friends and that he would be mature about all of this. that is the only delusion i've been fostering.
at any rate, i'm not sure how many times i can post this timeline of events, but MY point is that there is a glaring double standard here. Dont be confused on where the double standard is. Since when do break ups have to be so cold turkey. Every break up I've been through before was respectful, gentle, peaceful, not confusing, and friendly. Thats been my experience with breakups... you scorpios obviously know these things from diff perspectives and experiences. I dont. I can now accept that this one is different.
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Posted by virgodreamz
Thanks Aurora & LIB
I think the biggest issue is that the father does not want to spend time with his son. The mom doesn't really know how to explain the constant absence so she usually just
says he's working. The father won't really cooperate as far as giving more of his time. He told the mom he wants to care but he just doesn't and he wants a free life. This is where a
conflict with being honest comes in. No child deserves to hear that their parent has little to no interest in them. It really sucks how people can bring kids into this world and have no problem to turn their backs on them.
Well, the son will adjust to his father's absence, as he matures. It helps some that the father was always away anyway, and the mother telling her son "he's working" is best for now. The father can answer to the rest when his son is a young man and asks him directly. For now it's the mom's job to keep consistency in this little fella's life and again lots of reassurance and love.
I agree..there's way too many egg donors and sperm donors out there. They have no clue about the damage they do to kids. Makes me sick to my stomach.
They're fun, really.
They could entertain people, interesting and light.
I can say that i'd like to add geminis to hang out with, they could make it even in a real boring situation.
I have this circle that theres libra, cancer, aries, gemini, pisces, and me as aqua.
And yeah gemini and pisces are sick! They're hilarious. Libra love em damn much, makes him cry laughing.
My geminis folks seems sanguinist.
And i can agree that they aren't a deep thinker.
They could entertain people, interesting and light.
I can say that i'd like to add geminis to hang out with, they could make it even in a real boring situation.
I have this circle that theres libra, cancer, aries, gemini, pisces, and me as aqua.
And yeah gemini and pisces are sick! They're hilarious. Libra love em damn much, makes him cry laughing.
My geminis folks seems sanguinist.
And i can agree that they aren't a deep thinker.
ET, good question lol. I still dont remember their whole crappy story thou, only the parts where I get an awakening lol. Im honestly terrible at listening, i zone in and out unless they get to the point fast or make the story telling interesting with sounds like "pop" "pow"...i like animation & hand gestures. I pay attention then. Droaning? NO!!
That night of the breakup, you participated in the argument, and you've been with him for 2.5 years, so you knew full well to what level he was going to be reduced to, with each button you pushed to piss him off.
The reason why you can't get past yourself and are hurting is because you are feeling guilty, but, don't know it because you are in denial. Same as Roamingfree, that's why every guy she gets with, abuses her.
Same as you. You've written in here about this guy before, and in every thread you talk about how miserable you are, yet, you are unwilling to acknowledge you have your own power to make a quality life for yourself.
And the reason for this is what I've been telling you for months and months .... because you aren't accepting responsibility for yourself.
If life is good = you made it
If life is bad = you made it
The reason why you can't get past yourself and are hurting is because you are feeling guilty, but, don't know it because you are in denial. Same as Roamingfree, that's why every guy she gets with, abuses her.
Same as you. You've written in here about this guy before, and in every thread you talk about how miserable you are, yet, you are unwilling to acknowledge you have your own power to make a quality life for yourself.
And the reason for this is what I've been telling you for months and months .... because you aren't accepting responsibility for yourself.
If life is good = you made it
If life is bad = you made it
BSC, I've read that aquas have intuition, dont know where I saw it but I'm positive I saw it mentioned somewhere. I'll search it
BSC, if gem is all about thought, then whats libra & aqua all about?
Posted by LunarMaiden
VirgoKing, would you mind one more request?
Aquarius - Jupiter
Sagittarius - Ascent
Yours is in the 3rd house so someone that can stimulate your mind and teach you knew ways of thinking. You might find him in a library, media, and school. Some one with strong 3rd house placements or strong gemini placements.
Compliments means you're good on somethin. And you should proud of yourself 
Take it easy. Its okay.
Take it easy. Its okay.
Congratulations on your Tau friend graduating!
I'm kind of open with information right now, so I'll share a bit. My hubs told me when his buddy and him graduated they didnt really need much of anything. They surprised themselves (and a couple of other really good friends, one is a Pisces sun incidently) with their favourite pasttimes. They used to get together to study, (not always) and when they did, they had their favourite snacks. So, in one of their surprises to each-other, were bags of their favourite snacks & drinks. (yes this is not a expensive gift) but it was the "thought" and how they laughed over it. Also, their families sharing good food, cooking a nice bbq and small feast for them.
It's not about the "PRICE" but the company.
I'm kind of open with information right now, so I'll share a bit. My hubs told me when his buddy and him graduated they didnt really need much of anything. They surprised themselves (and a couple of other really good friends, one is a Pisces sun incidently) with their favourite pasttimes. They used to get together to study, (not always) and when they did, they had their favourite snacks. So, in one of their surprises to each-other, were bags of their favourite snacks & drinks. (yes this is not a expensive gift) but it was the "thought" and how they laughed over it. Also, their families sharing good food, cooking a nice bbq and small feast for them.
It's not about the "PRICE" but the company.