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Dec 13, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 1525 · Topics: 14
CP,
Everything in nature is self-healing; all creations, including you two. So if you stop feeding to each other, you both will heal naturally in time, it's what nature does. What you both need to do is to manage the flow of misunderstandings coming into your lives and the chaos they generate as much as you can. Unfortunately in this relationship you can only do your part. Hopefully your decision will put him in the position to heal himself.
So hold all your broken heart pieces together, allow it to stabilize and heal; until that's achieved, there is nothing productive you can offer each other. Don't try to control the things you can not control. You'll only break yourself and it can even lead you to destroy the one you were trying to protect.