The Hidden Faults and Secret Vices of Your Lovers
Gemini - The Divine Discontent
When Gemini falls in love, he is overwhelmed with feelings of indecision and confusion. Love is always viewed in the abstract. This idea of love enables them to avoid clutter of physical and emotional ties; preferring to carry on an affair through letters or telephone than in physical fact. A typical affair may begin through a brief journey or meeting - an encounter that requires very little emotional responsibility. It can be kept alive through correspondence which may last for years. This allows them to remain uncommitted and free for Gemini prizes freedom. They can be impatient in the sexual act and would rather be voyeurs rather than participants. No single partner can meet their needs and they can carry on more than one affair at a time. Their pleasure in love is mental rather than physical and thus they welcome the secret affair where meetings are difficult and mental torment is intense.
Cancer - The Oedipal Complainer
The male Cancer falls in love readily and becomes involved emotionally. He tends to dramatize his love affairs and can even create and intense emotional attachment to someone whose affection for him is either slight or nonexistent. Cancer is extremely jealous and possessive always believing his lover is faithless. This is a direct threat to his masculinity, reverting to helplessness and impotence. It takes little to reassure him and once his self-confidence returns he will be caught up again in complete devotion and the cycle begins again. The female Cancer who can be as jealous as her counterpart is capable of handling more than one lover, but being possessive, she must own them all. They are like playthings to her, to be manipulated and moved about like toy soldiers. She will drain the purse of each and every lover. They are complainers and never stop crying and pleading for money and gifts like spoiled children. They shop constantly filling their closets with clothes they never wear, accumulating lovers whose emotional commitments they collect but rarely reciprocate. Their appetite for food is similar and they will eat gluttonously all day. They confuse love with an emotional hunger for attention and sensual satisfaction.
When Gemini falls in love, he is overwhelmed with feelings of indecision and confusion. Love is always viewed in the abstract. This idea of love enables them to avoid clutter of physical and emotional ties; preferring to carry on an affair through letters or telephone than in physical fact. A typical affair may begin through a brief journey or meeting - an encounter that requires very little emotional responsibility. It can be kept alive through correspondence which may last for years. This allows them to remain uncommitted and free for Gemini prizes freedom. They can be impatient in the sexual act and would rather be voyeurs rather than participants. No single partner can meet their needs and they can carry on more than one affair at a time. Their pleasure in love is mental rather than physical and thus they welcome the secret affair where meetings are difficult and mental torment is intense.
Cancer - The Oedipal Complainer
The male Cancer falls in love readily and becomes involved emotionally. He tends to dramatize his love affairs and can even create and intense emotional attachment to someone whose affection for him is either slight or nonexistent. Cancer is extremely jealous and possessive always believing his lover is faithless. This is a direct threat to his masculinity, reverting to helplessness and impotence. It takes little to reassure him and once his self-confidence returns he will be caught up again in complete devotion and the cycle begins again. The female Cancer who can be as jealous as her counterpart is capable of handling more than one lover, but being possessive, she must own them all. They are like playthings to her, to be manipulated and moved about like toy soldiers. She will drain the purse of each and every lover. They are complainers and never stop crying and pleading for money and gifts like spoiled children. They shop constantly filling their closets with clothes they never wear, accumulating lovers whose emotional commitments they collect but rarely reciprocate. Their appetite for food is similar and they will eat gluttonously all day. They confuse love with an emotional hunger for attention and sensual satisfaction.
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Posted by neuroticvirgo
Not sure how I ended up in the Scorpio forum; but I will say that I agree with what you're saying here. The reality (to me) is a man is going to leave or commit to you if he wants to and when you have sex with him will do little to sway that. I approach like this: I'm having sex because I want to have sex (you didn't Jedi mind trick me into it) so if you never call again then I'll take the emotional hit and keep it moving.
But I find a lot of views on DXP (not necessarily Tikis) to be a bit black & white.
my virgo ascendent drew you here
i guess the key thing is that whether they think you're a slapper or not is of no relevance if you had sex with them cos YOU wanted to. some of the best sex i've ever had has been one night only...no pining...no texting/emailing/facebooking...nada. i got what i wanted. if you want more? well that depends on if i do! if you don't, thanks for the memory
Posted by SweetLibra
Wow Virgoking you are awesome! Is it too late to get in the game? I'm almost afraid to hear what you have to say. Here it goes:
Jupiter in Gemini .043 R IV Taurus 6.37
ASC in Scorpio 3.31 XII Scorpio 6.37
And would retrograde affect the outcome at all?
Your is in the 8th house he would have to be good at sex he must talk dirty to you and he will teach you about the darker sides of humanity. He maybe into astrology or likes to talk about the occult. You can find him at a funeral home,or at a funeral, or a lwayer. Someone with strong scorpio placements or strong 8th house placements.
Posted by HouseCleaning
I like this quote, this will make a lot of ladies mad
"A guy is like a key, and a girl is like a lock. A key that opens many locks is a master key, yet a lock that is opened by many keys is a shitty lock."
LMAO...that's a good one!!!
it is possible to be discreet though you know. you can behave like an outrageous strumpet and 'people' can be none the wiser. i know i have. it's all going in my sleazy memoirs, lol.
I do! My deviantart houses most of the stuff I did back in college and some scraps here and there. Missing a whole lot because I raged one day and deleted or burnt half my stuff or just left them in college because I thought they were worthless!
Warning shittiness
How about you? I'm sure you're super good
Right now I just enjoying working at my cafe/bar when it comes down to it I just like being in an active environment and whatever spare time I work as a designer to keep the creative juices going! SO unfortunately the work I do isn't my property so to speak and I can't freely post them due to copyrighting laws in Australia.
And the other times I teach Might be teaching industry professionals to get a desired outcome, attend workshops, going back to my college to inspire younger designers and artists it's a lot of fun! Yes to exhibitions too Me and my college friends usually hold one annually and it's amazing stuff they always inspire me with their creativeness.
Warning shittiness
How about you? I'm sure you're super good
Right now I just enjoying working at my cafe/bar when it comes down to it I just like being in an active environment and whatever spare time I work as a designer to keep the creative juices going! SO unfortunately the work I do isn't my property so to speak and I can't freely post them due to copyrighting laws in Australia.
And the other times I teach
Might be teaching industry professionals to get a desired outcome, attend workshops, going back to my college to inspire younger designers and artists it's a lot of fun! Yes to exhibitions too Me and my college friends usually hold one annually and it's amazing stuff they always inspire me with their creativeness.
1294 - 543 = 751 with the cap guy I'm currently seeing since July/Aug of 2012
801 - 390 = 411 with my ex virgo, which lasted ~10yrs
801 - 390 = 411 with my ex virgo, which lasted ~10yrs
Posted by crunchyPosted by Pisceology
Most tall men I meet have this petite super short girlfriend.. Booo!
I'm 5'10
I hate those bitches! If you're 5'3, a 5'6 guy should suffice. But the tallest girls can ONLY date the tallest guys. It's all relative, and the taller girls have few options as it is, so these midget hos need to stop hogging the few guys we could've had! Stop being so greedy.
That's like an asshat with more than enough water in America deciding to take all their showers in Africa.click to expand
I know!!! *frustrations*
i do actually know a 'shitty lock' in my neighbourhood. she has apparently fucked every guy on the costa although she obviously hasn't lol. she LOOKS like she has though. she has one guy stringing along who lives in spain and she's told him to 'make himself scarce' for a couple of weeks while a dude who PAYS HER RENT AND ELECTRICITY comes over from the uk to stay with her for a couple of weeks. the 'scarce' bloke thinks there's nothing going on with this other man...who he knows and as soon as he goes back to the uk he will resume his place as this woman's keeper. it's pathetic but he's in his 60's and she's in her 40's and he doesn't give a crap that she looks like a skank and is KNOWN as a skank. he's just grateful to get laid at all.
that's not about her sexual availability though....she's just a disgrace to womankind.
that's not about her sexual availability though....she's just a disgrace to womankind.
Posted by ellessque
so, a woman who is comfortable with her body and confident in her decisions is "a promiscuous woman?"
I always thought a promiscuous woman is someone who has one partner after another after another after another and so on.
This is NOT what the nature of the discussion is.
I've had four longterm relationships in my lifetime....longterm that is more than a few years. I didn't "wait" to sleep with any one of them. I let nature take its course and played zero games.
When I started dating a few years ago...for the first time after my divorce....I listened to this fucked up advice and "waited" once to see what they hype was all about. That was a total joke....it made no difference one way or another and we ended up being completely incompatible.
I certainly wouldn't put myself in any "promiscuous woman" category.
well i've slept with alot of partners and i was only with one in a long term relationship/marriage during which time i admit i cheated but i'm not promiscuous even though there are loads of people who would call me that. to me promiscuity is having sex with numerous partners indiscriminantly whereas i've just been alive a looooong time LOL!!
Why thank you Dof! You may rise gentle Knight. I shan't tell you that you may kiss my ring now as over the pond it means something quite different. LOLOL
I also attribute my awesome to my beautiful Pisces heart. Sweet Venus mine.
I also attribute my awesome to my beautiful Pisces heart. Sweet Venus mine.
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