The Hidden Faults and Secret Vices of Your Lovers
Libra - The Narcissist
Librans work hard to keep lovers coming and going. At first they will give you constant attention until you are completely involved but soon the demands of keeping up the love affair will become too much for them and you will become part of the background. Librans will never relinquish their lovers completely, for they may be needed again. The primary function of a lover is to amuse, satisfy, admire, and exalt Libra, and if you are easily won, the excitement is blunted. If Libra is rejected, he becomes completely demoralized; he cannot believe that anyone could weary of him, though he does nothing to deserve love. Yet even when sorrowful, Libra will immediately seek to dispel the blow by filling the environment with new people - or will revive his original charm until you surrender. In failure, he is without pride, and nothing will compel him to look within himself for any failing. Librans are very competitive and will often scheme to humiliate their loved ones. It is a shock to learn that Libra can be spiteful, for he seems so blandly unaware of his offenses to others. Librans have a fascination with sex and require a great deal of stimulation to become aroused. The sexual act itself can be a nuisance and though all sorts of methods may be employed to arouse and be aroused, there is often little personal interest or involvement. Because Libras gives so little real emotional commitment to a lover, it is not surprising that they like to talk about their affairs. By comparing and weighing the attitudes of themselves and their lovers, they can remain uninvolved and even dissipate whatever interest they may have had in the loved one. Libra likes orderly endings to love affairs. This is to their advantage because, they may need to call on the deserted lover at a later date.
Librans work hard to keep lovers coming and going. At first they will give you constant attention until you are completely involved but soon the demands of keeping up the love affair will become too much for them and you will become part of the background. Librans will never relinquish their lovers completely, for they may be needed again. The primary function of a lover is to amuse, satisfy, admire, and exalt Libra, and if you are easily won, the excitement is blunted. If Libra is rejected, he becomes completely demoralized; he cannot believe that anyone could weary of him, though he does nothing to deserve love. Yet even when sorrowful, Libra will immediately seek to dispel the blow by filling the environment with new people - or will revive his original charm until you surrender. In failure, he is without pride, and nothing will compel him to look within himself for any failing. Librans are very competitive and will often scheme to humiliate their loved ones. It is a shock to learn that Libra can be spiteful, for he seems so blandly unaware of his offenses to others. Librans have a fascination with sex and require a great deal of stimulation to become aroused. The sexual act itself can be a nuisance and though all sorts of methods may be employed to arouse and be aroused, there is often little personal interest or involvement. Because Libras gives so little real emotional commitment to a lover, it is not surprising that they like to talk about their affairs. By comparing and weighing the attitudes of themselves and their lovers, they can remain uninvolved and even dissipate whatever interest they may have had in the loved one. Libra likes orderly endings to love affairs. This is to their advantage because, they may need to call on the deserted lover at a later date.
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Posted by HouseCleaning
I like this quote, this will make a lot of ladies mad
"A guy is like a key, and a girl is like a lock. A key that opens many locks is a master key, yet a lock that is opened by many keys is a shitty lock."
LMAO...that's a good one!!!
it is possible to be discreet though you know. you can behave like an outrageous strumpet and 'people' can be none the wiser. i know i have. it's all going in my sleazy memoirs, lol.
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Warning shittiness
How about you? I'm sure you're super good
Right now I just enjoying working at my cafe/bar when it comes down to it I just like being in an active environment and whatever spare time I work as a designer to keep the creative juices going! SO unfortunately the work I do isn't my property so to speak and I can't freely post them due to copyrighting laws in Australia.
And the other times I teach
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Posted by crunchyPosted by Pisceology
Most tall men I meet have this petite super short girlfriend.. Booo!
I'm 5'10
I hate those bitches! If you're 5'3, a 5'6 guy should suffice. But the tallest girls can ONLY date the tallest guys. It's all relative, and the taller girls have few options as it is, so these midget hos need to stop hogging the few guys we could've had! Stop being so greedy.
That's like an asshat with more than enough water in America deciding to take all their showers in Africa.click to expand
I know!!! *frustrations*
i do actually know a 'shitty lock' in my neighbourhood. she has apparently fucked every guy on the costa although she obviously hasn't lol. she LOOKS like she has though. she has one guy stringing along who lives in spain and she's told him to 'make himself scarce' for a couple of weeks while a dude who PAYS HER RENT AND ELECTRICITY comes over from the uk to stay with her for a couple of weeks. the 'scarce' bloke thinks there's nothing going on with this other man...who he knows and as soon as he goes back to the uk he will resume his place as this woman's keeper. it's pathetic but he's in his 60's and she's in her 40's and he doesn't give a crap that she looks like a skank and is KNOWN as a skank. he's just grateful to get laid at all.
that's not about her sexual availability though....she's just a disgrace to womankind.
that's not about her sexual availability though....she's just a disgrace to womankind.
Posted by ellessque
so, a woman who is comfortable with her body and confident in her decisions is "a promiscuous woman?"
I always thought a promiscuous woman is someone who has one partner after another after another after another and so on.
This is NOT what the nature of the discussion is.
I've had four longterm relationships in my lifetime....longterm that is more than a few years. I didn't "wait" to sleep with any one of them. I let nature take its course and played zero games.
When I started dating a few years ago...for the first time after my divorce....I listened to this fucked up advice and "waited" once to see what they hype was all about. That was a total joke....it made no difference one way or another and we ended up being completely incompatible.
I certainly wouldn't put myself in any "promiscuous woman" category.
well i've slept with alot of partners and i was only with one in a long term relationship/marriage during which time i admit i cheated but i'm not promiscuous even though there are loads of people who would call me that. to me promiscuity is having sex with numerous partners indiscriminantly whereas i've just been alive a looooong time LOL!!
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
I got talking to this tall lady today and she seemed pretty cool so no one should feel bad or uneasy about height bias tbh.
Yeah talking is one thing but you have to admit, wouldn't it feel kinda weird/uncomfortable for you if you were walking down the street, hand in hand, with a taller woman?
Well my 1st impressions are that me (cappy) and him (Libra) are both so laid back we might both conclude the other is becoming indifferent. We both have a big flexibility..putting the other person at ease thing going on. How do Libras express passion? or are they always hiding it or putting the other personas wishes 1st such that they dont express their own?
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My 3rd observation is that there seems to be a form of romance that is more like a innocent fairy tale than 2 hot blooded adults looking at each other and saying wow you are amazing. Like when someone wants to kiss you all over your face rather than running their fingers down your spine and circling at the spines base. Puppy love rather than sensual artistry. I kind of like this as its different for me. I like to see new perspectives
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