This whole thing is crazy... I can't explain it. Physical attraction was not the catalyst.
'Capbaby addicts have so many mask and they use all of them. Have you ever thought he's manipulating you with his "kind loving man" mask?'
yes it has crossed my mind. You have all given me a view of what my gut has told me...that this won't end unless I give an ultimatum or walk...
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^oops I mean that picture is awesome! exclamation mark, I think I'm so use to writing in question form *shakes head*
Huntress that is a great article....
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Seraph I don't think any human being should have that much Aquarius... LoL that is I don't even know how to say it good greif
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PM, that is a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing it!
You know, I am usually extremely compassionate with people, and give them the benefit of the doubt. That's why this case was so different. I just felt that something was WRONG, and, as usual, secondguessed myself. Since it seems like I'm the only one at work who feels the way I feel, I started thinking maybe I was just being strange. But, just about an hour ago, I spoke with someone who has known this man for years and had my feelings confirmed.
She said he steals, he takes clients for his own business, he lies, he manipulates. He has been fired for inappropriate touching and for cussing out superiors. He grew up very wealthy and respects no authority (especially from women). He has been institutionalized twice, and roommates have armed themselves out of fear that he might hurt them.
I was advised to deal with him immediately, for my own good and for the good of the company, because things are only going to get worse. She told me to have my employer call his last employer (he probably left her off of his resume) and ask for a reference, because she knows about everything I just wrote. I'm trying to figure out if there is a diplomatic way of doing this.
New to this forum... He's a Libra, I'm a Virgo
So I started 'seeing' my manager at work. We kept it secret and professional. We never let on at all that anything was going on.
We went on a few dates, we would text most days, I will go round his on his days off, everything was going great. (and the be clear we never had a sexual relationship, I wasn't ready)
It was Christmas and as we work in the nightclub business we were super busy and we saw each other less and less! I obviously made the mistake of asking where this was going too early, as he backed off. I gave him space and we would talk occasionally.
Now in the New Year, he has a night off and hits the town with the lads. The next day my best girlfriend at work rings me to tell me he went home with a girl that night. It upset me a lot.
Two weeks later we have a training session at work, afterwards I go to the gym, he goes to the pub for drinks with others from work. That night I get calls and voicemail's from him, not making a lot of sense he wants to know why I didn't come out. I ignore them.
The next day, I hear that he went home with another woman. This time I'm even more hurt and confused.
A few weeks pass and he has another night off. On the night out he is attacked and mugged! In hospital for 5 days with blood on the brain!!!!
The day after he is realised I get a Facebook message, asking for my number again. I'm reluctant to give it to him but desperate to know if he is ok.
Since then he has texted everyday!! We arranged to meet up but unfortunately plans fell through. On his first night out since the attack (a month later) I get 8 calls, texts and fb messages about wanting to see me after work!! He was determined to stay up and wait for me to finish, but I was out really late and he obviously fell asleep ha.
Am I wasting my time? Do you think the attack has made him think differently about me?