Going Dutch
I guess I've never been on one of those dates where I don't know much about the girl already. There would've been at least a few coffee dates before a proper one or what I consider a proper one. Just keeping it fun and real getting to know them without things like this get in the way.
On that note though I'm the same, if I ask them out I pay and if they insist to go Dutch or pay for it then I'll let them. If they want dissect it further later like "oh why did he take my offer" etc then it's really quite a shame.
On that note though I'm the same, if I ask them out I pay and if they insist to go Dutch or pay for it then I'll let them. If they want dissect it further later like "oh why did he take my offer" etc then it's really quite a shame.
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Signed Up: Nov 17, 2012
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I can see how we do.. I'm not totally unaware of what it is that is said about Aquarius men
BUT as you should be well aware as a fellow Aquariun... I think we have very DEEP emotions but are so sensitive we barely let people even a have a glimpse of how we truly feel on the inside because it not only makes you feel vulnerable BUT weak as well. Plus, the natural impulse is to not allow your emotions effect/affect the way you are thinking and since we be thinking like 24/7 haha it doesn't appear to seem we ever have any emotions. I have worked very hard over the course of my twenties to rectify this flaw in my personality and I think aside a few insecurities that sort of hinder me from full out emotional expression I'm a lot better at it then I would normally be.
It just is eye opening that even an Aquarius Women would say this!!! She should understand better than anyone.
People say we have no empathy... I think it's just hard to empathize if we can so how someone is being irrational. But I know how it feels. And I've learned to listen more to people then tell them what I think they should do.
Your comment really spooked me a bit because I always feel my emotions are all written all over my face or that people can read me but apparently that must not be the case. A lot of times when I don't open up to what someone is doing it's because I know what that will do if it's a you female... she may think I am into her when I only mean to comfort her and rather than hurt her feelings worse in the long run I just do it now rather than later... unless she is truly distraught. If it is something I don't agree with I just listen but don't usually return my opinion.. people take it like I don't get what they are saying or know where they are coming from when I do. I just don't wanna argue with them about it because it doesn't seem necessary.
:/
BUT as you should be well aware as a fellow Aquariun... I think we have very DEEP emotions but are so sensitive we barely let people even a have a glimpse of how we truly feel on the inside because it not only makes you feel vulnerable BUT weak as well. Plus, the natural impulse is to not allow your emotions effect/affect the way you are thinking and since we be thinking like 24/7 haha it doesn't appear to seem we ever have any emotions. I have worked very hard over the course of my twenties to rectify this flaw in my personality and I think aside a few insecurities that sort of hinder me from full out emotional expression I'm a lot better at it then I would normally be.
It just is eye opening that even an Aquarius Women would say this!!! She should understand better than anyone.
People say we have no empathy... I think it's just hard to empathize if we can so how someone is being irrational. But I know how it feels. And I've learned to listen more to people then tell them what I think they should do.
Your comment really spooked me a bit because I always feel my emotions are all written all over my face or that people can read me but apparently that must not be the case. A lot of times when I don't open up to what someone is doing it's because I know what that will do if it's a you female... she may think I am into her when I only mean to comfort her and rather than hurt her feelings worse in the long run I just do it now rather than later... unless she is truly distraught. If it is something I don't agree with I just listen but don't usually return my opinion.. people take it like I don't get what they are saying or know where they are coming from when I do. I just don't wanna argue with them about it because it doesn't seem necessary.
:/
+1 RealTalk. Not ALL relationships are the same. And, just because it happened to you, doesnt mean its happening to somebody else. That's like diognising a disease based on 1 symptom instead of many. Its a coldsore on my lip lol, stop saying its Aids. Sheesh. People like to project their situations on other people.
My phone messed up. Lol.
Edit option, please dxpnet!
Idk NYAA.
I rarely interact with aqua men.
But you're seems cold tho, are you livin in a fridge or something?lol
Theres some people told me im cold, but i don't care. I enjoy some crazy zoo on my head, they just don't know it. Lol
Edit option, please dxpnet!
Idk NYAA.
I rarely interact with aqua men.
But you're seems cold tho, are you livin in a fridge or something?lol
Theres some people told me im cold, but i don't care. I enjoy some crazy zoo on my head, they just don't know it. Lol
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Posted by EusiveSoulllPosted by beautifulsoul74
You're welcomeI'm kinda surprised that men don't go for tall women more. Its funny though. Tall women usually say I'm too short! Lmao
*Ugh* 6' is far from short...what.da...?!
In all fairness, my experience thus far has been quite diverse; ranging from being pursued by those "blessed" with Napoleon complex (too adorable ;p) to anything 6'4"+... *shrugs*
At my hight of 5'10" the difference don't bother me the least (I don't discriminate)as long as the man is not shorter than 5'7". Anything less than that can get somewhat awkward taking the added inches when wearing high heels (cue Aquasnoz's comment ;p) into a consideration.
But for the sake of all tall-er women out there, I sure would like to see men be more "open-minded" in this regard though :-/click to expand
I see what you're saying. It really doesn't bother m personally how y'all a woman is. My last girlfriend was 5'9, one was 5'11, and the rest have been of average height. I'm attracted to tall women, but height doesn't play a factor at all in whether I date someone. I do keep an open mind
Signed Up: Nov 17, 2012
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Comments: 22 · Posts: 6178 · Topics: 30
Ya its def men with unattractive woman more
Typos! I'm seriously starting to hate this Ipad!
I'm jealous obviously.
