Going Dutch
i feel differently about a man who pays. sometimes, it even makes me more attracted to them.
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"Or he just thinks I wouldn't date a coworker. Because I do take work seriously and that's what I focus on but that doesn't mean u don't wanna socialize."
Maybe he's wary of you because you are too serious all the time?
Does he act the same way with other female coworkers?
Maybe he's wary of you because you are too serious all the time?
Does he act the same way with other female coworkers?
NYAA, I hear what you are saying. You guys have emotions, but hold back and to the other person it appears you don't feel at all. HOWEVER, those that take the time to notice can see emotions in your eyes. Aqua's eyes give it away. The window to the soul. Not everyone can read that, and those that can don't always see it, but when we do, Oh Boy!, what a treat!
I know several aquas and when I see a fleeting emotion cross over their face, it is such a pleasure to see. Gotta be paying attention because it passes quickly and then gets buried under the masked exterior.
You guys that can't sleep should take a shot of Nyquil- knocks me out every time!
I know several aquas and when I see a fleeting emotion cross over their face, it is such a pleasure to see. Gotta be paying attention because it passes quickly and then gets buried under the masked exterior.
You guys that can't sleep should take a shot of Nyquil- knocks me out every time!
Well a million friends eh? Alot of hope there. Maybe I'm the one that secretly stands out.
You know what I feel like. I feel like we're an old married couple that all the while he feels responsible for he feels like he doesn't need to try cause he knows he'll see me the next day.
I'm too accessible.
You know what I feel like. I feel like we're an old married couple that all the while he feels responsible for he feels like he doesn't need to try cause he knows he'll see me the next day.
I'm too accessible.
Day 3, i still have a heavy feeling in the pit of my stomach. I have been so strong, he hasn't been in touch with me either..thankfully. It makes it much easier to move on. Hurts like hell though, doesn't it?
Posted by CaplovePosted by ATreeGrowsInBrooklyn
I WANT him TrueCap, I do... but this process is excruciating... and I don't even know if I will come out of it with what I seek... which is HIM!!!
You know, I would just put him on a backburner and let him SIMMER a long while. Let him take his sweet time to make his "decision." He's still dragging his feet if hasn't asked you out yet. Don't do his job for him, you keep being your cool self and do your thing.
Let him do the work to get you. It's his turn to step up to the plate and show you who he really is. Right now, he's taking his time and thinking about it and fishing around, probably wants you to ask him out to be safe. I wouldn't do it, no way. You are being gracious by even allowing him back in your life (even if just as a friend).
And NO, I do not think it's too much to ask for him to say, "Hey, I'd like to take you to dinner." I mean come on! This is basic stuff. It is not marriage, it's just a date and he's still thinking about it?
If he's going to act exactly the same and not make his move then he doesn't know what he wants yet, if that's the case then you don't need to wait around for that. Well.. I should clarify this, I'm not saying to give up on him, just let him simmer away in that slow cooker, keep it friendly as usual. You, keep on doing your thing and enjoying yourself and having your fun. He's just not "done" yet.
Go out on dates and keep ALL your options open because you have a ton of them! You go out and have some fun and let him see how much fun you are having (he's hanging around for a reason!). He's fishing! Be that fun, confident woman, the one that men need to chase after because she's so busy with a life of her own.
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Thanks CapLove... I've definitely have kept my options open and have been dating. I will continue to do so. He did call me last night though (after a week of being m.i.a)... He can be so random... lol... I'm having to learn how to relax and let things just be... Our conversation last night was one of our better ones (at least for me) since we've linked back up. It felt good, but I won't be holding my breath... I'm exhaling and LOVING my life!!! Thank you again!!!
Posted by ScorpioFemale79
Ya but question is once we attract them intellectually. What next?
Let the kinkiness begin!! lol!
Posted by BlueSandCacoon
"Or he just thinks I wouldn't date a coworker. Because I do take work seriously and that's what I focus on but that doesn't mean u don't wanna socialize."
Maybe he's wary of you because you are too serious all the time?
Does he act the same way with other female coworkers?
No but I meant. It's cause it's just two of us in the dept and he knows how much responsibility I have. We stay afloat because of me. I keep things running so he can go out and do outreach, presentations and long term planning. So he knows hes dependent on me and knows I have alot on my plate. That being said if he doesn't try and socialize with me then ill just go my work. That doesn't mean I don't wanna talk its just i don't wanna mope either so I focus on work. I do try and talk to him as much as I can but I don't feel like hes really engaged or wants to talk with me. Then I think to myself well I must not matter after all. Then two hours later he'll bring me lunch and me only lunch out of no where.
He seems consistent with everyone else though
/r phnc$
aquaglass,
Whats been your memorable date so far!???
Whats been your memorable date so far!???
Posted by truecapPosted by ScorpioFemale79
Ya but question is once we attract them intellectually. What next?
Let the kinkiness begin!! lol!click to expand
Lol in my case nothing is happening