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Feb 06, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 174 · Topics: 17
BGP, it started with him asking for my help with getting his truck and telling me to "hold on" so I held on and waited (delaying any things I needed to do) and he never got back to me...til 3 days later and never said sorry..just asked a question about how my first day at work was. Then I said I wanted to talk to him because i was disappointed about how I waited and he agreed to talk...but then never got back to me. Then a few more days went by and I told him this is unacceptable in friends, let alone someone special and he never got back to me. More days go by and I txt, call, etc and nothing. Finally I send a heartfelt email about how I will miss him and why I felt we had something special, but I couldn't do this anymore...THEN he txted me...but he just says he's been busy with work... no kind words or apologies.
I saw he read my email to him 4 times and I know he DOES care about me, but I can't go along with his excuses anymore. He knows I've been separated for over a year and my divorce is almost final, but he just maintains that he can't fall in love with a married woman. For me, this worked in the beginning..I was not this close to the end, but now its just lame and if I get this sort of callous treatment NOW, how can I expect different when we've been together a while and things get tough?
I held onto the way he was and the things he said to me in person when we were together for a long time, but I want off this rollercoaster ride. Its making me sick.
Just last night when we were texting AGAIN and getting nowhere I said my goodbyes and he comes back with "wtf do you want me to do?" so I don't think he REALLY wants it to end, but maybe he just doesn't want to lose his puppet. Oh well.
Thing was, he was not as good looking as those I usually date, was rather chubby, and the sex could have been better honestly....but I still was crazy about him...HIM for HIM. He will miss me (especially when he tries to date girls with looks on par (or better perhaps) than mine and all they want is him to blow cash...something I never cared about.
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Apr 29, 2012Comments: 5 · Posts: 1069 · Topics: 15
Thanks, I will be careful.
Sorry BigGirlPanties but you are so wrong, I have never met a Leo that doesn't want the limelight, thats what they live for, they King/Queen of the jungle
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What you need in relationships is a deeply passionate and intense romance with a commitment to death and possibly beyond.
yup
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Mar 06, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 171 · Topics: 11
This is wrong on so many levels however, it happened. Last year I picked up a seasonal job to help pay for my daughters Christmas. I'm a single, sole custody father btw. I met this woman whom I work with who was showing an interest but was married. Because of that I left it at a friendly level. Something happened and she lost her composure at work and confided in me. Her husband had been having affairs the entire time (12 years). She caught him the first time, while she was pregnant 3 months into the marriage. Caught him again a few years back and the night prior didn't com.e home until the morning only to make threats of leaving. She said even though he repulsed her financial situation has made her stuck.I let my guard down because I could relate so well to her situation. I too had been betrayed by my ex.
After that day we started opening up more to each other and feelings were becoming intense. She would stare at me never breaking contact to the point she would be bumping into things. Eventually we went out for drinks and just enjoyed each others company and exchanged numbers. I normally tell people how I feel so easily however somthing about her made me feel compelled to. I opened my heart to her told her I was falling for her way to fast. The feeling was mutual.
Weeks go by and we flirt but do nothing nor should we have. She tells me that her grandmother for Christmas bought her family a trip. I was also going on vacation but, it happened to be the day she was returng. Needless to say we were both upset from the idea. I asked her to make some time for us so we can figure out this mess we created even though neither of asked for this to happen it just did. She kept avoiding the idea. Well that's when I gave her my snapping claw. I told her that she upset me, that I was done with it and was going to find someone to talk to. Unfortunately I was also drunk at the time I texted her that.
We both went our trips and didn't contact one another for the 2 weeks. I came back went out bought some good stationary and poured my heart to her and how sorry I was. I walked into work gave it to her, said I was sorry and left. We talked later on and she felt as if she couldn't trust who I was. Our conversations outside of work were breif if nonexistent. But at work was as if nothing never happened. She still does her gaze at. She never wears makeup, perfume, or does her hair unless I'm there or so was told.