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Lmao
Good lord, maybe I need Jesus
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They did say to expect some blast from the past. My ex from like 12 years ago found me on FB. It was so eerie to talk to him. Plus one of my best male friends who I haven't seen in like 5 years is in town. People are just popping up out the woodwork. Which sucks cause I'm a sensitive, emotional wreck this week. PLEASE LEAVE MERCURY IN RETROGRADE!
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Water dominant right here lol. I'm into astrology but not that much, i prefer real life things to astro talk. Just saying. Whats in your chart, BSC?
This is a long one so...
So, I'd been talking to this guy since last September/October and he's a Libra and I'm a Cancer.
I didn't know he was a Libra when I first saw him, but I was attracted to him as soon as he walked in. Immediately.
Anyway, so I move to sit next to him and he starts talking to me and I did my best to keep the conversation going.
He started waiting for me after class, then he stopped. He also acted like he wanted to hang out, but then would cancel if he knew it wouldn't just be us.
He always always apologised for canceling though.
So, I gave up because the getting just got to be too tough. That's when he decided to walk and talk to me again-- when I started to ignore him...
Okay, so I asked him if he would like to go on a very casual date, then I tried to take it back the next time I saw him (I'm no good with rejection). He said he'd rather not forget it and that he'd love to.
He also told me that he was recently unengaged and that was why he was so cold to me.
He ex-fiance left him for another man and then wrote to him 6 mths later telling him why she left.
I've previously "talked" with a recently unengaged guy and felt a bit cautious... plus I'm not super secure and this Libra is...hotness. I thought, Of course you had a fiance, you're frickin gorgeous.
Anyway, so it took us forever to go out. He even disappeared for a while, but he got a lot better at that after he told me how much he liked talking with me and that he didn't want to not talk to me.
He said this because I told him that he could stop talking to me if he wanted to.
So, we finally went for coffee and he told me anything I wanted to know. I asked his age, he told me (oddly insecure about it), I asked about his ex, he told me, about his family. He even told me things about his ex and family that I didn't even bring up. He talked about religion, art, balance, and harmony a bit too. He seemed real into it and I liked that.
He's got a passion for his interests that I just find so appealing, and good lord the man is a conversationalist which is hot.
He told me he was nervous, but... I didn't see why. I've never dated, but he doesn't know that.
Well, after the coffee, we went our separate ways.
Continued...
Okay, I'm a Leo female July 26 talking this Virgo guy August 26... I've been reading several threads on here for awhile just need some insight... So, here we go!
This Virguy I'm talking with he seems to be social when we're on the phone or via texting but when we're together seems very distant and doesn't say anything.. Like literally, I don't mind but I'm exactly the same way it's not i'm nervous it's just how I'm always been with close friends and relatives I'm always quiet I know for a female Leo considered to be life of the party loud I'm completely opposite of my sign.
This Virguy always text and calls me on regular basis which is very nice something I'm not used to. Very honest, I don't mind his criticism found them to be a way looking out for me I supposed. Seems like very geniune person always ask me about my feelings towards him I tell him. Seems, to like what I have to say.
What's the problem? He has a girlfriend but he states "something he's just testing" but I asked him couple days ago, How long he's been with her? He told me 1 year, I also asked if he loves her? He responds " Well, I've been with her for a year of course there will be some type of feeling but it's only 50% ". Me personally, I wasn't upset. But really upset with myself that I'm talking to someone whom already is involved with someone and now he wants to get out of the relationship. Which i know Karma will be a real pain in my bump! Once dis guy leave her for me. He claims her family doesn't like him because he's not Muslim, her parents are giving him a hard time blah blah blah. But he doesn't want to hurt her feelings also his girlfriend hasn't done anything for him to act so mean towards her.
Ok, so I understand, I'm not pressuring this virguy to be with me what's so ever! I try my best to keep him on the FRIENDZONE and nothing much. But he continues to act as if we're in a relationship or I'm his girlfriend. Every couple days he's been opening up to me talking about his previous relationships and things that bother him. But I just don't feel comfortable being with someone who's already in a relationship
What type of game is this Virgo trying to play here?? Insight Thanks