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Feb 04, 2012Comments: 0 · Posts: 3039 · Topics: 111
was i sposed to say sorry?
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I went to a basket auction last night because my son was singing there and tonight I'm going to see the Dropkick Murphy's.
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Mar 13, 2012Comments: 2 · Posts: 1266 · Topics: 237
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i really relate to this having been a scorp on the other side of a leo with an on/off ex. he made another attempt to get together with me when they were off but because i was reticent to let myself get hurt again, it took months to resume dialogue with him. then he became so non-committal that i started dating someone else and after a few weeks i started to see the leo out with the on/off gf again.
to me his body language reeks of him wanting me whereas he barely acknowledges his gf in public. but at the end of the day, i don't want a man who can't make up his mind. one who makes you feel you have to somehow outdo an ex to make yourself worthy enough for them to actually leave them behind for good. hell will freeze over before i become sloppy seconds.
it has hurt like hell in the past. seriously....never been hurt by a man that way before. now i just believe 'what will be, will be'. this has all been going on for over 2 years now but i never once put my life on hold for him...still won't.
it's very hard but you have to believe that things happen for a reason. this is probably the first time he's decided to get back with his ex after having formed a close connection to another woman. those feelings don't just wash away. for on/off couples there is usually alot of volatility in the relationship which becomes exhausting after a while. it's up to him to decide when he's had enough....and i'm sure he will eventually.
the question is whether you will still be available to him. all i would say to you is do NOT give him understanding right now. you have a RIGHT to be angry and hurt over this cos it's actually very offensive of him to openly choose his ex over you.
and tell him to quit fucking crying....what's HE got to cry about??
grrrrrrrrrr.
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What is your favourite musical? Mine is Guys and Dolls. I discovered this musical (saw the film) at the age of about 16 (I am now 54) and I still seem to think about it and the songs from it every day. I wonder if it might be something to do with Sarah Brown (Jean Simmons) being a "Virgo type" (she had Virgo rising and I have noticed that I am attracted to women with Virgo rising and I adore Jean Simmons).
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checking in for capricorn. There are a couple of us hanging around.
thanks guys i really appreciate your help here.as for his ex i found out shes a sagittarius. so we're both his compatible type.so last night he called and i happened to be in the shower and he called back to back 3 times.then finally leaves a vm saying that.please dont hate me i never lied tp you about my ex we have a history of 10 years and he feels obligated to give it one more try. and that he didnt plan on me.and if this doesnt work and i still want him back,he's flat out cutting her off. i called him. back and told him has caused me the worst pain ever and does not deserve any happiness then i hung up...hes coming over to get the rest of his stuff in ,2days. how should i act?
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Haha Gandalf. Good smell is serious bidness.
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So , I was on here not to long ago about this same guy . He's my co-worker & I'm really under the impression that he may like me , but I'm not 100% sure if that's legit or if this is all self-inflicted in my mind. In my previous topic I posted , I explained how he acts towards me & around me . I can tell he likes working next to me & he's even made jokes about how none of the other employees/managers wants "us to be together" (work together) . I think there may be some truth to that that b/c all the other female employees seem to have a crush on him , lol . He's always talks to me in a way that's very different from how he speaks to everyone else , too . I've also noticed how he'll do/say things out of no where like he's trying to get my attention . He's been doing this for a while , but I'm just now picking up on it . I'll admit , I'm always on the move so there's times when things like this will literally just fly over my head , lol . But if he does like me even a little bit , I don't wanna give him the impression that I'm not interested b/c I definitely am . I'm just not the "in your face" kind of girl . I'm reserved & very cautious when it comes to relationships . How can I show him that I'm interested w/o having to step out of my comfort zone too much ? And if any of you have experiences with Cancer male & Capricorn female relationships or know someone who does how did it work out ?