Does having sex w/ cap male change the friendship?

Posted by ay018
Before he asks me to be his gf he never even said he likes me.

Which tells you what, exactly?

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and sadly... lol this is a real competitor apparently...
Evan Lysacek
Posted by everevolvingepithet
So what's dazed done to warrant this post?


Probably chose the scorpio chick... over bluemoon or something ^.^
mentioned like 3 chicks up their after all lol
I dont think its about ur sign
it depends on their looks/personality/voice/the way they treat u
I met some aquas that stinked and had bad teeth and looked pretty ugly with bad physical shape
some nerdy
some very stupid
some agressive mean and loud
on the other hand ive met some sweeeet aquas
good looks
nice fashion taste
smart and funny
so it all depends on the above things not ur sign
Posted by Ligeia
I fantasize far too often. Having a water Moon will do that
to you. It's great to just indulge in the what if boundless
landscape of your mind's imagination. This is generally speaking.
Don't know if you're meaning sexual fantasies here because you did
mention it once.


I have a Cancer moon, but now I realize that I may be too realistic for fantasies. If I don't think it will happen I dismiss it. Now I'm sad cause that really shows how much I lack a damn imagination!!!
I was talking about sexual ones. Usually daydreams are me planning how I want certain things to go or rerunning scenarios in my mind. I do that a lot.
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My co-worker: "You finally coming out of your shell."
Me: "It depends on my mood."
My Scorpio friend: "I like my personal space."
Another Scorpio: " I like being bossy."
AWWWW This is so nice! I was in a relationship with a Gemini for tons of years and we were always able to keep a great friendship even after. He was the yin to my yang. We still get along great and can play around like best friends but there is just no romance. I'm very glad he is still in my life. You Geminis are great too!!!
Yes, I think narcissists can come in the highly attentive, nice guy package. That's why they're appealing to codependents, they provide a lot of time and attention, and it makes the codependent feel like they've found someone to dote on and who appreciates all of their attention.
However, if the narcissist gets bored, he's just gone with no apologies.
Or becomes abusive and controlling.
I've known both types. I even wonder if the same man could do both, just at different times in his life or with different types of women, or even with the same woman if she behaves differently toward him (if she's over-enabling, he gets bored and disappears, if she's hard to control, he becomes possessive and possibly abusive).
The craving for attention and admiration they have can be confusing, because they will eat up the empathy of a codependent with a spoon, and can do it for months or years, and then it's mistaken as them actually giving a fuck about someone other than themselves.
I think it's good to avoid men who obsess a little too much on having a physical ideal. That's a weird objectifying way of seeing women, and even if they get a woman with that particular "look" it doesn't mean the relationship will work, it will be healthy, she will stay with him, or that he'll even be happy; meanwhile he would reject a more suitable partner who did not fit his imaginary ideal.
It's kind of pathetic actually, because the narcissist only loves himself, and even when he thinks he's "in love," it's about HIM and his perfect image, not the woman he's actually with.
You do know that Aquas are actually attracted to each other as well right?
Are you frustrated today?
Posted by DazedScorp
Posted by DazedScorp
Maybe it's just me...
But if I can wrap both hands around it, one on top of another, and still have a bit more to work with beyond my hands...
That seems like a good length to me.
Girth? Being able to touch my thumb to my middle finger, or just barely being able to seems like a good fit.


So roughly...
7"-8" length
6.5"-7.5" girth
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I have very big hands, so big that if you think it has any correlations to penis size, you're in for a disappointment, and yet I can wrap both my hands around it and still have some more to work with. And I am not 8 inches. So I don't know how some you guys measure.
And Dazed... dude... 6.5 inches GIRTH is like 16,5 cm! It's not only big, it's off-the-charts! Let's not even talk about 7.5 inches girth. It's unheard of. Have you actually ever met anyone that big, or are you implying that you are that "girthy". If that's the case then let me open a bottle of my best champagne ;P
Seriousely though boys and girls, stop relying on your hands and pick up a measuring tape. Or else this'll turn into a freakshow in no time.