***Male Cancer/Libra Woman***
Posted by xMoonManPosted by ChildOftheMoon
I've never gotten along with Libras, I haven't met any Libra that I like yet.
I notice your Aries ascendant is in opposition to your Pluto in Libra - 7th house.
7th house covers marriage, committed relationships, contractual partnerships, one-to-one relationships, business partnerships, law, justice, rivals & adversaries.
Libra is the natural ruler of house 7.
I think if you dig deeper there is a karmic connection here, something you need to understand if you don't want it to cause you continuous issues into the future.
There may be stuff "hidden" under the surface, you need to delve in, bring it to the surface and work on it. (if you want too, that is, choice is yours).click to expand
From what I've read the sign on the 7th house indicates the type of person (aspects) you're attracted to not necessarily the sign. My stepfather and mother are Libras and one of my exes was a libra, I find them to be too rigid and stubborn. I'm very flexible and have an openminded. It also said something about power struggles in relationships and how I have a hard time connecting to people which is true.
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I don't need any stantards because I don't need a boyfriend I'm 23years old
oh my word. i have venus in libra too and you described me in a 'relationship' to a tee. the word vacillates is just perfect (and now my word of the week).
the 'mind game' of him telling you to go out and seek other men is cos he doesn't feel capable of giving you what you need emotionally. i dunno...it always scares the shit out of me when someone says something intense about how they feel about me and mostly cos i imagine there's an expectation of me feeling the same about them and on the whole, i don't really FEEL very much.....or i do but they are so transient sometimes as to be non-existent.
i've also got merc in scorpio like him and communication on an emotional level is nigh on impossible. i come out in hives just thinking about it lol!!
the 'mind game' of him telling you to go out and seek other men is cos he doesn't feel capable of giving you what you need emotionally. i dunno...it always scares the shit out of me when someone says something intense about how they feel about me and mostly cos i imagine there's an expectation of me feeling the same about them and on the whole, i don't really FEEL very much.....or i do but they are so transient sometimes as to be non-existent.
i've also got merc in scorpio like him and communication on an emotional level is nigh on impossible. i come out in hives just thinking about it lol!!
Posted by ellessque
why are you tormenting yourself? *sigh*
you look purdy elle
Hi everyone
This is my first post here
.......... before i never used to believe in star signs until now
This Libra guy is so confusing .. the only way i've started to figure him out is by knowing his star sign
LOL
Im a typical emotional cancerian ... who just wants constant, love, affection and cuddles
and I've met a Libra ... HE IS THE MOST CONFUSING GUY IVE EVER COME ACROSS
He constantly feeds me mixed signals... which doesnt work with me because being a typical cancerian
I crave security
We used to talk on the phone all day and every day ... We've been on a few dates to the movies...
He's slightly religious and is hesitant about dating I feel
and when he goes out with me ... He's always teasing me about how I'm an exception for him and his beliefs
and says that on the phone too "I dont talk on the phone for this long with just anyone..."
I MEAN COME ON. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?
This was all good ... until I came across one his girl friends
and I think ive gotten him used to being around confident and loud girls like me
and now hes always so occupied with these new girls
WHAT HAPPENED TO "US" ... and our friendship or what i thought was slowly but surely progressing into something more meaningful
How could i have been so wrong? He was so touchy and feely on our dates
but other times VERY reserved
I have been so patient with this guy. I've confronted him. asked him whats going on.
he said hes not sure? and doesnt know what hes feeling
If he wanted to leave me to it... he could of done
but he hasnt
the amount of times ive let my emotions get the better of me... and i absolutely poured my heart out to him lol
I literally wear my heart on my sleeve with this guy
anyways
what should i do? wait around? when hes clearly having fun with a bunch of other girls
But yet when i tell him this ... he has this way of making me feel like "I am the only one" and he makes me stay
When i know the fact that im the only one is not true...
Being the typical Libra... hes a massive flirt.
Flirts with every girl and i dont know how i feel about him being so preoccupied with these new girls
How should i proceed with him? Should I even bother?
How can i communicate how I feel better with him?
I cant ignore people either. This is proving to be very difficult.
So I'm not really allowing him any time to miss me.
DAMN IT
This is my first post here
.......... before i never used to believe in star signs until now
This Libra guy is so confusing .. the only way i've started to figure him out is by knowing his star sign
LOL
Im a typical emotional cancerian ... who just wants constant, love, affection and cuddles
and I've met a Libra ... HE IS THE MOST CONFUSING GUY IVE EVER COME ACROSS
He constantly feeds me mixed signals... which doesnt work with me because being a typical cancerian
I crave security
We used to talk on the phone all day and every day ... We've been on a few dates to the movies...
He's slightly religious and is hesitant about dating I feel
and when he goes out with me ... He's always teasing me about how I'm an exception for him and his beliefs
and says that on the phone too "I dont talk on the phone for this long with just anyone..."
I MEAN COME ON. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?
This was all good ... until I came across one his girl friends
and I think ive gotten him used to being around confident and loud girls like me
and now hes always so occupied with these new girls
WHAT HAPPENED TO "US" ... and our friendship or what i thought was slowly but surely progressing into something more meaningful
How could i have been so wrong? He was so touchy and feely on our dates
but other times VERY reserved
I have been so patient with this guy. I've confronted him. asked him whats going on.
he said hes not sure? and doesnt know what hes feeling
If he wanted to leave me to it... he could of done
but he hasnt
the amount of times ive let my emotions get the better of me... and i absolutely poured my heart out to him lol
I literally wear my heart on my sleeve with this guy
anyways
what should i do? wait around? when hes clearly having fun with a bunch of other girls
But yet when i tell him this ... he has this way of making me feel like "I am the only one" and he makes me stay
When i know the fact that im the only one is not true...
Being the typical Libra... hes a massive flirt.
Flirts with every girl and i dont know how i feel about him being so preoccupied with these new girls
How should i proceed with him? Should I even bother?
How can i communicate how I feel better with him?
I cant ignore people either. This is proving to be very difficult.
So I'm not really allowing him any time to miss me.
DAMN IT
Posted by Sutekh
Rihanna's probably has different ethnicities of insects.
Rihanna is definitely a tight one
.....I just started reading and I know I'm gonna piss myself laughing through this thread
LOL, I don't think he minded your perception being a bit off.. 
Posted by Sutekh
Ladies if you got a big one don't be shy.
LOL! See.
Inana... precisely! those are exactly my thoughts. he wants this all on his terms. sure, man, whatever! he can have his terms! lol doesnt mean i'll be responding for a long time.
Elle... ?! what did i do???
i mean, trust me, if he emails me again and asks about someone's event or ANYTHING where we might see each other in person, he'll just never hear back from me! though part of me wonders if there's anything i can do that is "the right thing" because i feel like even ignoring, blocking, blowing off, icing out... will ALL incite a reaction from him. i hope i'm wrong and he just gets over it in a lil more time.
Sag, you're cute. well, with that line of reasoning, how can i not take your advice to heart. lol
Elle... ?! what did i do???
i mean, trust me, if he emails me again and asks about someone's event or ANYTHING where we might see each other in person, he'll just never hear back from me! though part of me wonders if there's anything i can do that is "the right thing" because i feel like even ignoring, blocking, blowing off, icing out... will ALL incite a reaction from him. i hope i'm wrong and he just gets over it in a lil more time.Sag, you're cute. well, with that line of reasoning, how can i not take your advice to heart. lol
yes Elle... very hot! ^_^
Posted by miso
Interesting query, Sutekh.
Ewww, some of those pics made me want to vomit.