Posted by everevolvingepithet
Lol, worry about it when the times comes?
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
^^So do you feel with age you become more self-aware and know 'where you are coming from'?
If so then touch? and valid point.... And thank you for the insightful knowledge.
Posted by PurrrrPosted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Ummm does sm = purr?
Dude, I've been put through the fucking wringer on this site and have nothing to lose. You think I'm gonna create a new account just to say THAT? Hahahaha, no. Whatever I have to say, I'll say using my regular account. I'm not the type to create hate threads dedicated to someone, either, lol.click to expand
Posted by SneakyPosted by tiziani
If i'm understanding correctly, I think the word you were looking for instead of "dominant" was "generous". I may be wrong. But it is a valid question to ask can a man be generous as well as selfish? And a common contradiction today.
No, I didn't mean generous.
Okay, real life story:
I know a girl that was really into a guy and they started dating. Weeks later, I come across her and she looks bothered. She basically said that she thinks she loves him but wishes he would feel the same way about her.
Fast forward to a random moment that oral sex was being discussed. She basically said that this guy always pushes her head down, dominantly, whenever he wants her to go down on him.
I think that is an unmistakeably dominant move on his behalf, and if it works for them then it works for them.
But if I had to assume something about this guy, is that he is selfish, and possibly entirely consumed by his own benefit. And that he is the last person to be able to emotionally support her, which is what she needs.
That's why I associate dominance with selfishness, and selflessness with emotionalism and romanticism.
I really hope I made sense here.click to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by NotYourAverageAquarius
^^So do you feel with age you become more self-aware and know 'where you are coming from'?
If so then touch? and valid point.... And thank you for the insightful knowledge.
No, not exactly. I think with age and maturity we are more able to define and communicate what it is we need. We know. Communication tends to be the major issue for Scorps.click to expand
Posted by PoissonPosted by NotYourAverageAquarius
I think we are over complicating this subject just a tad bit don't you think. If sex ever got this complicated good lord...
Seriously. I think I'd stick to masturbating. I'm too horny to think about the politics...click to expand