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Posted by aquasnoz
Haha for sure I use to be a lot more tolerant but I guess the further along your journey you tend to adopt the fuck it philosophy! If people provoke me with no reason, I either just not pay attention or fire back with a seemingly substance-less threat. So in regards to sleeping, I just either keep sleeping or tell them with a smile "wake me up again and that pen is going in your eyeball".

Posted by Marmotini
I'm not sure what's to be done about that. My ESFJ friend used to say "when people tell you who they are, believe them."
The next time a guy tells me "all my girlfriends dump me because I emotionally shut down at some point, like my feelings are all trapped inside of me" I will immediately believe him and run away as quickly as possible.

It's a bit blurry I think but there's a bit of truth when people say things about themselves like that. They must still be caught in that thought process for them to even say it. I believe what people say about themselves, it's much easier that way and when they become inconsistent it's much easier to point it out to them.

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Posted by geminicandlelight
Yes, no, maybe?
I figured to keep up with tonight's sex theme, to throw this one in.
Share your anal sex experiences here, and dont pretend you've never even thought about it!Lol

Posted by DazedScorp
Hammer time

Posted by ellessque
It depends on the partner.
I also think it depends on the level of comfort with your partner.
lol...stop watching porn for instruction. It's great for inspiring ideas but alot of that stuff is exaggerated.
It's really no different than when a woman performs oral sex and she's not into it. Men can tell. So, women are not any different.
I think receiving oral sex for a woman is more intimate and if you are not comfortable with your partner, you may not be able to relax and truly enjoy it.
You also have to understand that men are not born just knowing how to do it and all women's lady bits are not identical. If it's not being done in a way that is satisfying you, it's important for you to say so, or direct him.
One way that might help is masturbating in front of your partner...with the lights on...lol. That way he can see which area is most stimulating to you. That also can build trust and comfort.
As far as squirting. Some say that's not something everyone can do. I don't know if I believe that. I do believe that you have to really understand and study your body. You need to explore everything and you probably need to do it alone before you attempt it with a partner. When women orgasm, you naturally contract or "squeeze".....consciously do the opposite....release. It might seem "weird" the first time and a bit surprising....but eventually it will just happen naturally without any thought.