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HEHE : )
Yes, I'm happy. (Sort of!!)
Thank God I listened to Cappyguy (Thanks so much for your input).
After much deliaberation, and nerves, I got ready for the worst and called my CAPBOY!!!! (Remember he hadn't called all week).
Well, not only was he VERY VERY HAPPY to hear from me, I can actually confirm that YES, HE WAS GIDDY!! LOL ( A man giddy.. who knew? lol.. well, in a manly way!!) We talked for a little while and I told him in a very relaxed and humourous way that we should hang out.. ( He has a bad cold and had been home from work for a day or two).
He was VERY WELCOMING to th idea. He even went on to ask my why I didn't go on MSN..that he had looked for me all week to no avail . hehe
I told him that I logged on once or twice but I DO NOT message people who have their status to busy.
HE also told me he was planning on clubbing with his buddies that night but was probably gonna stay home instead cuz of his bad cold. So that yeah.. we should hangout if it's something chill. Just as I was to suggest something for our evening...when everything was going great..we unfortunately got interrupted by a call from his Mom.
He came back to my line, energy and voice changed, and said that we'd have to "talk later" cuz something very serious is going on at home. (??) I actually sort of "asked" him if it was ok for me to call him back later. (someone hit me for saying this!!! I guess I wanted to know that I had to option...) I was sincerely hoping to perform a little Taurean sensual healing magic on him that night!!! Which has NEVER failed
) I called him back about 7 hours later, and left a simple message on his cell phone saying that I was calling back.
Nothing.
So in a big way, this is good. Because I know he's interested. BUT in another big way.. I'm REALLY not used to being the one doing the chasing. I'm now CONVINCED that when this guy said he LIKES AGGRESSIVE WOMEN, he WAS NOT kidding!LOL It's really hard for me though to proceed as the one being "in charge".. I DO NOT like it and In my very extensive relationship and dating experience, I've NEVER been the one to "hunt down a guy! ".. SHEEESHHH!!!
Anyways, the ball is in his court. I left him a message and if he wants to call me back, he can. Maybe something really bad went on at home..maybe not.. maybe it was an excuse (although I kinda doubt it.. he seemed quite sincere.. but GOD KNOWS!)..
I'm Bummed about his "aloofness" and seemed insecurity but I guess this is the way this capboy operates. I really think I now have to just hang out do my thing and let him find me.
I have tickets to something I KNOW he would LOVE for next friday...which I never had the chance to mention to him. I'm afraid he wont call again and this week will be another game of "will he or wont he". I CAN'T TAKE THIS!!!! I've heard Capguys move slow, but this is NOT proactive. LOL
Should I call him on Wednesday, continue to be the "forward girl" and offer him the suggestion of joining me to this "thing" on Friday? Or perhaps I should just move on and give him the opportunity to display a little more "aggressivity"..
Thing is, I'm highly intuitive and I really think I have a great opportunity with this guy. I've gone out on "first dates" with others.. and nothing compares. He and I have something.. I know it. ANd I know he knows it too. I really believe he's just kinda "in his own world".
Why are caps so reserved? Anyone else know shy caps ( males ones?)
Just wanted to update you. And yes, I'm glad I called him.
But now I'm back to square one!!! (sigh)...
Westcoastangel..any news?
Earthgirl.
Yes, I'm happy. (Sort of!!)
Thank God I listened to Cappyguy (Thanks so much for your input).
After much deliaberation, and nerves, I got ready for the worst and called my CAPBOY!!!! (Remember he hadn't called all week).
Well, not only was he VERY VERY HAPPY to hear from me, I can actually confirm that YES, HE WAS GIDDY!! LOL ( A man giddy.. who knew? lol.. well, in a manly way!!) We talked for a little while and I told him in a very relaxed and humourous way that we should hang out.. ( He has a bad cold and had been home from work for a day or two).
He was VERY WELCOMING to th idea. He even went on to ask my why I didn't go on MSN..that he had looked for me all week to no avail . hehe
I told him that I logged on once or twice but I DO NOT message people who have their status to busy.
HE also told me he was planning on clubbing with his buddies that night but was probably gonna stay home instead cuz of his bad cold. So that yeah.. we should hangout if it's something chill. Just as I was to suggest something for our evening...when everything was going great..we unfortunately got interrupted by a call from his Mom.
He came back to my line, energy and voice changed, and said that we'd have to "talk later" cuz something very serious is going on at home. (??) I actually sort of "asked" him if it was ok for me to call him back later. (someone hit me for saying this!!! I guess I wanted to know that I had to option...) I was sincerely hoping to perform a little Taurean sensual healing magic on him that night!!! Which has NEVER failed
) I called him back about 7 hours later, and left a simple message on his cell phone saying that I was calling back. Nothing.
So in a big way, this is good. Because I know he's interested. BUT in another big way.. I'm REALLY not used to being the one doing the chasing. I'm now CONVINCED that when this guy said he LIKES AGGRESSIVE WOMEN, he WAS NOT kidding!LOL It's really hard for me though to proceed as the one being "in charge".. I DO NOT like it and In my very extensive relationship and dating experience, I've NEVER been the one to "hunt down a guy! ".. SHEEESHHH!!!
Anyways, the ball is in his court. I left him a message and if he wants to call me back, he can. Maybe something really bad went on at home..maybe not.. maybe it was an excuse (although I kinda doubt it.. he seemed quite sincere.. but GOD KNOWS!)..
I'm Bummed about his "aloofness" and seemed insecurity but I guess this is the way this capboy operates. I really think I now have to just hang out do my thing and let him find me.
I have tickets to something I KNOW he would LOVE for next friday...which I never had the chance to mention to him. I'm afraid he wont call again and this week will be another game of "will he or wont he". I CAN'T TAKE THIS!!!! I've heard Capguys move slow, but this is NOT proactive. LOL
Should I call him on Wednesday, continue to be the "forward girl" and offer him the suggestion of joining me to this "thing" on Friday? Or perhaps I should just move on and give him the opportunity to display a little more "aggressivity"..
Thing is, I'm highly intuitive and I really think I have a great opportunity with this guy. I've gone out on "first dates" with others.. and nothing compares. He and I have something.. I know it. ANd I know he knows it too. I really believe he's just kinda "in his own world".
Why are caps so reserved? Anyone else know shy caps ( males ones?)
Just wanted to update you. And yes, I'm glad I called him.
But now I'm back to square one!!! (sigh)...
Westcoastangel..any news?
Earthgirl.
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"You want to bring a kid in the world and the man says no, then you deal with it ON YOUR OWN."
And how did that woman because pregnant? The man was passing on the street and accidently he stubled on small rock and by sliding over ground his d!ck accidently became inside of that woman?
Unless such situation is possible, man cannot say "you are on your own".
And how did that woman because pregnant? The man was passing on the street and accidently he stubled on small rock and by sliding over ground his d!ck accidently became inside of that woman?
Unless such situation is possible, man cannot say "you are on your own".
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"A good analogy would be a fearri sitting in a garage versus a Dodge intrepet on the road. If someone can't drive a Fearri, then they aren't making good use of it. Compare this to a superb driver of a Dodge Intrepid. That Dodge is going to out out race tha Fearri any day, because the Intrepid driver makes use of all of the Dodge features. The Fearri driver use, because they don't know how to make good use of the vehicle. Get it?"
This is a good way to put it and it allows me to see where your head is.
I agree with what you have said here. Scorpios will split into two categories - the Ferrari driver who does not drive at all, or at least drives poorly, because they do not know how to use the whole thing well. They may take shortcuts to the finish line because of their innate need to stray from an expected path with an expected set of driving patterns. Then -- there is the Ferrari driver who is timeless and classless with how they drive, meaning that don't wait and calculate the right times and the right forms of how to do something (like lower Scorps might do), but they drive in the ways that only they know how to - making it a creative and unexpected way of driving.
Who can criticse Scorpio for this? Driving in unexpected ways is required if you are not to be neutralized. For instance, Time must meutralize all things in the end, which is why Scorpio must be Timeless and Empty if it wants to survive. Either a Scorp does this by hiding and not even leaving for the race, which is a failure to do much (because you still lose), or Scorp can do this by driving the Ferrari superbly in ways that no other driver really knows how. Even though it is Scorpio that represents this, it is something that all signs must come to learn.
"Aries women always make the best use out of their sexuality and likability, where sometimes Scorp women make poor use of it all."
Yes it can work out like this, agreed.
"Scorps are more complex so maybe its harder for them to make efficent use of their desirable quality."
Most definitely so!
"Remember complicated doesn't always mean better. But I have to go, I'll return later."
No it does not. Taurus is the sign that shows us the wisdom of simplicity and straight common sense, but without Scorpio and complexity to balance this out, then too much simplicity would allow us to be led.
I'll be back later too.
This is a good way to put it and it allows me to see where your head is.
I agree with what you have said here. Scorpios will split into two categories - the Ferrari driver who does not drive at all, or at least drives poorly, because they do not know how to use the whole thing well. They may take shortcuts to the finish line because of their innate need to stray from an expected path with an expected set of driving patterns. Then -- there is the Ferrari driver who is timeless and classless with how they drive, meaning that don't wait and calculate the right times and the right forms of how to do something (like lower Scorps might do), but they drive in the ways that only they know how to - making it a creative and unexpected way of driving.
Who can criticse Scorpio for this? Driving in unexpected ways is required if you are not to be neutralized. For instance, Time must meutralize all things in the end, which is why Scorpio must be Timeless and Empty if it wants to survive. Either a Scorp does this by hiding and not even leaving for the race, which is a failure to do much (because you still lose), or Scorp can do this by driving the Ferrari superbly in ways that no other driver really knows how. Even though it is Scorpio that represents this, it is something that all signs must come to learn.
"Aries women always make the best use out of their sexuality and likability, where sometimes Scorp women make poor use of it all."
Yes it can work out like this, agreed.
"Scorps are more complex so maybe its harder for them to make efficent use of their desirable quality."
Most definitely so!
"Remember complicated doesn't always mean better. But I have to go, I'll return later."
No it does not. Taurus is the sign that shows us the wisdom of simplicity and straight common sense, but without Scorpio and complexity to balance this out, then too much simplicity would allow us to be led.
I'll be back later too.
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"Well said Elliot...Bran, sorry but you REALLY do have an issue with Scorps..whatever your reasons.."
I used to think that, but I don't think he does based on his latest posts. I think he's just a Virgo lol, but they don't mean any harm. Relax the stingers for just now.
"envy can be a real bitch"
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I used to think that, but I don't think he does based on his latest posts. I think he's just a Virgo lol, but they don't mean any harm. Relax the stingers for just now.
"envy can be a real bitch"
Lol
"You guys do realise that all this comes into effect only when the baby is born outside of wedlock. What happens if the child is born within the marriage. I wonder if the woman then should only be responsible for taking care of the child. If so , where does the man come into this equation in a marriage? What is his role in it? And if he doesn't have much responsibility inside the marriage then what would significance does marriage play in society? And I am not talking from the Pro-life and pro-choice point of view. Just a social and personal point of view. "
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Haha I try not to, but I can't repress everything I all kinds of different release. You only ever see the tiniest fraction of it here.
This board definitely used to be fun though, and now when I come here I'm thinking about who will be the first to disagree with me and tell me that I need to change myself. Lol no stress though haha, it's life.
Don't worry - change will come and this board will be the most fun one soon enough.
This board definitely used to be fun though, and now when I come here I'm thinking about who will be the first to disagree with me and tell me that I need to change myself. Lol no stress though haha, it's life.
Don't worry - change will come and this board will be the most fun one soon enough.
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but I can't repress everything I *need* all kinds of different release.
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If man says "I don't want a kid, so releif me from child support and make her abortion or she takes all responsibility" then this man is a b!tch. If you didn't want the kid, why did you made her pregnant?
"They send you a letter saying some woman says you made her preganant and now you are going to pay child support. Unless, at your expense, you go and prove you are not the father, you will be paying for that kid, yours or not. Now how is that fair? "Her body, her choice, her responsibility."
It works both way. If you say that this kid is yours, you have to prove it.
If man says "I don't want a kid, so releif me from child support and make her abortion or she takes all responsibility" then this man is a b!tch. If you didn't want the kid, why did you made her pregnant?
"They send you a letter saying some woman says you made her preganant and now you are going to pay child support. Unless, at your expense, you go and prove you are not the father, you will be paying for that kid, yours or not. Now how is that fair? "Her body, her choice, her responsibility."
It works both way. If you say that this kid is yours, you have to prove it.
Whom? A people hater?
"Funny you should say that haffo because the most materialistic people I know are librans. They seem to be overly obsessed with designer labels and having the best and most expensive of everything, regardless of the fact that you can get the same thing for a fraction of the cost. Taureans are in my experience the most materialistic earth sign."
Libras does not practise it as a sign of power, control and status. They do it for aesthetics which is far from what I say.
"I dont really understand the point you are making about how an individual's propensity to envy correlates with the status, power and control that individual has. Envy is a basic human trait that everyone may exhibit. It's hopefully a trait that most people grow out of as they grow up and realise that there is more to life."
You are right. We all have more or less envy to things that was being gained by people before us. But that is the point, as I said "Are Cappies 'overly' envious?", see the "overly" part? Yeah and the envy to what others have means "I want it too, because I want to be as powerful and controlling as they are". That is either Cappy quality or Taurean.
Libras does not practise it as a sign of power, control and status. They do it for aesthetics which is far from what I say.
"I dont really understand the point you are making about how an individual's propensity to envy correlates with the status, power and control that individual has. Envy is a basic human trait that everyone may exhibit. It's hopefully a trait that most people grow out of as they grow up and realise that there is more to life."
You are right. We all have more or less envy to things that was being gained by people before us. But that is the point, as I said "Are Cappies 'overly' envious?", see the "overly" part? Yeah and the envy to what others have means "I want it too, because I want to be as powerful and controlling as they are". That is either Cappy quality or Taurean.