Advice needed.. I think i blew my chances with a g
OK. Leo-girl-with-cap. I'm trying to calm down from my royal fukcup and I want to give you some advice. I think you should hold off calling him. At least for a little while. Wait at LEAST a week. If you were very direct, frank and honest in your email... yes, he may have gotten more than he bargained for but if you two have been getting closer as you said, this is all stuff to make him think. This coming and going sounds like typical cap behaviour. I think he'll come back. I do. Just be a little more patient. Wait a week and re-evaluate. Maybe two.
Yes, waiting is hard.. I suck at it (although I SERIOUSLY am in a different position, afterall.. i got "physical" with my guy on the first date!!..OK I have to stop reminding myself of what an idiot I am).
Sweetie, just wait. I don't think making him chase forever is the answer..but wait a little.
I know how frustrated you are about the "initiating contact"..it seems to be the way with these boys.
Earthgirl
Yes, waiting is hard.. I suck at it (although I SERIOUSLY am in a different position, afterall.. i got "physical" with my guy on the first date!!..OK I have to stop reminding myself of what an idiot I am).
Sweetie, just wait. I don't think making him chase forever is the answer..but wait a little.
I know how frustrated you are about the "initiating contact"..it seems to be the way with these boys.
Earthgirl
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Crab,
apparently mine not so secret crush is you, lol
::reaches for steak knife:::
dancing bread now I have to kill you. It really is too bad, I'm sure you were a nice guy
apparently mine not so secret crush is you, lol
::reaches for steak knife:::
dancing bread now I have to kill you. It really is too bad, I'm sure you were a nice guy
Naw crab. I'm a little high on cat nip right now. I'm saving it for when I get the munchies.
I fear what all normal people should fear the most: death
I'm hoping frank, vienna has a feminine ring to it : )
...Eve was easy n Adam was hard, hahahahahaha...
lol!!!
lol!!!
"Very good point...we have a habit of ignoring the fact that we could die at any moment..."
I don't think people ignore the thought of death - they simply try to suppress it.
I don't think people ignore the thought of death - they simply try to suppress it.
Ah well... yes *rolls eyes upwards
I guess so
I guess so
I have to go you guys. Thanks for the laugh
Still, i'd prefer a fast painless death over a slow painful one any day. Actually, the best way to die is in your sleep.
that was pretty funny