What Taurus male thinks of Scorpio females
Posted by AreTwoFourPosted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I've figured the problem out though (I think). Let me know if this makes sense. I really think I've stumbled upon a deep insight here:
Neither sign wants to lose the control. Its a balance of power thing. When I am cocky and confident, and even ready to approach her, I can tell she is nervous and feeling out of control. I gain my control and power by *waiting* things out, by *not* pursuing and being passive. The *result* of this delaying is that she (being naturally assertive/aggressive) is utterly confused about how I feel, and she will get a little dodgy (her dodginess is really easy to read - she gets on the phone when she walks by, etc. - total prop - still staring right at me). Now when I feed her ego by showing her how bad I want her - giving her that sexual energy, she charges in so aggressively, that *I* get scared and shut down. As a bull, I naturally just take things SOOOOOO SLOOOOOOOOW that this assertiveness just causes me to duck out, and I become dodgy and unapproachable. After she did the sexy walk today, I hid under my monitor for the last hour of work. No goodbye staredown; I felt badLOL.
Does that make sense? From my POV, I think this describes one of the fundamental issues (and problems) in this Taurus/Scorpio mating game.
I don't think it is a control thing from her, but you have that male ego which turns it into that. Its just probably her thinking "I feel something going on here, Imma check it out and see" and you interpreting that as her trying to capture you or somethingclick to expand
Nevermind... cuz that is what we want in a way. Capture you, Yes. Dominate, not really. We might try, but a scorp woman wants a man to be a man.
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