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Sir you are cracking me up ^.^
And I don't even know why!
Your pretty funny yourself.
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Rocky's cat has been diagnosed with Chronic Kidney Disease (CKD), not End Stage Renal Disease (ESRD). There is a HUGE difference. Chronic means that CKD is an ongoing disease and in many cases, it can be managed. CKD is terminal, and will eventually move into ESRD. ESRD means that the cat's kidneys are at the point of failure and there is no longer anything that can be done.
Her cat is back to eating, acting playful and enjoying her life. If she were in pain and suffering, this would not be the case.
Listen to me, Scorpio24. He really likes you, he just doesn't know it yet. Yes, he's playing you, it's just that you make him feel like a God the way things are. Show your independence, your strength and resolve. Don't play games with him, because that can taint the relationship, so show your love to him unconditionally, but be your own PERSON. Get hobbies, be passionate about something you're really passionate about, describe how it makes you feel and why. Get a job you like, laugh, enjoy life. Structure your mentality positively. And then hope he understands reciprocity and how to give back his love that you know is lying under there.
And if I'm wrong, life goes on...
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Sounds like he keeps you around scorpio24 because he wants convenient sex and he may like you as a person but does not want to be in a relationship with you. Thats why he wants you to end it so he won't feel like a bad guy.
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LunarMaiden,
You wrote: "You were probably "less needy" because you have a fire stellum."
>>>Can you elaborate on this?
TLS
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I'm an Aqua too Balmy so I know how you actually feel. I'm fiercely protective of the people in my life and yet if someone in my life is weak I'm just going to be honest about it not necessarily to the person but more so with myself.
You being an Aqua can make a Cap man feel insecure and uneasy. It's that Air energy which is masculine energy by nature. It is a masculine sign so he could feel uncomfortable around you.
I'm curious. Are you feminine in your ways? Do you wear dresses and make-up and soft clothes? There may be something about you that's making him feel icky around you. Aqua & Cap are good together but the thing about this pairing. It's either good or it's bad and it has to be good from day one or it won't get off the ground.
MASCULINE: Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius.
FEMININE: Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn, Pisces.
The zodiac is also divided into symbolic masculine and feminine signs. The masculine signs represent assertive, more extrovert tendencies, while the feminine signs suggest qualities that are more sensitive and receptive to others.
What may be happening is your masculine energy is dominating his feminine energy which makes him feel uncomfortable, unsure, uneasy around you. Are you in a high power position and is he your equal financially? Do you initiate dates and initiate calls? Meaning do you plan the dates and initiate sex and initiate calls a predominant amount of time? Are you sharing your relationship failures with him and sharing your own short comings or sharing something he can relate to? He's receptive to you and your energy and this could be part of why he's feeling insecure around you.
How to fix it is to do nothing, say nothing about his behavior and eventually he'll find a sense of ease around you. My previous statements was me being a smart ass--bad mood today and I apologize.
Praise him, adore him, give him support which is feminine energy and try being less assertive (if you are the assertive type then tone it down some). Remember Cap men need to run the show, it's part of their personality, and they need to feel safe and secure and feel in control even if he's not in control and what may be happening is he can't figure you out and your energies aren't meshing together in a way that makes him feel secure.
Of course none of what I say is set in stone, take it or leave it, just one opinion of many opinions on DXP.