Feb,
I know 2 women who are married to Caps and yes they still exhibit the behavior. But they do it in the form of WORK. One of my friends has been with her hubby for over 22 years and the other for over 15 yrs. Friend A (22yrs) says it took her 4 yrs to get her Cap and at that time he was an alcoholic and could not take it anymore, so she put him out and 1 year later they were married. She had no contact with him for over a year. WOW! THe other Friend B (15yrs)her husband is a true workaholic. He is never home and works on avergage 18-24 yrs a day. She hates it! They have 3 kids and she runs the house. They have almost ended up in divorce court many times but he pays all the bills and gives her the world, but that's not enough for her.
Friend A is very happy in her marriage but she said it was not easy to get him. HE had been married and was still stuck on the old wife for a long time. He advice on how to handle Cap men is priceless and I must say, through her I have learned to be patient with these men.
So there ou have it. I truly believe I will marry a Cap someday LOL! That's all I attract and it drives me crazy!! I do like them. I guess I like the challenge so to speak HAHA! I'm not bitter just a little frustrtated at times. But I have to say that the one trait that I LOVE about these men is that they are brutally honest! IF they love you and they say it. YOU GOT HIM! YOu will only here it once and they expect you to know that they love you without them having to say it.
Oh well that's life!
Peace