The Libra in me wants to shut out on my Cappy...
We've been dating for about 2 months now. Not "official" just exclusively seeing one another. Ahhh. Its so tough! I just cant wrap my head around my Capricorn man. He's so hot and cold...I can't read him! Which me being a Libra, I am VERY intuitive, and reading people tends to be one of the things that comes easiest to me. Sometimes he'll push himself away. He wont text me back as quickly, he will talk less to me, be shorter. I've seen he has trust issues because I've worded things wrongly before and he got immediately into defense mode and accused me of being shady. Later apologized when he realized that he was in the wrong and he felt bad. So I see I need to prove loyalty to him, but its hard when hes so closed up and up and down. I feel like the only thing I can do is continue to be myself. But I'm not one that likes to chase. He came to me wanting to know me and complimenting me, now Im chasing? Sometimes when hes short, Ill get bitter and want to do the same thing in return. But those are games, and I know I cant do that because he wont care! Then I feel if Im still the same peppy self, Im kissing ass and making him think Im a doormat. I just don't know what to do! Im in need of some advice! Thanks All!
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Posted by lisabethur8
Hmmm naw, i was just getting a weird vibe that's all.
Nothing at all. Must be the March Paranoia going on.
heya Aquanoz.
Haha ok, dunno what kind of weird vibe you mean, but you got my curiosity
And I've had loads of paranoia today about very stupid stuff, is something going on that makes this happen?
Posted by MarrakeshaPosted by virgodog58
I have heard it said that surprisingly there can be a strange understanding (and a very hot and mutually satisfying sexual relationship) between the Aries female and the Virgo male. Do you think that this is true? With regard to this relationship in general, I remember Linda Goodman saying something like "when there is love between the Aries woman and the Virgo man, life can be very beautiful". What do you think? Experiences? Why might an Aries woman be attracted to a Virguy?
I'm in FULL AGREEMENT. I love me some Virgos and my Virgo bf being one of those people. I feel like Virgos and Aries, we have a natural and pure trust in one another and we have each other's backs. I feel like Aries and Virgos are both purists and have a certain innocence, but we're also protective of one another.
I feel like with my bf, he's one of my soulmates. I knew who he was the moment I met him. I saw who he was on a fundamental level. He has a backbone, but he's also a diplomat with muscle behind his words (i.e. don't mistake his diplomacy for weakness) cuz he's brilliant, and he's also physically strong. We learn so much from each other, especially me from him. There's something very comforting about him...like I know everything is going to be okay and we'll get through whatever we're going through together.
We've also seen each other at our worst and ugliest and saddest moments, as well as at our best through thick and thin, and we're currently going through some lean times right now financially, but I can't say I could go through it with anyone else.
Even if something should happen, we'd never tear each other down or speak ill of the other or dishonor each other. We've been through too much and we know each other too well.
I wouldn't even date for years after because it would be too hard to replace him. He's my standard and has set a high bar.
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aww...nice!
Cap/aqua cusp January 20 0.03 in aqua... I've dated a Gemini cancer cusp lie cheat steal very horrid... i notice i balance out with solid zodiac like the ones born firmly in the middle of their sign.. I am so complex with this cusp plus cancer rising majority of my planets in Sagittarius with Aquarius moon and mercury.. I'm pretty messed up lol
Or either destined for greatness
Posted by africanvenus
~ The only reason I'm anti-social is because I'd rather play with my "imaginary" friends in my "imaginary" world- I'm the star of this "imaginary show"
Is this self delusion? Are you knowing deluding yourself into thinking that your imaginary world is real, yet you choose to stay there just because you like it better than reality?
A few months ago I told my capricorn friend about how its easy to mentally create a different world out of our current reality and discussed ways how a person can delude themselves into believing that the 'imaginary world' is real. I expected her to call me crazy but she was very curious about how it all worked. After viewing this thread, I think she was looking for a way to fine tune her own self deluded world. =O Yes, she is very delusional.
guess why astrologers place venus and moon for men, and mars and sun for women. *shrug*
(on a general rule)
(on a general rule)
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haha I do love nina she's the bomb! I feel ya tizi!
And only a special gets to indulge in my passion for all things sexual
And only a special gets to indulge in my passion for all things sexual
do you have any gemini in you? you feel like a gemini, either moon, mars or sun or venus, something. It's just a feeling. Hey i'm on an astrology forum, so there you go.
the thing with the march paranoia is just making me feel sad. My sister's baby is sick and there's just alot of stuff going on, so i'm praying everything will be allright. I'm just kind of feeling very sad.
the thing with the march paranoia is just making me feel sad. My sister's baby is sick and there's just alot of stuff going on, so i'm praying everything will be allright. I'm just kind of feeling very sad.