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Posted by geminicandlelight
Anna,
Gemini or not, use your common sense and treat him like a human being. It sounds like he is under a lot of stress, so he is pushing you away. I am guilty of this too, I've done this when I have internal stuff going on to deal with.
I wouldn't say he is a jerk. A jerk is a selfish, narcissistic piece of shit man who doesn't give fuck about you, cheats, abuses, lies, manipulates, uses, etc...
Your guy isn't this, so give him respect, please. Talk to him by telling him what you told us. Then clean cut.
We, the geminis, have dignity, no matter how we come accross to others.
Posted by geminicandlelightPosted by misslissa
Hey SilverSoul!That was a very great read! I have read about this before and it always fascinates me. Thanks for sharing!
Lisa, I don't know how we became blessed to have the pleasure of this enlightened Mr.Gemini, but it sure feels wonderfulclick to expand
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by rockyroadicecream
I'm beginning to wonder how in touch with reality you are. You seem to be pretty naive o what's really going on in the world.
Are you referring to romance novels? Those have a lot of that trash. I wasn't aware that most books out there portrayed women as wanting to be domestic baby makers. I thought it was pretty even keel.
Go take a women's history class. First, it's believing that first half of the 20th century was filled with utter maritial bliss because the man was a man and the woman was a happy house maker, now you think all books portray women to wanting the same thing? A women's history class will straighten you out asap. I find it kinda sad that you're female and you're this naive to what's really going on out there. :/
I took many classes in college and got A's in all my women history/feminist classes. I rocked that shit. Not the point. This thread came out of a discussion I had with an Aries friend whose actually really researching alot of this stuff. We both came to the conclusion that there isn't enough out there in regards to self actualization.
yes of course on how to hate men and be like men, but nothing on learning who you are.
Everyone else thanks for the book suggestions, i'll read up on them.click to expand
Posted by bkbella86
they shove this idea down our throats early...ive never believed the hype
Posted by Mr. Defense
I am not sure if I've ever been in love before. But I can say one thing, love is the mist exhausting thing I've ever gone through. It's too hard, too difficult, takes up a lot of time, seems to have no benefits, but seems to drain you when it doesn't work. There were two times in my life I've been genuinely heartbroken, and it literally sucked the life out of me. Then I think about what I was actually getting, and I was getting nothing. Seems when love works, you pretty much get nothing, but when it doesn't work all you get is misery.
I hate to be a pessimist, but I think love gets more hype, and maybe it's not really worth what people think it is. Seems like respect is a better thing to have than love. Love in my opinion is just irrationality, chaos, and it seems to burn out so easily.
In closing, Love Sucks!
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