The Libra in me wants to shut out on my Cappy...
Posted by 88
@ Pidelight, yeah and they will step it up because they don't want to lose a good woman because they know there are many sharks out there.
the push & pull some men play on women is to test how much we will do for them for nothing in return and they will do less for us. the less they do the more we do for them at times right? instead of letting go and respecting ourselves we make the dumb mistake of falling in his trap.
That is why I was saying men appreciate women who respect themselves and will not take this B.S from no one, and they know very well another men will come along and will benefit from her to make him a better man.
A man is not looking for a woman who will take his B.S, or smother him to death or tell him what to do. He is looking for someone who respects herself and does not take his B.S, because it will keep him on his toes and make him a better man.
+1. Yep 88. The minute I was more in love with me than my Cap I got everything I wanted and needed from him without asking or hesitation. When he thought he was going to go back to the BS I shut him down by wishing him well on his journey and getting right back into the mindset of my own love affair with me! LOL He didn't know what to do except get his sh*t together because I had warned him that I had been there and done that with him and there would be no repeating the past mistakes again.
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@Hopeless in love-Get a hobby and do not worry about him. He will come back but, he is more than likely going to be the same person. Can you handle it?
yeah you guys do that, make snarky comments lol
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Posted by scorchedearth
TLS, i'm sorry if i hurt your feelings when i said that. that wasn't my intention. i'm a really blunt person and sometimes it gets me in trouble.
my thing is really that your feelings are at an obsessive degree and that can get really unsafe really quickly. you're building this girl up in your head and have written about how scorpios are our soul mates when you don't even know her. in truth, you could take her out to coffee and be so bored you don't even want to finish the date. you know nothing about this girl. you're just allowing your fixation to make decisions for you.
you could always talk to her and ask her on a date. you might take her out a few times and realize there's no chemistry at all.
He sounds like a scorpio
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Coworker messaged me to say she's running late but on the bus at location X, it's funny how if you enable GPS on your phone it tells me where you are as you send your facebook message and she's still at home. 20 minutes later another message "I'm in the area just remembered I need to pick up something important SORRY!" location: still home.
Finally arriving at 2 hours later and telling me she feels sick and proceeded to act sick while her friends tagged her at the place she was supposed to be at "Waiting on you Miss X".
SERIOUSLY?!
Coworker messaged me to say she's running late but on the bus at location X, it's funny how if you enable GPS on your phone it tells me where you are as you send your facebook message and she's still at home. 20 minutes later another message "I'm in the area just remembered I need to pick up something important SORRY!" location: still home.
Finally arriving at 2 hours later and telling me she feels sick and proceeded to act sick while her friends tagged her at the place she was supposed to be at "Waiting on you Miss X".
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