Update - Mixed Signals
Posted by AreTwoFourPosted by TaggizePosted by ellessque
it's tough, tag...I know.
there is this weird bond that forms...it's not really about sex...it's not really about "relationship"-ey stuff either.
it's beyond that.
most can't get past that "feeling" because how do you talk about something you don't understand fully? you know it's there and it's usually unspoken...until someone steps up and needs to punch the relationship-ey stuff in the nose and tell it to back off....lol
it's like really great friends...the kind you call to bail you out of jail or help you do something you are embarrassed to tell anyone else about. it's that kind of bond.
when you add all that other "stuff" in there, the expectations of the world as they see relationships, it gets all hazey.
This is spot on. You summed it up perfectly. The thing is I don't know if I will ever want the "relationship-y" stuff to get involved. I find what we have so far very satisfying. I just want that bond to grow...if that makes sense. The relationship half can just stay away because it always seems to taint what I usually find to be something really simple and pure, and THAT I do not want to screw up.
Nothing ever stays the same. It will regress, stagnate, or progressclick to expand
That analogy is a watery one. Maybe one-sided. Maybe earth signs can maintain what they have. I need fluidity, or I feel like it is stagnating or regressing. Progressing if it is going my way.
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