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It's okay, Harry, we will make you an honorary member as long as you don't post a wall of text. 
Good Morning Leoliza!! Well I have grown in the fact that I don't get as uptight about things as I used to, I'm very thankful for that because, I once was a spazzzzzzzzzzzz!! I'm doing so much better now that I have gotten rid of the Aries man that was like a shit cloud over me.
Posted by CapsRule
Wow, very interesting replies there. Thanks to all of you!
I must add that those were NOT solicited remarks; they just came in out of the blue. I am a Cap
myself (but have a Cancer moon) but have learned over the years how to buffer my remarks because
they CAN and DO hurt others. Maybe that's why they call me an "evolved" Cap.
At any rate, I think these guys need to think a little more before opening their mouths -- good
intentions not withstanding.
I have a cap moon and a cap mercury in addition to my sun. I try very hard to filter, but sometimes its not taken the way I mean it. People that know me really well, get it. I've also learned to add, that may now have come out right, but take it as a complement - that's how I meant it.
I had a coworker tell me one time "I'm pissed at you. You really made me mad earlier" than I asked what I said and was able to explain. She understood then, but had she not told me I would have never had a clue. I really respected her for that and we were better coworkers afterward.
Posted by coolcappy
strange, I never thought love can possibly ever go away. Like the real love I mean. Yeah it alters and changes with time and hey it could grow even more and not necessarily diminish with time but to actually disipate and all you have left is just obligation or I don't know, respect for the vows you took or appreciation for loyalty or just because you happen to never meet anyone else you'd fall in love with? It's hard for me to accept because it doesn't happen to me. Also it's hard to believe that once free of loving someone you'd not be easily inclined to see/meet someone else you'd fall for because people usually are seeking subconsciously/conciously for love. I'm afraid if I stop loving I can't be living forever without love. I value love a lot and will always seek it. And I feel often that my love feeds on his love because more often than not he gives me signs his love for me is even stronger than mine for him, if that's even possible.
I agree. Especially in those long term relationships and love does change over time. The big difference is, loving someone and being IN love with someone. I will always love my husband. We were married for 14 years and have three children. But I am not in love with him. The big thing, if you both fall out of being "In" love with each other. You can love someone and not be in love and not put any work into the relationship and move on. If you both fall out of being "IN" love, then it is dangerous because both may not put any effort. There was a time he fell out of "In" love with me, but I was in love so I worked hard. I fell out of IN love with him one time and he knew (we were going through a rough spot and on his part), I told him I knew he was in love with me still and it was going to take time and effort on his part. Now, yes I am not IN love with him, sadly I don't think this will change. But I will always love him.
Posted by Sangfroid
I can't keep my mouth shut if I'm happy about something. EVERYONE is going to hear about whatever.
YES! ME TOO!
Posted by ninjafish
^Look I was so upset I even made a slashy thing accidentally.
LOL, it's just one of the reasons I luws you
Posted by LetltBPosted by CancerCutey
Ok gonna try to make this short as possible but its pretty detailed. We married Dec. 1995 the first time, he moved fast and married me fast. HE cheated, lied and did nothing to help support our household or child. I divorced him. We have a son together who is now 17. I refused to speak to him or let him know where I was for 13 yrs. He finally found me and made contact, He hired not one but TWO private investigators to find me!
I was hesistant but emailed him and spoke that way. He stated he grew up alot
As soon as you were questioned about deliberately removing your son from his father for 13 YEARS, you conveniently changed the story to abuse.
Judgemental much?? I am so glad YOU know my past better than I do!! Well since you know so much you probably know he went to PRISON for drug use and running from the cops for 6 years. So even if I had not left he would not have seen his son anyway because I would not have taken him to a prison...all i can say to your post is WOW!!click to expand
Get the book "Why Men Love Bitches" by Sherry Argov, It's very enlightening. You do not have to follow the instructions but it will more than likely show you that you have been a doormat for far too long. It will explain to you to find other things to focus on. The reason I'm telling you this "Lil Hopeful" is that I was that girl and not too long ago. It will work out sweetie, find yourself and love her for who she is not what a man can make her. Hugs to you little lady.
I was in a Abusive Marriage for years, it takes alot of courage to leave, and you will heal. No one deserves to be treated like crap. Just remember you are Stronger then he is. He is a weak Coward.
Posted by jessejames
Good Morning Leoliza!! Well I have grown in the fact that I don't get as uptight about things as I used to, I'm very thankful for that because, I once was a spazzzzzzzzzzzz!! I'm doing so much better now that I have gotten rid of the Aries man that was like a shit cloud over me.
So, how did you learn not to be a spazz? That is one thing I am working on. On the outside, unless dealing with my Aqurias mother, I am cool and collected. But my anxiety on the inside is strong. It is two fold, personal issues I can not handle the anxiety but in my professional life it helps my career because it focus me and really kick in my critical thinking. I am still looking for that balance still.