Could This Possibly Develop Into More?
Hello! I LOVE this forum! I'm a Cappy myself. Here's my situation:
Over a year ago, a sexy and sweet Cappy contacted me on Facebook and we got to know each other quite well. Instant attraction. We even have the same birthday down to the year!(Jan 4 1985)
Well, me and him have remained in contact on and off - then he had a girlfriend and I was talking to my ex, so we remained friends but not as flirty. He started to initiate contact with me after he broke up with his ex and the talking I had with my ex was starting to fizzle.
About two weeks ago, he contacted me as he was on the road for work and told me he was headed my way and that he wanted to meet me. His words were "The time is now". So, long story short: We met and the chemistry/connection was CRAZILY AWESOME lol. We felt comfortable immediately with each other and not nervous at all. We were even intimate that night as well. He is a very passionate man and after we were finished being intimate I expected our connection to fizzle, but it got stronger and he wanted to cuddle, kiss, and hug me until it was time for sleep. He stayed the night too. We hit it off quite well, I must say, and not just the intimate part lol!
Anyways, he left the next morning and it seemed a tiny bit awkward because he was running late for work and had over an hour drive ahead of him. I asked him if I would see him again and he said I would. He texted me a few hours after starting his work and we both said we had a good time. Then the next night we chatted again. That next week he texted me to let me know he was back at his home and that he really thought I was beautiful and liked me.
However, now he seems kind of aloof. He lives in Virginia and I live here in Georgia, so it is understandable to be that way. The weird thing is I wonder if he is sitting back weighing the pros and cons or something about me and him and wondering if he can trust me or something because his best friend's wife added me as a friend on Facebook and sent me a message that she saw I was friends with this Cappy on Facebook and what a small world. I told her that I had met the Cappy and that I thought he was just awesome. Then she messaged me the same night and told me that she knows this Cappy and that he is a very good guy and that she hopes he treats me well.
Do Cappies sometimes have others like, I don't know, "spy" to make sure the other person (meaning me lol) is genuine? I found this to be quite odd....
Over a year ago, a sexy and sweet Cappy contacted me on Facebook and we got to know each other quite well. Instant attraction. We even have the same birthday down to the year!(Jan 4 1985)
Well, me and him have remained in contact on and off - then he had a girlfriend and I was talking to my ex, so we remained friends but not as flirty. He started to initiate contact with me after he broke up with his ex and the talking I had with my ex was starting to fizzle.
About two weeks ago, he contacted me as he was on the road for work and told me he was headed my way and that he wanted to meet me. His words were "The time is now". So, long story short: We met and the chemistry/connection was CRAZILY AWESOME lol. We felt comfortable immediately with each other and not nervous at all. We were even intimate that night as well. He is a very passionate man and after we were finished being intimate I expected our connection to fizzle, but it got stronger and he wanted to cuddle, kiss, and hug me until it was time for sleep. He stayed the night too. We hit it off quite well, I must say, and not just the intimate part lol!
Anyways, he left the next morning and it seemed a tiny bit awkward because he was running late for work and had over an hour drive ahead of him. I asked him if I would see him again and he said I would. He texted me a few hours after starting his work and we both said we had a good time. Then the next night we chatted again. That next week he texted me to let me know he was back at his home and that he really thought I was beautiful and liked me.
However, now he seems kind of aloof. He lives in Virginia and I live here in Georgia, so it is understandable to be that way. The weird thing is I wonder if he is sitting back weighing the pros and cons or something about me and him and wondering if he can trust me or something because his best friend's wife added me as a friend on Facebook and sent me a message that she saw I was friends with this Cappy on Facebook and what a small world. I told her that I had met the Cappy and that I thought he was just awesome. Then she messaged me the same night and told me that she knows this Cappy and that he is a very good guy and that she hopes he treats me well.
Do Cappies sometimes have others like, I don't know, "spy" to make sure the other person (meaning me lol) is genuine? I found this to be quite odd....
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What do you feel or think when you have a girlfriend who has mood swing very often??
It's not that I don't love him. It just I still can't trust him.
When you tell her that you love her, do you really mean that three words??
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