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Ok, so now those of you that know my story, my libra man and I are living together, o dear gawd, and don't get me wrong it's nice, but I find myself making all the decisions around the apartment, the man doesn't even want to pick out the furniture at that time, but I made it work, no complaints from him since he likes all the stuff I picked out, but now he doesn't want to go out as much anymore, he just wants to stay home, but when I go out with my friends I get attitude from him, he's been more possessive of me, and dare I say he's been alittle lazy
I see that I got him to open up emotional than logically, and I'm not trying to bore the guy so I do different things just to keep things spicy around the apt. But I don't get why I'm the a aggressor than he is, which is what he likes but can he at least that the lead for once, lol, he likes to argue a bit, nothing serious just alittle here and there to keep they spice going, but um, my libra BFF told me when she had a libra boyfriend she got bored with him, for the fact he didn't do anything, and I can see how she would.
I cook for him, but he rather do the cooking tho, so it's getting to the point where I'm alittle nerous about hanging out cause he wants me to stay home a lot, he be on that dam Xbox and always wants his friends around, which isn't a problem, but dam can we go out sometimes
Anyone lived with a libra man, and what was ur experience
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Hol up hol up hol up.. What happened?
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First of all, I think Pisces and Libra are very compatiable, and I like their connection. Accepting that the world doesnot revolve around your specific relationship will help you to relax a little. Things aren't always in our control. The universe needs the opportunity to flow through your relationship and you will need to trust the outcome. It seems that you two are on a journey together.
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Wait for what missgummyshoe has to say BUT I will tell you this...I love POE!!! I actually did my senior essay on him. I wonder if alot of Scorpios like Poe because he has that darkness to him and we all know how kind of goth we can be. lol
In my experience, it??s not a lack of emotional depth but an inability to have freely-flowing emotions. Air signs will have an initial reaction (perceived by others as emotion) but as soon as that happens, their rational side kicks in reflexively and they think/analyze the problem/situtation, come to a conclusion about how best to proceed, and then act and respond emotionally. The emotion comes second to the rationality.
Generally speaking, for water signs, logic is driven by emotion (or logic and emotion can exist in parallel but if that occurs, the two are usually in conflict). However, for air signs, emotion is driven by the logic. Beyond initial reaction, they make sense of something before they emote, and therefore emotion and logic rarely conflict. Again, very broadly speaking.
Put another way, for example, let??s say an air sign and a water sign are walking down the street and see that an elderly woman has fallen down and is bleeding from her head.
Here??s how the water sign will react: Upon noticing the elderly woman, the water sign automatically, by reflex, feels, ???poor old lady, how did this happen??? The water sign feels sadness/pity/empathy for the lady. Driven by that emotion, the water sign calls for help, dials 911, etc.
Here??s how the air sign will react: Upon noticing the elderly woman, the air sign automatically, by reflex, thinks, ???poor old lady, how did this happen??? The air sign thinks about what can be done to help. Driven by rational analysis of the situation, the air sign calls for help, dials 911, etc.
Both the water and air sign initially react the same way and ultimately take the same course of action. The water sign??s initial reaction occurs from within an emotional plane, which then gets futher extended to freely-flowing emotions of sadness/pity. Actions (calling for help) happen as a result of those emotions.
In contrast, the air sign??s initial reaction occurs from within a logical plan, which then gets futher extended to freely-flowing rational analysis of the situation. Actions (calling for help) happen as a result of those logics. The air sign feels sadness but it occurs from within the logical plane - this can be perceived by others as a lack of emotional depth.