The usual: Virgo Ex and I. (Might be a bit long).
Posted by carbon_scorp
It depends on how you feel about yet another break up, because that seems to be the pattern he has created.
He sounds very unstable, backs out when the going gets rough in the relationship but then comes back to you for comfort when he is down. He sounds very selfish. If the reasons for breaking up the second time still exist and nothing has changed, why give him another chance?
very true, but love (as I'm sure you might be aware) makes us do things that aren't completely logical. He's a good kid, but I don't want to raise a child, I want a man. One day, he's going to be a great man. And I don't want to lose the spiritual and mental connection we have. Physical connections are common but mental ones are rare. When both click, it'd be a shame to let it go. I just don't know what to do. :/
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well thank god we have a normal thread for once :O
Hey Ian
Hey Ian
I dont want millions or billions either. Im not greedy, and if theres no necessity for it I dont need it. I also want to be able to travel the world and be secure(own maybe two homes) and free to do what i want when i want.
I dabble a little in stocks. Do I know what Im doing? No, but ive had about a 30% increase. Not good or bad. I probably should invest more. Atleast ill have a reason for going up and seeing that fine taurus stock broker. Thanks for the thread....good reminder.
I dabble a little in stocks. Do I know what Im doing? No, but ive had about a 30% increase. Not good or bad. I probably should invest more. Atleast ill have a reason for going up and seeing that fine taurus stock broker. Thanks for the thread....good reminder.
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I have a libra friend who recently graduated from grad school and landed his first choice job at a very competitive and renowned institution ??? a phenomenal and amazing accomplishment. I met up with him for the first time today after the big news and long story short, he is not as happy as I thought he would be. He seemed to be deeply unhappy and disappointed, but even while he tried to explain, I??m still not quite sure why he is unhappy.
As far as I can tell, he is unhappy because while he is where he wants to be, the process of grad school really drained him and he is just mentally exhausted. He is disappointed in the process, that it didn??t turn out as he expected. This part is understandable, but doesn??t really explain his being unhappy.
Secondly, he is unhappy, or not as happy as he should be, because he feels that he is now locked into his field of choice, and while he can get out of it if he really wanted to, he realistically can??t. But he agreed that there is nothing else he would rather do. I asked him whether it was a sense of loss of freedom (in college we had a lot of options but not anymore) that he was unhappy about and he gave a vague answer.
I expected to have a cheerful conversation with him, congratulating him and reveling with him in anticipation of what is to come, but in complete surprise, we ended up analyzing why he is not as happy as he should be. Seeing him so unhappy makes me unhappy and makes me worry because I am just a year behind him. I don??t want the same to happen to me.
My questions:
1. Does anyone might have any insight into this libra??s mind? What is going on? Why is he unhappy?
2. How can I cheer him up?
As far as I can tell, he is unhappy because while he is where he wants to be, the process of grad school really drained him and he is just mentally exhausted. He is disappointed in the process, that it didn??t turn out as he expected. This part is understandable, but doesn??t really explain his being unhappy.
Secondly, he is unhappy, or not as happy as he should be, because he feels that he is now locked into his field of choice, and while he can get out of it if he really wanted to, he realistically can??t. But he agreed that there is nothing else he would rather do. I asked him whether it was a sense of loss of freedom (in college we had a lot of options but not anymore) that he was unhappy about and he gave a vague answer.
I expected to have a cheerful conversation with him, congratulating him and reveling with him in anticipation of what is to come, but in complete surprise, we ended up analyzing why he is not as happy as he should be. Seeing him so unhappy makes me unhappy and makes me worry because I am just a year behind him. I don??t want the same to happen to me.
My questions:
1. Does anyone might have any insight into this libra??s mind? What is going on? Why is he unhappy?
2. How can I cheer him up?
Im a Cap/ Scorp venus/Libra mars and im sooo wanting to set up this arrangement with my Taurus/gemini venus/Cancer mars friend. Im not sure which one of us would attach first, but it seems like unfinished business will always be between us if we dont do something!
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Ladies I'm tired go easy k ^.^
I really will probably go to sleep and come back around 4 tomorrow or something rediculous like that.
Ladies I'm tired go easy k ^.^
I really will probably go to sleep and come back around 4 tomorrow or something rediculous like that.
I took a chakra test and only two of my chakras are open, or active...brow and crown.
So sorry Ian, hope he goes without pain and you keep remembering all the good times and the life lessons he has taught you..they are invaluable!