April taurus + May taurus compatibility

Posted by robyn808
Books are boring!

Posted by BikerCh1ck
Pros: only if the wedding is good and with the right person then you have some company and you share everything from happiness to sadness and that makes you feel better

Posted by BikerCh1ck
Cons: if the wedding is unsucessful then you end up doing double effort for everything while when you were single you would have done half and worry less. Also when you are single you don't have to compromise. An example is the remote control.. :/
And other things like.. if you go to work earlier than your partner you don't have to be as quite as possible not to wake him up or having HIM waking you up because he is such a pig and can't get it that people want to sleep more.
*sigh.. I am seriously thinking if I would ever get married to get a single bed and sleep in a different room. That way I will avoid the farts, the snoring and someone pulling off me the covers in a cold night.. OH! and the sweaty, wet feeling during summer time when you wake up and you stink because someone else was not bothered to remove the covers when they were sleeping.. YUCK!

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Posted by kraftwerk

anyone else noticing any changes in RL? so far, changes have been very positive for me
Is it the Moon? Any astrological insight is more than welcomed.

Posted by David13
There is nothing one can do married that one cannot do without being married... except for maybe that tax-break thing. I will attest to everyone here that the cost imposed on your well-being in life, far out-weighs any proposed or imaginary benefit. My last example of what a happy marriage looked like, died last year... 30+ years they were married. Afraid to be alone ? It can happen at any stage in life. Don't let your end-all-be-all from your pipe of dreams be that of getting married... there is no 'they lived happily ever after' to be found in any institution. Familiarity breeds contempt... the only forever is when one meets their death. NO ONE can ever feel the same about anyone or anything for the whole of time. Our flaw is that we keep believing in the belief that we can prove that it won't be the same case for the 'US' we have become.
So think... think twice... think thrice. As for myself, I do not believe that human beings were ever meant to mate for life. All I see are people that stay together because of words mentioned in this thread... but they are just words presenting ideas and ideals that we were reared to honor. I am not saying that it cannot be done... with a lot of work, a lot of compromise, a lot of dedication, et cetera... but to me, love is just supposed to flow naturally... much like water. It is when water becomes stagnant for a time when it can breed maladies... and the flow can then be interrupted and contaminated by them. How much work is it worth to purify that which flows after is anyone's guess... it depends on the one. or the other, or even the both of whom partook of it.