what to do in this situation need advice
I am the kind of boy that don't have many relationships don't have past relations at all and there is a girl whom i love that have many relationships so, she is more experienced in relation more than me and i love this girl how to make her fall in love with me if she already know that i love her.But she don't want to make relationship with me because i have less experience than her
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Posted by capgirl69
We have 50/50 custody, a week at a time each. Although I do see my son every Wednesday night regardless of if its my week, and all summer I have him during the day every day since I don't work.
I grew up without my biological father and it hurt me, even though I was raised and adopted by my stepfather.
I think children need both their parents and all their family members in their lives. It's important to me that my son knows his dad, his grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins. We see them pretty often.
+1 and nice arrangement you got there with the ex. Was it a mutual agreement or the court's?
why do I worship those who have their venus sign the same as my ascendant? I have a Pisces ascendant and always have good feelings towards those with Venus in Pisces
How do you feel when someone has their Venus in the same sign as your Ascendant?
How do you feel when someone has their Venus in the same sign as your Ascendant?
Posted by WaterCupPosted by Sutekh
Children need both parents around, even if both parents aren't together.
Men without fathers=recipe for disaster on all levels.
& how should parents do that, both be in their kid/s lives with separate lives? And do you really believe you last part? Why?click to expand
I think we do a great job at this.
We each have a week on, week off.
I am my sons Cub Scout leader. We do that every Wednesday.
His dad and I attend school functions like parent conferences together.
All 4 of us- his dad, stepmother, me and the Scorp attend events like Boy Scout dinners, birthday parties.
We take turns on holidays.
We are always civil when we speak around my son.
We are a team for my son and he knows that he is loved and supported by all.
It works for us.
Posted by TasteOfChaossPosted by WaterCupPosted by TasteOfChaossPosted by WaterCupPosted by TasteOfChaoss
I think it should be 50/50. One week with Mum and one week with Dad.
I hate women who use the kids against the father just because they has a shitty breakup.
My brothers ex wife did that when they first separated. Nowadays, the tables have turned... She has since become a disgrace and now my brother has the boys full timeHe lets her see them whenever she wants, but the arrangement before hand was that he only got them every second weekend and one day the other week.
if you dont mind me asking what did she do to lose custody of her kids and is your brother raising them alone? In case of gender, do you think it matters which parent raises the kid/s? I'm asking this because i think it would be quite a task for a man to raise a girl child on his own because there are some things I dont think he'll be able to explain to her, or even understand himself. In a case like this I think its fair for the mom to be given the rights of raising her daughter. When it comes to women raising boys its a confusing one because either it works or it doesnt. I guess this one requires a really strong person to pull up because most single mothers complain a lot about raising boys than girls.
She met a deadbeat loser and developed a serious meth addiction. She hasn't officially lost custody, it's not by law...she lost her job her house and then dumped her kids at her sisters house and is now living with her meth head mates. :/ My brother said if she causes him any hassle, he will go to the courts and make it legal.
The kids are old enough to know what she has done and is pretty angry about it, they don't want to live with her and are really happy living with their dad.
As far as gender roles, I get your point about a girl does need a motherly figure during that awkward stage... but I still believe both parents should have 50/50 custody.
lol @ meth head mates. Thats sad. How old are they?
Yeah it sucks
They're almost 11 and 13, both Geminis
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Posted by WaterCupPosted by capgirl69
We have 50/50 custody, a week at a time each. Although I do see my son every Wednesday night regardless of if its my week, and all summer I have him during the day every day since I don't work.
I grew up without my biological father and it hurt me, even though I was raised and adopted by my stepfather.
I think children need both their parents and all their family members in their lives. It's important to me that my son knows his dad, his grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins. We see them pretty often.
+1 and nice arrangement you got there with the ex. Was it a mutual agreement or the court's?click to expand
We settled it amongst ourselves and just had it legalized by a lawyer.
I was just adding another perspective, to look at it from. I really never seen a female chase after a guy without getting any type of indication from him or confirmation that he's into her, or interested.
I think he's already dealing with Cancer in some way, or just not that interested. Every other Scorpio I've dealt with, and seen they usually aren't shy about approaching and going for the woman they want. Yeah they have enough choices to roam and do what they want, but especially a woman who is resisting or showing resistance is a challenge so I would think by now he would've made that effort unless he's got something else going on he is doing some flirting.
I think he's already dealing with Cancer in some way, or just not that interested. Every other Scorpio I've dealt with, and seen they usually aren't shy about approaching and going for the woman they want. Yeah they have enough choices to roam and do what they want, but especially a woman who is resisting or showing resistance is a challenge so I would think by now he would've made that effort unless he's got something else going on he is doing some flirting.
Posted by xygenerationPosted by WaterCupPosted by xygeneration
There was a study on female mice. Some females ate their newborns while other females cared for its offsprings. Study found that not all females have that natural maternal instinct.
majority rules. What was the percentage of those who ate?
Ill post it if I find the article.
True but you cant ignore the small percentage. Point is not all female mice had it.click to expand
sure but nobody said they do/did. I think its interesting, what was the point of the study?
Posted by capgirl69
I don't know that I buy into the whole women are more maternal than men.
My sons father (Gemini) is not a very nurturing person. Before we split up, he never really did much with our son. But since we split up, and he has to take care of the boy, he really has learned and is getting better. He might not win any awards for father of the year, but he's around in our sons life and our son does love him.
By contrast, my Scorp doesn't have any children of his own, but he is very protective and attentive with my son. He looks at what my son has on, will tell him if there's a hole in his shirt, or when my son comes out of the bathroom, he will ask him if he's washed his hands, stuff like that. Granted, my son is 9, but really he watches over him.
sounds like you got yourself a winner there, hold on tight lol. Few good men, so they say.