what to do in this situation need advice
First of all am, 17 years old that is why i Don't have much experience and English is my second language cause am from Egypt .I can give you the details. She is my friend at school i know her from 3 years. but i didn't show her that i love her until this year. so, she knew i love her from the way i act with her. she concluded it.Most of my conversations with her is about school problems or things.She is the girl that love boys who like themselves and very showy people.about me am a person who is kind and helpful and good at school. am like a nerd but am not i don't have past relationships at all cause i don't know how to make girls love me and also the kind of person who when love a certain girl i show that i love her without me feeling of that. when i was younger i loved many girls but none of them loved me back at all approximately 8 girls and all of them didn't love me.I really need help in this situation.and thanks for answering me 
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you sound like you're a little butthurt
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I dont cause i think it'll look weird on me lol, mine looks okay on my frame cause im small (5 ft) and i dont wanna resemble a midget by adding a huge behind on a short body lol.
LMAO! The suggestion of out slowing him really resonates with me. As an Aries, I can move very fast, but I can also put a man in and out of the "buddy zone" when I want. Being in emotionally is the first thing I look for when meeting a guy. If he's not, I put him in the buddy zone. Until I find that out, I keep my distance. That's probably why he's pushing my boundries.
Thanks, tiki33!
Thanks, tiki33!
Posted by tizianiPosted by WaterCupPosted by oldskoolflavor
you sound like you're a little butthurt
LOL, seriously im not, swear to God
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I know one Cancer woman, her husband is barely alive and she's already on the hunt to replace him!
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I know one Cancer woman, her husband is barely alive and she's already on the hunt to replace him!
Another Cancer man, his ex-wife barely had an orgasm and he was onto the next woman.
Leo women has NO PROBLEM being alone... it's the men who goes after us and we have an endless supply of admirers. We just have a hard time choosing which one is worthy enough to have us!
OMG!!! LMAO!!! This is why Cancers are the life of the party!!! Hoof in Mouth Disease!
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I have to wonder about topics that revolve around narcissists. It's one of the least-diagnosed disorders out there because of it's nature but everyone seems to have one in their life somehow? Stay away from mayo-clinic and stop trying to diagnose people yourselves!!
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I'm going to have to respectfully disagree with you.
Reading about NPD was a huge relief to me and gave me understanding about what the hell had been happening. All of a sudden, everything made more sense and I was able to process a lot of it rationally. It didn't undo all the damage that had been done, but it gave some clarity. When ever I hear of similar type of behavior and abuse in a relationship, I ask the person to check the list of character traits to see if it sounds familiar.
The point is not to diagnose a person officially. The point is to realize that it's time to get out fast and never go back. One can be so lost in the situation that you need help to see it objectively.
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He lied like my gramma's Persian rug to get me to marry him.
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I did NOT answer his calls, no matter HOW urgent he made them appear-- because whatever the "problem" was, I didn't need to contact him in order to resolve it.
I never met him alone, once separated-- and the one item I went ahead and purchased from him, prior to the divorce-- I made him sign a statement saying the transaction was final and I had my mom witness it.
Do not let this guy dick you around-- no mercy.
Well I'm lucky I guess..I always get fair warning.