how to make a capricorn girl love me a virgo man ?
Posted by xxoommmxxooPosted by truecap
I hate to say this but Mr Defense is right. I like someone who comes in and takes charge. Someone confident. Someone to take the lead. Takes a strong man to put me in my place, otherwise I might have a tendency to walk all over them. Then, it would be over because if I could walk over you and control you, then I wouldn't respect you. I can't be with someone I don't respect.
So, that said, be that man. It's got to be natural, because I can see right through anyone who's not real.
Sweet is good. Vulnerable is okay. Weak and wimpy are not. You have to be strong along with it. Personally, I prefer a "man's" man. A manly man, if you will.
Virgo men put the kabosh on controlling behavior real quick, that's why i love them lolclick to expand
Yep and they make us like it!! hahaha!!! But, personally, I like the aqua's because they don't put up with my crap!
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Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by tiziani
Lady Scorpio, I'm speechless.
Thank you very much.
You deserve it, I think most would agree.
A rainbow of sunshine then.click to expand
+100000000000000000000000000000000000000000 he he he he
Haha this is very accurate! Good job lol
Posted by tmijones
I did question him because i felt maybe IT wad to soon for him to be in a relationship.so soon After just splitting from his ex, and i was scared that i would invest time and love towards him and He would end up changing his mind.....
So if you had concerns about this, why didn't you take it slow? Slow meaning, date, get to know this man better? That question sounds more judgmental than intended--and it is rhetorical. Your reasons are for you to figure out.
Posted by tmijones
Me being a gemini always look AT a logical point of veiw and an emtional point of veiw. When He was with Me He was completley focused on Me, but during the week was sometimes difficult to communicate so i would Start to question the relationship.
Sounds like the emotional side won here....
Posted by tmijones
I would ask him if He needed time to figure things out when He would vent about the kids Mom, but that would only piss him off and He actually ignored Me for 5 days. Like i said maybe i was in IT More than him. I was focused on him, and He wad focused on her.
This was probably your first sign to slow things down.
Posted by tmijones
I think He truley wants to move on because He knows the relationship was unhealthy w her, but He must still love her. I think my question really is, did He even Care about Me? Cuz if this was all in my head..... scary.click to expand
Sounds like you're trying to convince yourself to give him another chance. I'm in no position to say if you should or shouldn't (I personally like the Gem-Scorp combo. I think you guys are a bunch of kinky little monkeys ) Regardless, the above statement doesn't matter because of what you say below:
^^^^^ cont.
So in regards to the OP this is your answer. Regardless of what he does now trust will become the issue for the two of you.
Posted by tmijones
i think right now im confused and hurt and dont understand his decsion...And if He did try and reach out to Me IT will be hard to say if i can let go and trust him.
So in regards to the OP this is your answer. Regardless of what he does now trust will become the issue for the two of you.
Posted by braggablePosted by Silvermermaid
Hell no.... my mom and dad were both pisces... baaaaaaaad combination!!!!!
Dang, and you're a pisces too! It's a fish family. Do you guys live near water?click to expand
lmao!! yes, in Florida!!!
What's that avatar? Speeding away from Planet Earth?
Posted by Lobo
test, maybe see who can be more intense... who can be more secretive, who can read things and emotions better..
Tests.
Ahh, but they are very different, between the ones Scorpio typically use as compared to those used by a Virgo. In regards to intensity, this may be stereotypical but on a general whole, they are more rationally intense where as Scorpios are more emotionally intense, speaking from my own interactions with Virgo individuals that is. Secretive, in what way? If in terms of hidden depths, the Scorpio wins hands down, in regards to minute details in life and what not, the Virgo will win without a doubt. Mind reading, haha...I suppose if the Virgo has a heavy Scorpion influence, he'd be able to 'read' quite adequately, anything extraordinary? I do not think so.
Now, that was not a response as to who is better, simply a very vast fundamental difference in how the two signs function, two completely unrelated playing fields, each very good at what they do. Perhaps that is why you may be experiencing the love/hate feeling, constantly intrigued and fascinated but never really comprehending one another, such is life and mysteries.
Posted by xxnightbynightPosted by lildol
Where's your Moon and Mars?
Maybe I should have included that: for Natives include Moon/Venus/Mars
Mars is in Taurus
Moon is in Scorpio
I learned my patience from the dark side of my moon. ;-pclick to expand
Hmmm... this Aries has seemed a little slow on the uptake to me. I chalked it up to his Taurus Mars, but you say you move fairly fast. Although, from what I've read, Mars in Taurus is supposed to be "slow and steady wins the race" - may be fitting for him. I'm not complaining about the pace, just seems dif; I'm more used to shutting men down. He certainly does not strike me as though he just wants to bed me. We've been out a couple times for drinks after work (after a fricken month of visiting me in my office daily - I was confused as to why he was chatting me up, I had to kick him out a few times too)... he does seem to be moving a little faster now. Maybe he was just feeling me out. (He's all Aries in personal placements lest a Sag Moon and his Mars).