How to tell when a Male cap is testing....
Posted by MsImpala66
Ok just curiosity here, this is my first time dating a cap guy (Im a virgo). I have read some past threads and i see that people mention that caps often tend to test the other person. In what way do they test? Can you please be more specific for me......
It's hard to be specific becuase the infamous Cap "tests" are suited to the individual and whatever it is they are looking for in the person they are getting to know or are already involved with. Your best bet is to be yourself. If you try to outsmart the "tests" the Cap will know and more likely than not will process this as you having something to hide which is a definite red flag will be duly noted. Just be who you are and let Mr. Cap accept you as is. Better to know if he can handle the good with the bad and vice versa.
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Posted by Lenore0908Posted by rachelsnow12
Hi! I use to, but have moved past that. We've been best friends with benefits for 4 years, I've told
Him how I felt and he hasn't stepped up, which is fine. I can't wait around for something that I am hopeful that will happen, I need to be present to my life now, what we are now and put myself first.
That man is NOT your friend. Get rid of him.
FWB? I repeat, he is not your friend. And that's a cruel joke. It is unexcusable. Would you do that to him? Would you say, "Hey I have tickets to see Lady Gaga in concert tonight!" And he responds "OMG I can't wait, I'm getting ready now" and then you tell him you were just kidding? If you guys had never had sex, it MIGHT be somewhat funny. But as a man who was just screwing you for 4 years with no intention of taking it further, and NO GUILT of WASTING YOUR PRECIOUS TIME, he is quite worthless to you. With a friend like that, who needs enemies.
YOU MUST be careful who you surround yourself with, especially as an attractive and beautiful woman. I say this with love and compassion, because I used to surround myself with fake friends and reaped the consequences of that. As attractive as you are, you have no use or need for male "friends" unless you have never slept with them, because those are the ones that will treat you with the most respect anyway.
Lenore's verdict:
Fuck 'em.click to expand
Yassss!!!
+1000000
Posted by rachelsnow12
What do you mean here for it all? In that I keep posting? Yes, baby steps. It's hard to move backwards with someone you have been inseparable with for so long, but I need to do it and I am... One day at a time :-)
I mean your still giving him your time and energy. Here for all the BS. Remove him from your life and the BS ends.
I'm not a Taurus woman... but I want to get something straight.
You're texting a woman who is "taken" or in a relationship. You know this and you're trying to seduce her.
So, hypothetically, she does leaver her man....for you.
How would you feel if this happens in the future when some mans starts, ah let's go for a Trekkie thing here... teleporting to her and do what you're currently doing with her while she's with another man, but in this hypothetical case, "you" are now the man.
Where's the trust, which is the very foundation of all "good, solid" relationship?
Get it?
Good luck.
You're texting a woman who is "taken" or in a relationship. You know this and you're trying to seduce her.
So, hypothetically, she does leaver her man....for you.
How would you feel if this happens in the future when some mans starts, ah let's go for a Trekkie thing here... teleporting to her and do what you're currently doing with her while she's with another man, but in this hypothetical case, "you" are now the man.
Where's the trust, which is the very foundation of all "good, solid" relationship?
Get it?
Good luck.
Posted by Lenore0908
Men cannot be friends with women they are REMOTELY attracted to.
Eventually, they will try to make a move.
I've had a few male friends, and ended up dating two. And of course, then I was reminded why I had friend zoned them in the first place.
I especially cannot stand the guy who tries to worm his way into your life by pretending to be your "friend".
I dated a guy like that, and I remember one day standing in his apartment looking around and wondering how the hell this happened. What's more, is he felt I OWED him a relationship. Because he had been there for me. That's a whole 'nother topic.
Lenore's verdict:
I don't need any male friends. I'm GOOD, thanks.
Lmao...your funny!!
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Posted by xdimplezPosted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Why Northern Cali of all places?
never said i was there. wtf?click to expand
Umm Dimplez I don't not understand this response lol
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Posted by robyn808
how did you find out what they're moons?
Dates and places of birth. I had to assume noon for the time because I could only find a handful of actual birth times. As I recall, some of them were really close, so actual times could definitely make a difference.
Don't say anything Anna but still go on the date. I thinks it's too early to reveal you have been stalking his fb page and you don't wanna put too much pressure on the dude. Like David said go slow, especially since he admittedly "was" a player.
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tere liye, ham hain jiye, honton ko siye
for your sake, i live with my lips sealed
tere liye, ham hain jiye, har ansoo piye
for your sake, i live swallowing my tears
dil mein magar, jalte rahe, chahat ke diye
but in my heart, the lamp of love continues to burn
tere liye, tere liye
for your sake, for your sake
zindagi, le ke ayi hai, bete dinon ki kitab
life has brought chronicles of days past
ghere hain, ab bamein, yadein be-hisab
incomparable memories surround us now
bin poochhe, mile mujhe, kitne sare jawab
without asking, i received so many answers
chaha tha kya, paya hai kya, hamne dekhiye
look at what i desired, and what in turn i received
dil mein magar, jalte rahe, chahat ke diye
but in my heart, the lamp of love still continues to burn
tere liye, tere liye
for your sake, for your sake
kya kahoon, duniya ne kiya, mujh se kaisa bair
what can i say, the world has shown such ill-will to me
hukam tha, main jiyun, lekin tere baghair
im commanded to live life without you
nadan hai woh, kehte hain jo, mere liye tum ho ghair
how ignorant they are who say you're a stranger to me
kitne sitam, hampe sanam, logon ne kiye
how many wrongs we have been done, my love
tere liye, ham hain jiye, honton ko siye
for your sake, i live with my lips sealed
tere liye, ham hain jiye, har ansoo piye
for your sake, i live swallowing my tears
dil mein magar, jalte rahe, chahat ke diye
but in my heart, the lamp of love continues to burn
tere liye, tere liye
for your sake, for your sake
zindagi, le ke ayi hai, bete dinon ki kitab
life has brought chronicles of days past
ghere hain, ab bamein, yadein be-hisab
incomparable memories surround us now
bin poochhe, mile mujhe, kitne sare jawab
without asking, i received so many answers
chaha tha kya, paya hai kya, hamne dekhiye
look at what i desired, and what in turn i received
dil mein magar, jalte rahe, chahat ke diye
but in my heart, the lamp of love still continues to burn
tere liye, tere liye
for your sake, for your sake
kya kahoon, duniya ne kiya, mujh se kaisa bair
what can i say, the world has shown such ill-will to me
hukam tha, main jiyun, lekin tere baghair
im commanded to live life without you
nadan hai woh, kehte hain jo, mere liye tum ho ghair
how ignorant they are who say you're a stranger to me
kitne sitam, hampe sanam, logon ne kiye
how many wrongs we have been done, my love