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Okay, so I've been crushing on this dude for a while (I'm a chick). He and I worked together for almost a year. I had a HUGE crush on him like soon after I started working with him. But I was with someone else (we weren't right for each other), and his best friend really really liked me. So, he never even showed any signs of being attracted to me. But we got along really well. Then, me moved to California (I'm in Arkansas). He's been there for over a month now. He sent me a text two nights ago.
He sent me a text to ask me about selling something (I wont mention it in this message). After we were texting for a few minutes he began to get flirty. This came as a shock to me. But the conversation escalated into quite a romantic one. He
told me that he has liked me for quite a while. But he never said anything because he "knew" I would say no. He also said
he wants me to come visit him.
I asked him if he had found any girls he liked there. Maybe that question was too personal,
but I was really confused as to why he'd wait until after he moved to tell me about his feelings. He said, "of course I've seen hot ones, but none that I'm interested in."
I did a swell job of forgetting about him after he moved, but he abruptly reminded me how much I have liked him. I have toadmit that I was elated to find out he had been feeling the same way. We've been texting almost not-stop for about 3 days. He's actually kind of demanding of my attention, which is surprising because he hardly talked to me when we first met. Last night I had to go to sleep early, and when I said goodnight he said "Night, I guess. Whatever." He seemed irritated. This concerns me a little because that's not really something to be sensitive about. And so far I haven't heard from him today. I've been studying astrology for a while now, and he is the typical virgo. His personality is definitely true to his sun sign. I don't know anything about the rest of his chart, though.
Well, I'm not sure exactly what kind of advice I need. Lol I have no one to talk to about this. Should I make a trip to
Cali? I could totally pull it off, because I can afford it. And it's not like I'm going to stay with a stranger. I know
him pretty well. Should I take all this flirting seriously? He contacted me as though he had been considering it for a while. But he never made any effort before to show he liked me. Now He says he likes me a lot. I'd also like to know what it's like to date a virgo guy.
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Nov 17, 2012Comments: 22 · Posts: 6178 · Topics: 30
I could see why people think this if you say it is contrary.
I wonder then if the attribute of "not wanting to be alone" could applied to any sign.
Or that one sign "Likes be in a relationship" more than another one.
I also am not sure if you are plural speaking of being left alone as in single or being left alone as in don't want to be social with anyone.
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I had a good job, but we lived 2 states away from my mother in law. She guilted my wife into moving to her town so she could see our daughter. I did not want to go, but I did anyway, against my better judgement. The job I had lined up fell through, and we had to stay with the MIL for a couple months.
The MIL went out of her way to make sure that everyone under the roof was absolutely miserable. So, once we got out of there, into our own place, I have not seen or spoken to the MIL since. Its been about a year and a half. I stayed home on Thanksgiving, and watched football. I stayed home on Christmas too. The MIL has told my wife that she can't understand why I hate her so much, and wishes I would come around. I reminded my wife that I told her that I will never see that witch again.
Fast forward to last August. My mother died, and since my dad died in 2006, both my parents are dead. The MIL told my wife that she figured that I will come around because she is the closest thing to a parent that I have now. I hadn't laughed that hard in a very long time.
Some people (my wife) think that I am harming myself by holding grudges and not forgiving. I'm not. I don't sit around and let this get me down. I simply do not want that cancer (not the sign) in my life, and I've made a decision, and I won't forget it. I have no reason to let the troll back into my life. I have ditched good friends simply because they had a negative outlook on life, so I'll be damned if I'm going to let a destructive and nasty person back into my life just to complete a fake family portrait.
Just my thoughts on the forgiveness issue.
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Mar 19, 2012Comments: 273 · Posts: 5457 · Topics: 33
Oh man, I wasn't aware. I hope she's okay, too. : (
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i do like Marlon Wayans body type. By the way, did anyone see A Haunted House???