How we fall in love / What are you looking for?
Posted by FishyPiscesPosted by carbon_scorp
I think what you're doing is precisely the right thing to do - sharing with him your concerns and what you need for the relationship to move forward. If you find that there's no deeper part, or not deep enough, then don't worry about letting go, because the relationship will never feel right (even if you want it to work out). There is someone out there who can match the depth you have. Also, remember that depth is defined by different people in different ways.
But it takes two to tango. No offence but the OP hasn't open up herself, men need an emotionally available partner just as much as women do. Imo the op should work on her being able to share herself first before bothering her partner(s). It starts by yourself.click to expand
I agree. I guess I was assuming that the OP would do the same. But definitely, a relationship is about two people, both being at the same level.
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You're probably not being man enough to do the right thing, talk calmly to her, make a decision good for all of you and thus also get the sex.
hey.. it's scorchedearth....(nods)......
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^ and...... your point..
I have told her that I will give it enough of a chance to get the hell out of this town, and to try again somewhere else..with a better economy and jobs. She started to protest, and I did tell her that I refuse to stay in this town any longer than I have to. She eventually agreed to leave her psychotic family and go somewhere else.
Defense, you're right. I don't have peace of mind right now, but I want to give it one more try. Our problems started when we lost our financial stability. When we get stable again, if things don't get better, I'm gone...and I will be able to afford the lawyer. I am hoping that things will get better though.
Defense, you're right. I don't have peace of mind right now, but I want to give it one more try. Our problems started when we lost our financial stability. When we get stable again, if things don't get better, I'm gone...and I will be able to afford the lawyer. I am hoping that things will get better though.
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Any aries ladies out there involved with virgo men or trying to get involved? How does this combo work? I feel such a strong connection and the sexual chemistry is RIDICULOUS!
IKR..... making it work is the tricky part... -_-
Posted by sand
he will ask... "Just the tip?"
Hahahahha so true
I hope he wasn't too offended that Duncan didn't kick me off this site, lol.
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