Advice needed about a Cap Guy
I can understand all that about you living with your parents (and his place there is alone time) - but look at it this way. If he's willing to come see you at your parent's occasionally and endure the family, take you out on a date and drop you off at the porch, then you'll know its not all about sex. Of course, you never said whether yall did or didn't, doesn't matter. A respectful man would do this. Even at my age you have kids at home, if a man is willing to take you out and walk you up to your porch, knowing their will be no sex, it says a lot about their intentions.
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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Update..
Forget about the cap and the aqua/Pisces..
Taurus girl is backspent a lot of time with her yesterday, I cant remember the last time I had so much fun with a girl, it was magical, so much chemistry. Ive beeen carrying this huge grin the whole day today, she made me realize she's my #1 right now, she made me realize why Ive been investing in her for long-term..
LoL, well thats good to hear! I know you are out doing your thing, but I secretly prefer the settled down Boomshakalaka lol + I feel its what you want, and she(the Taurus) is going to get you! Theres so many Virgo/Taurus pairs put there. In a way Im still rooting for my Virgo sis and her Taurus.
Seems to be love there, and thats always a beautiful thing. Good luck. Its seems the slower the better with Taureans. Take time and let it build is my best advice.
I ment my Pieces man 3 years ago
I lived alone so he was at my house almost every night, well he tolled me he loved me after a month of seeing each other, i was a fool and believed him. since that moment we shared everything i had, i considered to be equally his. even paying for holiday and outing and trying to make him feel special and needed in every way. and after about another month he asked me to make list of the guys i had had sex with or he would break up with me, i was devastated and made the list, after that day he calls me a slut almost every day, i accepted the fact i had been with more men and he had only bin 6 including me - i took it cuz i mean i know i am not a slut and i am sure he was and is still just trying to excert power over me.
2 weeks later i see he is sending messages with an ex (he told me to cut contact with every guy on the list i had made, and some of them were childhood friends i had grown up with since our relationships had enden in high school) how did he think it was ok to talk to his ex when he told me to cut all contact with mine?
i began seeing what advatages he was taking of, he had a job yet i had been paying for everything, including the bills and the food that he brought his friends over to eat and just hang out at my house, who would leave it dirty and expect me to clean it - if i refused he would just leave the mess, once my living room had dirty plates and glasses full of mouldy food and spit in them for about a month and half until i finally cleaned it (he dint even say thank you). i told him i need a break once for 2 months he begged for me back saying he would change- he did he began to clean (when i told him it was his turn) - but again i have endured many of his "tests" to show him that i do actually love him and wont leave him again, accepting his flaws up untill his mother and father attacked me verbaly saying many hobble things so i refuse to see them,- i am still hurt. he never stood up for me infront of them, and now when i talk about it or try to, he dismisses me, but its really bothering me, he wont suport the woman he is living with and "loves"?
is he really that damaged from the "break" we took does he even really love me? or is he taking advantage of all things i have to offer him?
and why if Pieces men are so sensitive and loving won't he listen to how much his non suport is hurting me and making me feel unloved and used? how can i get him to talk to me and is it even worth it?
-Sagi
I lived alone so he was at my house almost every night, well he tolled me he loved me after a month of seeing each other, i was a fool and believed him. since that moment we shared everything i had, i considered to be equally his. even paying for holiday and outing and trying to make him feel special and needed in every way. and after about another month he asked me to make list of the guys i had had sex with or he would break up with me, i was devastated and made the list, after that day he calls me a slut almost every day, i accepted the fact i had been with more men and he had only bin 6 including me - i took it cuz i mean i know i am not a slut and i am sure he was and is still just trying to excert power over me.
2 weeks later i see he is sending messages with an ex (he told me to cut contact with every guy on the list i had made, and some of them were childhood friends i had grown up with since our relationships had enden in high school) how did he think it was ok to talk to his ex when he told me to cut all contact with mine?
i began seeing what advatages he was taking of, he had a job yet i had been paying for everything, including the bills and the food that he brought his friends over to eat and just hang out at my house, who would leave it dirty and expect me to clean it - if i refused he would just leave the mess, once my living room had dirty plates and glasses full of mouldy food and spit in them for about a month and half until i finally cleaned it (he dint even say thank you). i told him i need a break once for 2 months he begged for me back saying he would change- he did he began to clean (when i told him it was his turn) - but again i have endured many of his "tests" to show him that i do actually love him and wont leave him again, accepting his flaws up untill his mother and father attacked me verbaly saying many hobble things so i refuse to see them,- i am still hurt. he never stood up for me infront of them, and now when i talk about it or try to, he dismisses me, but its really bothering me, he wont suport the woman he is living with and "loves"?
is he really that damaged from the "break" we took does he even really love me? or is he taking advantage of all things i have to offer him?
and why if Pieces men are so sensitive and loving won't he listen to how much his non suport is hurting me and making me feel unloved and used? how can i get him to talk to me and is it even worth it?
-Sagi
Taurus"s sensual hugs are irresistible !!!
Posted by itsnoteasybeingavirgo
Well a person could be vulnerable in thousand different ways. If you are in habit of sleeping while traveling with total strangers or eat something given by them; if you are living in a building that don't have any protection like Fire Protection, Earthquakes Protection etc.; if you are not taking precautions against changing weather or infectious diseases etc. if you can give your cell number or residential address to someone you meet on-line, or perhaps if you can do sex out of wedlock.. all of these, in one or other way, can make you vulnerable i.e. at risk to face something bad..
So do you find trusting people easy or hard.. and if your actions are very cautious & premeditated or reckless & impulsive? In short, how vulnerable you are?
Interesting question-- I usually find it pretty easy to trust people unless I can see (or get a vibe) that I shouldn't.
Sometimes, I even get the vibe that says I shouldn't, and I do, anyway-- but, that's with men (I know, I know).
I won't trust them with my money, or something that puts me at risk, though (anymore-- learned that when I was very young-- the hard way lol ).
But yes, I can be impulsive.
Posted by itsnoteasybeingavirgo
Plus apart from you, in general, which zodiac sign (or placement) do you think make someone vulnerable and which one is the most guarded?click to expand
Vulnerability-- umm, I can really only speak for myself on that-- and I think 7th House Neptune, which also happens to square my Pisces Moon, is the culprit.
Most guarded-- imo, Virgo, Capricorn, and Scorpio.
You're a Pisces moon, too, right?
How does that work for you with Virgo sun?
Posted by Mr. Defense
Hell no. There can only be one dick when I have sex. And I already have one, so 2 dicks is a crowd.
Venus in Virgo.
Transwomen do not have dicks. I said FULLY transitioned.
^^^^^^ lol... that I am. Done a lot of researching about all this and I think I know all the keywords to my dilemma lol.
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Professional Bum
Posted by Alex1234
Do leo men punish you for a bad behaviour?
Women to teach them a lesson for example.
Absolutely.
But it isn't confined to men punishing women-- I think we are equal opportunity punishers.
Posted by Alex1234
Does punishing mean not talking for a while and being silent?click to expand
It certainly can be that-- or they can dump a bucket of cold water on you while you sleep (he got dumped soon after).
Depends on the person.
Do they come back after cooling down?