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Sep 09, 2009Comments: 0 · Posts: 1341 · Topics: 40
Hmm rarely from someone who didn't do anything at all. If they didn't do anything then time just must of drifed us apart, or we naturally drifted apart which is fine it happens no hard feelings...
Other times I'll cut someone off who isn't worthy. Being not worthy = liar,deceiver,user, bad attitude, victim all the time, undercover hater, fake, hypocritical. All good ways to get cut off, and I'm not one to make up and go back, because like it was stated. It will never be the same again, once the trust is gone there really is nothing left to hold on to, and I don't forgive easy or reconcile easy. People shouldn't be so quick to take others for granted, or think they can always come back cause they will always be pulling some shit.
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Sep 29, 2010Comments: 2 · Posts: 1652 · Topics: 19
As a guy, I would have to argue that as you guys are still quite new to one another, your question was a "fair" one. You need to have some idea of where you stand, and what is actually going on. If he can't handle that, then you need to consider what his goals actually are.
Your right SWEETHEART just cause I was super into him and feeling him it was obviously not a mutual thang. GEshhhh funny now that i realize it. I don't regret it because I'm a grown women and I enjoyed his company but I think if anything it's very childish on his part. To poof dissaper or back off. The Truth IS IVE NEVER EVER HAD A GUY BACK OFF AFTER SEX. if anything they want me more or it always helps the relationship progress. When we become intimate. And also ive never had a one night stand so this is relatively new to my ass.;( I'm very careful to whom i sleep with.
P.s Cray Cray that ever since our second date when we started hanging out he changed his profile from "seeking something not too serious" to "seeking a Relationship".. I guess I was reading WAY TOO MUCH INTO IT!... thanks all again xoxo
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Jan 19, 2013Comments: 2 · Posts: 641 · Topics: 43
and it's strange but i think when you openly show your love for someone, they (men) run away, they don't care. but when you react to your feelings by inching away, they get this sixth sense and put two and two together and figure what you are feeling and try to check in on your feelings hahaha
try to remember, have you ever been acting (unintentinally) aloof/distant/busy and have someone vying for your attention? and then when you gave them attention, they have disappeared... so what gives? staying aloof/distant/busy?
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