do opposites always attract?
memyself ... I have been married to my polar opposite for over 30 years, and it's not quite as you have described. Maybe you aren't talking about polar opposites, but, since this is astrology, I'm assuming this is what you meant.
A polar opposite wants the same as the other ... the reason is different. For example:
A Virgo wants alot of alone time to be in their head
A Pisces wants alot of alone time to be in their head .... for different reasons
But, as far as attraction goes .... all people are attracted to what is different from them, because of the thrill value.
Then you talked about falling ... and that is whole seperate issue than attraction ...
A polar opposite wants the same as the other ... the reason is different. For example:
A Virgo wants alot of alone time to be in their head
A Pisces wants alot of alone time to be in their head .... for different reasons
But, as far as attraction goes .... all people are attracted to what is different from them, because of the thrill value.
Then you talked about falling ... and that is whole seperate issue than attraction ...
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Posted by Sutekh
Its a a pretty good aspect because the energies are similar. But if it's not channeled right youre gonna self destruct.
it MUST be channeled right. i know and have experienced the pitfalls of this aspect.
and its a survival aspect as well.
Posted by tiziani
London would be a very adaptable choice for you since we have pretty much exactly the same weather as Seattle, by the sounds of it.
Personally I am fighting off spiritually dying here from the lack of sun, like Gandalf says. But I do love London. I personally feel Milan's architecture beats London's, but both these cities definitely have rich history paved on every corner of every road and it is hard not to take that for granted when I am here.
I am still looking to visit Europe. Just to experience it if nothing else.
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Ok color me confused here or maybe I'm just not understanding what people are trying to tell the OP to do. It sounds like people are saying boom you have a problem with his behavior so instead of blaming him you should just leave. It seems like folks are more concerned about who's to blame or who's "wrong" than how to address the actual issue. Am I missing something? It appears that the OP has all this conjecture about what and who her SO is texting but she really hasn't followed through on an honest discussion with the guy about what he's doing and how it makes her feel.
I can understand her in the beginning not making a big deal out of the texting because at the time she was not emotionally attached to the guy and so she did not care much about who he was texting, naturally when emotions get involved perception changes. To say "leave him" is a bit too black and white for my taste and it seems to be a common form of advice here on DXP. I'd say (and this is just my humble opinion) 1st have a conversation with yourself. Figure out what you can and cannot accept in a relationship and act accordingly. Once you've established your "hard limits" (thank you Christian Grey) then you might consider having a conversation with your SO about it and how it makes you feel. Right or wrong both of your feelings matter and if they do not align THEN it's time to exercise you option to leave the situation.
To me without knowing what he's texting these women you're projecting your own insecurities onto him by assuming that just because he's texting women he must be emotionally cheating. He may just be a guy who has close women friends that text him throughout the day. For me I would only date a guy that was open about his relationships with the opposite sex; meaning that he doesn't hide his female friends from me because they are exactly that "friends".
There can be a middle ground of compromise for the 2 of you if you both feel its an issue worth compromising for. It doesn't have to be as blk/wht as he's not behaving the way I want so I'm leaving all the time. If that were the case I doubt that P-Angel could boast about being married (to a Virgo no less) for 20 or however many years they've been married. I'm sure there have been many issues that have come up in their relationship that required mutual compromise in order to make it work. Good luck!
I can understand her in the beginning not making a big deal out of the texting because at the time she was not emotionally attached to the guy and so she did not care much about who he was texting, naturally when emotions get involved perception changes. To say "leave him" is a bit too black and white for my taste and it seems to be a common form of advice here on DXP. I'd say (and this is just my humble opinion) 1st have a conversation with yourself. Figure out what you can and cannot accept in a relationship and act accordingly. Once you've established your "hard limits" (thank you Christian Grey) then you might consider having a conversation with your SO about it and how it makes you feel. Right or wrong both of your feelings matter and if they do not align THEN it's time to exercise you option to leave the situation.
To me without knowing what he's texting these women you're projecting your own insecurities onto him by assuming that just because he's texting women he must be emotionally cheating. He may just be a guy who has close women friends that text him throughout the day. For me I would only date a guy that was open about his relationships with the opposite sex; meaning that he doesn't hide his female friends from me because they are exactly that "friends".
There can be a middle ground of compromise for the 2 of you if you both feel its an issue worth compromising for. It doesn't have to be as blk/wht as he's not behaving the way I want so I'm leaving all the time. If that were the case I doubt that P-Angel could boast about being married (to a Virgo no less) for 20 or however many years they've been married. I'm sure there have been many issues that have come up in their relationship that required mutual compromise in order to make it work. Good luck!
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OH my! Scorpio is my venus. Hope it doesn't affect my relationship!
But as far as the "death" and "rebirth", I have been in the mood for cleaning up junk and getting rid of extra things I don't need. I suppose it does affect me there.
DonJohnson is a Cancer? I would have guessed him for a Mutable or Air sign, for sure. Maybe the Mars and Moon have some interesting aspects.
He sure does like himself alot.
He sure does like himself alot.
you can check my profile for my planetary placements.
Posted by CapricornRawPosted by DMVPosted by CapricornRaw
some people and astrologers even envy this aspect...
cos some astrologers wished to have this aspect, for its trancendental or kundalini and sex magic potentials.
what lol
you know it... this aspect is versatile. kinda pity that most descriptions emphasize on the lower influences.click to expand
i FEEL you on that. most descriptions are severely once sided. Like Watercup said, sometimes you need a real world reading.