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Posted by RichardParkerPosted by Geminivixen
Have you ever had one? If so, how old were they? What did they do for you? & how old were you at the time or if it is current how is it going now? Men can have sugar mommy's as well so let me know your experience if you ever had one. Do you think it's wrong? Or right? Why? Why not? Have you ever had something similar to it? I now random topic, lol ah well..
Nah. I like to pay my own way through life.
That being said- I could care less if other people wanna do it.
I mean- how do their personal choices affect MY life in any shape or form?click to expand
Posted by MrFirebird
I feel like murdering someone when I wake up in the morning. Does that count?
Posted by tizianiPosted by LIBRA1234Posted by tiziani
If you were talking literally about age then I guess I just proved my own point by taking your post too seriously/philosophically.
Gandalf doesn't strike me as a 24 year old though. I've learned a fair amount from him, moreso in the funny posts than when it gets serious actually.
Look at the what Mr. D said about this age. This is what I meant when I said he is a kid. Imo, men and women are in their most critical age in their 20's. Its a self discovery age. U can go one way or the other. That is the age of decisions.. as Mr. D said about being set in his ways, that's what I think about myself too. Its the 30's that bring a comfort of accepting who u are... Having an inner child is great, as long as this inner child is not on the way of making u grow in a right direction and is not affecting your responsibility in life. I am giving my father as an example. He was always a child and he is still a child being at his age now. That was not fun neither for my mother nor for us kids growing up.. So yeah, having a balance is the way to go imo
That's a fair point. I can't argue with that.
I would just say that 30s (even if I cannot speak from experience yet) is far too early for people to talk about being set in their ways. I understand the sense in which you guys are saying it, but in general I think people are in too much of a hurry to grow up.
Age 27 is the average age of emotional maturity and it's only really until 40 we should be still discovering where that "emotional maturity" brings us to, in terms of self discovery. And that is by average.
There are a lot of young pre-40 people I run into everyday speaking as if they are middle aged. I am probably guilty of this, myself.click to expand
Posted by Grey
I see 40 year old saying that he could not recognize himself at 30. 30 does seem to stabilize you but i mean our perspectives are always changing. You might become more spiritually oriented at 40 than you currently are.
The main evolution i see is physical to emotional to spiritual.
Posted by TAURUSbellePosted by ScorpioChica
Does anyone think their Venus sign dictates if they're gonna stray OR take the relationship serious?
I'm a Scorpio Venus & haven't met anyone I can take serious since I broke up with my ex Virgo of 8 1/2 yrs.
I just did a chart on him & just found out he also has Venus in Scorpio...
aww man that's a long time.. sorry things didn't work out. I'm a Taurus with a Venus in Aries, I don't stray, but I DEF know when its time for me to leave. I give notice well in advance (When I start to feel antsy, too bored, predictable or "settled") but if nothing has been done to improve the situation, or to "spice things up" then I'm OUTTA there. They can't say they weren't warned and/or didn't know WHY I left.
Posted by ScorpioChica
Since I've only recently dabbled in the importance of the Venus sign for compatibility, I've started to connect the dots & have realized I don't mesh well with fire signs in Venus
compatibilty doesn't only rely on the "Venus".. you may want to take a closer look at their "Moon (emotions) & Mercury (communication). I sometimes look at their Mars (sexuality & drive), to see if I'll be dealing with a "retaliatory" or aggressive type. So I know my "Limits" with them ahead of time.
Venus is just "Part" of the puzzle in love matters it gives a glimpse of your partner's "Love Language."
Just because your partner's love language may not be understood by you from the beginning, doesn't mean it can't be learned.
My ex Cap's Venus was in Scorpio, and Mine(as mentioned above) is in Aries (a fire Venus)..
We're BOTH Earth signs, but my MOON is in Scorpio, my emotions resonated with HIS Venus. (I didn't mind his jealousy, or stalkerish ways..lol)..He was one of the few men that I loved.
If only he has his STUFF together, I would have married the man, EASILY. But that wont be. I still have love for him though.
So you see?? All is not lost if the Venus' don't EXACTLY match.click to expand
Posted by Mr. DefensePosted by GreyPosted by Mr. Defense
If you wonder why I hang out here so much, because it's easier to hang out here. I can just park here, and keep refreshing the page, and chat. This way I can work, and post here at the same time. I think going to other threads take more active posting, which is distracting when I'm at work.
I honestly thought you were hanging out here because you had a crush on libracuspy
Well to be honest with you, it should be the other way around. I'm the older guy, so she should have a major school girl crush on me.click to expand
Posted by WaterCupPosted by shellshockerPosted by WaterCupPosted by DMVPosted by WaterCup
Lol @ cute head. Tell me about the mars/pluto thingy, please.
you never read up on that aspect?
all the sites copy & paste the same info, i just wanted to hear a different view on it. I'll be going to an indian astologer soon for a different perspective on my chart, hopefully
I agree. According to astrologers, I'm gong to kill people or be killed. I like/attract intensity but there is deeper stuff involved. I have...
Ascdent/Pluto
Sun/Pluto
Moon/Pluto
Mars/Pluto
Mercury/Pluto
Neptune/Pluto
and 3 T-squares with Pluto.
same here, thats why i hope/seek for a nicer 2nd opinion.
Sun/pluto
moon/pluto
mars/pluto
venus/pluto
all the way down except for mercuryclick to expand
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