confused??
errr.. someone delete my pervious post please. boss came by LOL
ok. here we go again.
1. Why does cancer man remember every little things about u ( what u said, what u did, what u promised )?
Becoz he love u, he is paying 100% efforts on you, he wont lie to you as long as you dont cheat him ( serious cheat).
Remembering things is also some kind of weapons/ shields for cancer man. If you both fight, if he reveal u lie to him, cancer man most likely recall what u said/did/promised. Lets say u promised him u wont contact with a male friend anymore, after 1 year, somehow he found out u contacted him within this period of time. Cancer man then will have this kind of thought or talk to himself like " WHY! Why did she lie to me?!" after some time, he will call u and say something like " U promised me blah blah blah". The POINT is here: cancer says "u broke ur promises" to you which more likely make u feel guilty, and cancer man believe that if my parnter feel a bit guilty, they wont lie again. Another POINT here: if a cancer man said something like " u broke ur promises, how could u do this to me, blah blah blah." dont be afriad he wont forgive you. As a cancer man, i can tell you this; the moment that a cancer man asked you, he forgives you already, he just want to find an answer to make himself feel better.
2. One day I was talking about a guy I had dated and said he wasn't even my type----- IF i were him, this will come to my mind immediately " You dont like that guy, he is not ur type but u still dated him...Am i having the same situation? How could a girl dated a guy if she obviously knows that guy wasnt her type? Is she loyalty enough? Will she do it again? blah blah blah.... well, girl u have to tell him the details, talk with him whats happened , and what will happen. This is the only way can pull a cancer out of his shell.
ok. here we go again.
1. Why does cancer man remember every little things about u ( what u said, what u did, what u promised )?
Becoz he love u, he is paying 100% efforts on you, he wont lie to you as long as you dont cheat him ( serious cheat).
Remembering things is also some kind of weapons/ shields for cancer man. If you both fight, if he reveal u lie to him, cancer man most likely recall what u said/did/promised. Lets say u promised him u wont contact with a male friend anymore, after 1 year, somehow he found out u contacted him within this period of time. Cancer man then will have this kind of thought or talk to himself like " WHY! Why did she lie to me?!" after some time, he will call u and say something like " U promised me blah blah blah". The POINT is here: cancer says "u broke ur promises" to you which more likely make u feel guilty, and cancer man believe that if my parnter feel a bit guilty, they wont lie again. Another POINT here: if a cancer man said something like " u broke ur promises, how could u do this to me, blah blah blah." dont be afriad he wont forgive you. As a cancer man, i can tell you this; the moment that a cancer man asked you, he forgives you already, he just want to find an answer to make himself feel better.
2. One day I was talking about a guy I had dated and said he wasn't even my type----- IF i were him, this will come to my mind immediately " You dont like that guy, he is not ur type but u still dated him...Am i having the same situation? How could a girl dated a guy if she obviously knows that guy wasnt her type? Is she loyalty enough? Will she do it again? blah blah blah.... well, girl u have to tell him the details, talk with him whats happened , and what will happen. This is the only way can pull a cancer out of his shell.
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Posted by seraphPosted by LetltB
I just love reading b.s. from someone who claims he's canadian yet expresses American policy and our constitutional amendments like he's a citizen,
Interesting how a lot of "furriners" know it better than you do.
Nearly every University in this country has some sort of American Studies branch.
Oh look:
http://www.utoronto.ca/csus/
Not to mention people who actually try to learn about the world beyond their borders.click to expand
yea..sure ok Seraph
Posted by GreyPosted by DAMEN VIPosted by Grey
well how about you read some of their intent on the Georgia guidestones. Henry kissinger himself stated that they want population reduction.
yeah i read it and i agree with the guidestones..im joining the illuminati while the rest of you guys get put in gas chambers..you and your kind are cancers of the earth
thanks man. i knew you would understand. dumbassclick to expand
when your living underground in a sewer somewhere, eating rat burgers for dinner & hiding out from the government,and im living good above ground,chilling with my microchip blinging thru my skin and having intergalactic cybersex with a amazon chick that has a 56 inch ass & 4 tits, then we'll see who's really the dumbass
Get a green card and then maybe I'll talk to you
Posted by Poisson
A-ha. Do speak you both French and Creole? I know this one Hatian guy and I asked him if spoke Creole. He stated that his mother didn't want him speaking Creole, just straight French... which I found a bit odd.
YES, I do speak BOTH. My conversation, and written needs work as I don't speak or write it much. but I CAN read, & listen to anything and will understand. I'm sure a few months in France will cure that IMMEDIATELY.
As for your friends mother..(I pause for BOISTEROUS laughter)
I DESPIIIISE Old school Haitians, who deny speaking Creole and deny their children from speaking it. It is The "language of the people". They feel that by speaking French, it distinguishes them as "Higher class" and it further defines their "Education level" feeling it makes them SUPERIOR compared to the strugglingcommoner who can't afford private school education to learn French.
Stupid Classism complex. Makes me SICK to see The SAME race turn their nose up at one another all because they can speak & write a Language?? What they fail to realize is that by Speaking French ONLY, does NOT make them FRENCH.
I won't even get started on the Dark - light skinned color inferior/superiority complexes.
Creole is a Language of SURVIVAL. It is a mixture of many languages.(several West African dialects,Spanish,French,Taino Indian etc..) It was a language used to CONFUSE the French in ORDER to gain the Country and Independance FROM them.
To dismiss & debase this Historic language is to spit on the blood that was shed to win over the country. I am PROUD to speak Creole and will try my damnest to teach my own future kids..
Whenever I cross paths with those type of Haitians. I tell them " You will NEVER be French."
IN Creole.
Posted by ellessque
I'm a union shop, automotive, and I have no "quota".
you REALLY DO cherry pick!
do you REALLY think an employer is going to look at two apps and the more qualified person will be turned down because they are a few shades darker than another person with less qualifications?
that's not gonna happen....not when it's hard enough to fill positions with good people.
It does in colleges...if we are looking for meaningful answers here, I thought I'd throw that in.
Posted by SutekhPosted by DAMEN VIPosted by GreyPosted by DAMEN VIPosted by Grey
well how about you read some of their intent on the Georgia guidestones. Henry kissinger himself stated that they want population reduction.
yeah i read it and i agree with the guidestones..im joining the illuminati while the rest of you guys get put in gas chambers..you and your kind are cancers of the earth
thanks man. i knew you would understand. dumbass
when your living underground in a sewer somewhere, eating rat burgers for dinner & hiding out from the government,and im living good above ground,chilling with my microchip blinging thru my skin and having intergalactic cybersex with a amazon chick that has a 56 inch ass & 4 tits, then we'll see who's really the dumbass
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im just sayin...life is much easier when you go with the grain instead of against it
don't fight the illuminati, be apart of it
smh. Your having problems being mean and downright. HA! I had a Pisces that couldn't take the hint. Unfortunately I just disappeared basically. Stopped texting him back, didn't answer his calls. Nothing. He got the hint. He may be a little pissed but at least he can finally let go of thinking we will ever be more than what we are which is ex's. Ironically though, I do care for him and tried to tell him in the nicest way possible that our shipped had sailed, but he wouldn't hear of it. Anything I did, no matter how simple he took it as a way to get me back. So much to the point that I actually said dang, dude really cares about me (and we've never even been intimate) so I tried, and when it didn't work I said we are better as friends and that I dip because I don't wanna hurt him. He said he understood but as soon as I say Hi, or check to see how he's doing JUST to be friendly because it's in my nature, he starts trying to pursue more with me -_-. My advice is to just drop all contact for a while. He will have no choice but to move on.
Posted by IntriguedScorp
It does in colleges...if we are looking for meaningful answers here, I thought I'd throw that in.
Also, and I know this might be hard for some to imagine--the person hiring might actually be Black.
Whodathunk it....?Either way, I'm interested in knowing why one is different from the other? The college question is legit and a fact.
Posted by ellessque
It does in colleges...if we are looking for meaningful answers here, I thought I'd throw that in.
so if a light skinned black man and dark skinned black man were at the admissions desk....and the dark skinned black man had better credentials....
you are saying the light skinned black man would get in because he's light skinned?
because that is essentially what sutekh is saying.
No, I'm saying BOTH the dark skinned and the light skinned will get in OVER a qualified white man/woman. So if we go back to your question on the application process for employment, tell us what the difference is and why.
Posted by sweethearts
Hun, my suggestion is stay with the guy. Don't ditch him but ffs, go about your own life and not just until he calls you after 4 days because he wants to reel you back in but go about your life FULLY giving him only as much time as a friend and when he wakes up and wants FULL commitment only then bother to stop and listen up to what he is proposing.
In short....STOP LIVING YOUR LIFE FOR HIM!!!!
You are right! I need to fully start living my life for me. I know it doesn't seam like it but slowly I am beginning to one step at a time! at least I've learnt a lot the last few months!
