He broke up with me
Posted by scorpio24
I know that everyone's advice is all well and good but it is soooo much easier said then done. I have never gone through such a difficult breakup and it's clear that it has been hard for both of us to let go. Sorry if I'm being pathetic but it's really fucking hard.
It is very hard. Find a girlfriend who will listen and stick by you with all this bullshit. And STOP answering his messages it's just going ot come and bite you in the ass because he will turn it into friendship and you will then sit there and watch him mack over other girls. Best answer is SILENCE. Just disappear. Do other things, hang out with other friends. Who cares if you all know each other, if you come to a place where your friends are and he's there... leave. Simple as that.
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So yes, for $ 5000 a night I will consider being an FWB. Sounds like a reasonable benefit to me.
Everyone knows the rules. Everyone is happy.
This is called prostitution.
In a FWB relationship, similar benefits are expected to be exchanged. For free, since they are mutual!
If everyone follows the rules, everyone will be happy indeed.
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I don't know about that. FWB entails mutual attraction in most cases right?
Some guys out there are still gonna have to pay if they want to get it (To be clear I'm not volunteering under those circumstances!)
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Posted by Metoo
Well, basically if he isnt your committed boyfriend, you are someone he is sleeping with.
He is physically invested, not emotionally.
He may be thinking, she is having surgery and wont be able to have sex for awhile.
Its an awkward spot in the relationship.
I mean, you cant use sex to form a deeper bond, you need time, dates, communication, getting to see the other in just daily situations and start to learn them.
It is a good sign he did call a few times, but again, things just arent deep between the two of you, they are surface and centered on a sexual relationship, not a good solid bond, mutual understanding and sincere feeling.
Sex first before knowing someone deeper cuts out or short cuts alot of the courting and getting to know eachother on a more genuine level. This is where you are, he is a sexual partner, thats pretty much it so what your getting from him at this point is pretty much the most you can expect.
I am truly sorry about your accident an wish you a quick recovery from your surgery.
+1000
I remain fascinated as to how many women get involved with Caps and seem to desire an instant relationship with them after only a few months given how slow to process and commit these particular men are. I truly believe their ability to convey emotional distance is the turn-on/test that pushes women to want to "conquer" these guys even more because they can be so non-reactionary to a woman's wiles which is like a silent dare to win them over.
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So you had a talk about issues and nothing changed,and your wondering if it will, No it won`t..If you feel like it is so bad that you need advice chances are it is, but only you can decide for yourself..If you want a relationship that allows a man to control you then by all means stick around..If not, then you know what to do..
Lmao!!!
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Posted by PidelightPosted by Metoo
Well, basically if he isnt your committed boyfriend, you are someone he is sleeping with.
He is physically invested, not emotionally.
He may be thinking, she is having surgery and wont be able to have sex for awhile.
Its an awkward spot in the relationship.
I mean, you cant use sex to form a deeper bond, you need time, dates, communication, getting to see the other in just daily situations and start to learn them.
It is a good sign he did call a few times, but again, things just arent deep between the two of you, they are surface and centered on a sexual relationship, not a good solid bond, mutual understanding and sincere feeling.
Sex first before knowing someone deeper cuts out or short cuts alot of the courting and getting to know eachother on a more genuine level. This is where you are, he is a sexual partner, thats pretty much it so what your getting from him at this point is pretty much the most you can expect.
I am truly sorry about your accident an wish you a quick recovery from your surgery.
+1000
I remain fascinated as to how many women get involved with Caps and seem to desire an instant relationship with them after only a few months given how slow to process and commit these particular men are. I truly believe their ability to convey emotional distance is the turn-on/test that pushes women to want to "conquer" these guys even more because they can be so non-reactionary to a woman's wiles which is like a silent dare to win them over.click to expand
Let's not kid ourselves with these Cap men being so slow and straightforward, some of them play women. They come off all amazing at first to hook you and then once you are hooked, they need to think about it and that process is slow in many cases if they have other options to investigate.
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Lol! Dee say it how it is!
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