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Apr 01, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 116 · Topics: 13
Ok, so, my ex called me at work the other day re: a lawnmower that I have at his house. He said it did not work and I told him, he could trash, sell it or whatever. Since this was our first actual conversation since March 7th, we exchanged idle chit chat. I said speaking of things at your house, that I had my beach chair there and other floor mats. Come to find out, it was his beach chair, which he was right. I thought it was mine. I used it for 6 years, what do I know. To make a long story short, I get a text from him yesterday telling me, he found a chair for me, brand new just for me... I replied oh wow, luck me, thanks... OK what gives?
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Feb 17, 2013Comments: 14 · Posts: 443 · Topics: 35
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Feb 17, 2013Comments: 14 · Posts: 443 · Topics: 35
Godamnit. I fucking hate when that happens.
Anyways, do you have other males in your work place that platonically flirt with you?
Recent post I have explained this situation between me and this virgirl. I have disappointed her a lot and been inconsistent in the past due to traveling the world. I'm home now and the past 3 weeks been nothing short of amazing.
It's very obvious how we feel about each other in person and while communicating. She said today that she loves what we got going on and that she is dropping all the other guys she talks to like flies. Says things are going well and headed in the right direction. That I'm one of her best friends and its way more comfortable than usual. She says she doesn't wanna put all her eggs in one basket yet. Has no expectations. Still doesn't know a lot. etc etc. I know its only been 3 weeks and it's still gonna take awhile till things are possibly official. Just wondering what this process is like and how long it usually takes.
I asked her about why she has expectations bc clearly she has some. She said she tends to have very high expectations at the beginning and then always gets disappointed and that she is finally just trying to roll with it and that it helps I keep affirming her. I said things are gonna be fine. She said "you might not like me once you get to know me more tho." I had to say plz stop bc this is prol the 3rd time she has said this. I said "you just said we were best friends a min ago, we have 5 years of history. You know me well enough that I wouldn't let you get close to me if I didn't think the world of you and you should at least start to be getting this" she said ya i am. I don't have expectations, I'm really just going with things, but I'm very comfortable with how she feels about me bc I can just tell that she is nuts about me and maybe she doesn't quite know that yet about me?? Still just wondering what the process is like. thanks
You don't owe this guy anything. Make him come to you, in your city, in your comfort zone, on your terms. He's the one that broke up with you, he needs to prove to you that he's more than just words. No excuses!