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The thing is, you can rationalize subsequent events as much as you'd like and I freely accept people change and grow. But everything you've said here very much fits under the category of the terms you first set out when you start seeing each other.
He said "I'm not looking for a commitment" when he saw you, and you said "fine with me" when you saw him.
That is very indicative. And no matter how much rationale can be found after that, the truth is first impressions count for a lot. It will take a lot of time apart to break free from the pattern between you that you've already set in place.

Posted by tiziani
Yeah Curious, unfortunately if you are looking for a man to take a risk and take the lead we can be very weak in that department. Especially when we actually care about the woman. Put the jumper cables to a Libra's engine and you will see the other side of him that is more than willing to go the extra mile.

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I can get you there in about 3 minutes...**adjusts goggles and takes a deep breath**

Well well well....Somebody's full of themselves :p

It'll be the best 3 and a half minutes of your life once you factor in the 30 seconds its going to take me...,

Well then Ill get done in 15 secs and you wont get off...then ill get up go make me a sandwich...come back and eat right in front of you!

Now about this sandwich you speak of...

is all mine and its good too

You're mean

So ive been told....I did leave all the sandwich fixing on the counter, have at it :p

That's more like it!

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Posted by ChrisNews
Thank you for the comments. I still haven't quite figured out how to reply to specific names so here goes:
P-Angel: I have put forth the effort. I have tried. I have suited up and entered the game, willing to meet him halfway. He is the one that hasn't. He seems to get upset when I ignore him, and then when I do give him attention, he disappears. I finally just gave up trying, and let him call/text. Funny how you call me a princess, because I am not even close to that. I am more of a tomboy by nature. I can speak directly and have before with him in the past. He always came back with a story about not wanting to blow it with me, or about dealing with family stuff. I don't need his attention. Or any man's. I was single for a long time before him.
trashbliss. I have stopped calling him and tried just texting him once "hi" every other day. Today I got a good morning text from him, along with "you don't even call me anymore" - which makes no sense because if you want me to leave you alone, then why send that? I simply responded, "you don't call me either, I figured that's what you wanted." Then he went on about remembering a night we shared together. Why not just be happy I'm not calling and move on to the next girl?
Tiki33. I agree with you. Why not just have the big argument? We have done that 2 times now. And both times he talked me back. He is about 45 miles away, and works about 12-14 hours a day, 6 days a week, and is a single parent. I get that he is busy. He was coming over about once a week after work -getting to my place late and tired. Then it stopped after he started to tell me he loved me. He kept wanting to know if I loved him and after days of pressing me I finally said yes, and then he said he did too and then that is when the "lets just go with the flow, things are moving too fast, I feel like we are closer than if we lived near each other, if you lived near it would be different. ,etc.
I am not waiting for him. I am too old for games. I am just as busy. I just want to understand this man because today's text from him about me not calling him anymore - why send that? Why not drop this. I want him to end this because I know if I blow it up into an argument and give all my grievances, I can be swayed with his sweet talk. But if he ends it, I am a cancer - I will run into my shell and never let him hurt me again.

Posted by RealTalk
Oh yes...emotional tantrums. *gagging*
It's annoying enough on the boards. I can't even fathom how it is in RL. Poor guy...

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Posted by RealTalk
Oh yes...emotional tantrums. *gagging*
It's annoying enough on the boards. I can't even fathom how it is in RL. Poor guy...

LMAO

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