Have I completely lost Taurus male?
Posted by scorpchick76
Thanks Heather for the insight... a lot of great things to ponder.
I'm letting go, not specifically of him and I again mostly because a part of me wants to 'be on my best behavior' and see where this all goes and also because I do have a bit of hope, he feels like he's a deep rooted part my my life story (past lives included). --shortened-- I'm not looking for answers or even solid advice here just using it as a sounding board to understand the other side of things (a little) and to learn for myself. I'm definitely focused more on me though and it's good and there has been a perceptible shift to us both.
I know he is conflicted and don't doubt for a second what Heather said about him feeling both ways equally. He is struggling and unfortunately the only person he is going to for advice these days is his poisonous friend. As for friending her - it's not at all malicious - she is a big part of his life, I'd like to understand why and should have sooner. I am not counting on it for any change to the situation I'm just trying to be a better person and live outside my comfort zone.
I TOTALLY RESPECT you probing multiple viewpoints to assist you in making your OWN educated decisions. I don't get a good response when I do the same, simply bc Oh! Taurus = stubborn. I always listen, process, and take what I find useful, and leave the rest. So the older I get and more experienced I get, the more dynamic I become in a sense. So we can just say "It gets better and better every day" and MEAN it. I just don't pretend to know, or understand, everything; and learning from those wiser and more experienced than me helps me in becoming a better woman daily. So more power to you girl! Be strong and let HIM come to YOU IF he's worth being with you. Seems like you've put yourself out there and done your best... and our best is all we can do, right?
And if you feel past lives of some sort bind you two together, in even the most broad sense, don't lose touch with him. That doesn't even mean you have to be a part of his life sometimes. But such an amazing, magnetic feeling as such is rare and to be cherished.
And I hope I don't come across rude but your green-eyed monster was showing again
--heather