@clueless cancer. I do feel what you are saying completely. I'm sure my situation is a bit different than yours. The first time my virgal got distant was the beginning of the year. She had said she was falling for me, but I wasn't reciprocating bc I was leaving the country. We got in some argument, I told her how I really felt then left. She wrote me a month later and we SLOWLY started talking again. After about a month I was coming home again and we were in a really great place. Once I got home I didn't hang with her the first few days and it disappointed her. Into her shell she went. I was basically being too cautious and inconsistent and not really showing or speaking my mind. I decided that I'm done doing that and I'm going to be myself for once. It's odd, with her it was hard to be myself bc I was scared of the reaction I would get. I came on kinda strong and I think it confused her. We didn't speak a few days and eventually she just asked me to hang out about a 3 weeks ago. Since that time we have slowly made great progress. Things had never been better up until when she went to work on Saturday. That is where we stand now. She has been fine today. Not super distant, but def not like she was Friday either. It's so odd how a person can go from telling me how great of a place we were in and looking forward to the future, saying I miss you to all of this sh1t now.
All of that said I do agree with you. She has had to remain patient with me for awhile. She has like me for 5 years. The whole 2 months I was home end of 2012 she was telling me she was falling for me and I wasn't having it bc I was leaving again. I have only had to be patient for her for a week or so leading up to her asking me to hang and then these past few days. I do agree everyone has problems and it doesn't mean they should drop the ones they love. We are not in love though. We def care about each other, but not quite to the love stage. We have never been official, but I feel things were def leading to that stage as of late. I know when I get overwhelmed with life I tend to kinda take a time out. evaluate everything that has been going on in my life and I go into fix it mode. However, I don't block out the ones close to me. I keep those ppl close bc I know they are there for me and I love them. Apparently that just isn't virgos work. They will become cold as ice to basically everyone until they get all the critical thinking in......
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Nov 17, 2012Comments: 22 · Posts: 6178 · Topics: 30
I swear the topic of discussion changes so fast on this thread it truly is difficult to keep up lol
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i only had one libra relationship...he was my first butt sex. we had the most intense brain sex though. i hate it when we go out though he has better style than me that fucking ass.
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