Hilarious message from ex
The situation is soooooooooooo confusing!
What happened, happened, I can't change.
Since I cam back he calls me every day.
We talk up to 20 minutes a day. (he calls me)
Never mentions last weekend or what happened. Nor mentions any feeling.
Tries to stay friendly and calmed...but I feel he is not calmed at all.
Stay back and wait or what shall I do? He admitted, he still has feelings for me but he is hurt and he can't trust me. If I don't trust a person I don't call or text, right?
What happened, happened, I can't change.
Since I cam back he calls me every day.
We talk up to 20 minutes a day. (he calls me)
Never mentions last weekend or what happened. Nor mentions any feeling.
Tries to stay friendly and calmed...but I feel he is not calmed at all.
Stay back and wait or what shall I do? He admitted, he still has feelings for me but he is hurt and he can't trust me. If I don't trust a person I don't call or text, right?
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I SHOULD NOT TELL YOU DIM WITS THIS BUT WTF
ALWAYS GET THE FIRST PUNCH IN
IF POSSIBLE HIT HIM IN THE NOSE WITH THE PALM OF YOUR HAND DOING A UPPER CUT.
HIT WERE THE BUTT OF YOUR HAND MEETS THE ARM.
YOU LAND THE PUNCH RIGHT IT BLINDS HIM FOR ABOUT 5 TO 10 SCEONDS.
THEN YOU GOT HIM
ALWAYS GET THE FIRST PUNCH IN
IF POSSIBLE HIT HIM IN THE NOSE WITH THE PALM OF YOUR HAND DOING A UPPER CUT.
HIT WERE THE BUTT OF YOUR HAND MEETS THE ARM.
YOU LAND THE PUNCH RIGHT IT BLINDS HIM FOR ABOUT 5 TO 10 SCEONDS.
THEN YOU GOT HIM
"You can never handle conflict matters very well as you suffer from nervous tension when placed in a confrontation situation or hostility of any kind. Your great sense of balance and harmony constantly protects you from ever go off the deep end. You may have a wide range of emotional responses from rapturous joy when you are happily with a special someone in a solid relationship, to almost going to pieces when you are confronted by hostility and forced to react to it." (his sun-moon combo from site that starts to explain sun-moon combos; msg me for website) You can read about his Venus in Gemini there too which I think you'll find VERY helpful. My Scorpio became TOO mutable to my moods and needs, and I turned out taking him for granted in the end.
And if he has made his mind up that you two are incompatible and voiced that thought, there is an iota of a chance you may change his mind, and that's being generous. We can be some obstinant pains in the butt when we want to be, or in defense of core values in ourselves. Venus rules Taurus, so for me anyway "Life without love is no life at all". Lovers at heart we are. And I'm even MORE fun bc I'm ASC Cancer lol. I have RECENTLY told a/n (ex) beau "You and I will never work out..." and he didn't take me seriously and dammit if I walked my happy ass away. I don't know if it's just me or a Bull thing, but I say what I mean and mean what I say. And, if possible, if I don't have anything nice to say, I don't say anything at all. Which, depending on the person, I stay more quiet than not nowadays. LOL
"I cannot save you, you can't even save yourself....You cannot save me, I can't even save myself"--Stabbing Westward (Taurean, and Scorpio, song writers are rad!) You answered your own questions with the rhetorical statement "Be me and be happy and see what happens I guess?" YOU work on YOU. And Taurean MEN cry more than Taurean women I'm pretty sure. LOL And we tend to be good nurturers/shoulders to cry on etc. Hope is also my fatal flaw bc I too can be so naive. For example, weighing out the "good" and "bad" unequally, just clinging to that little bit of good. Hope is NEVER a bad thing, even if I curse my own frequently. I hope for the best and plan for the worst, but I guess that's a Bull security thing. I commend you for staying positive and taking this opportunity to better yourself and grow as a person! Time will tell. "But I have no concept of time other than it is flying" right? Be patient.
--heather
And if he has made his mind up that you two are incompatible and voiced that thought, there is an iota of a chance you may change his mind, and that's being generous. We can be some obstinant pains in the butt when we want to be, or in defense of core values in ourselves. Venus rules Taurus, so for me anyway "Life without love is no life at all". Lovers at heart we are. And I'm even MORE fun bc I'm ASC Cancer lol. I have RECENTLY told a/n (ex) beau "You and I will never work out..." and he didn't take me seriously and dammit if I walked my happy ass away. I don't know if it's just me or a Bull thing, but I say what I mean and mean what I say. And, if possible, if I don't have anything nice to say, I don't say anything at all. Which, depending on the person, I stay more quiet than not nowadays. LOL
"I cannot save you, you can't even save yourself....You cannot save me, I can't even save myself"--Stabbing Westward (Taurean, and Scorpio, song writers are rad!) You answered your own questions with the rhetorical statement "Be me and be happy and see what happens I guess?" YOU work on YOU. And Taurean MEN cry more than Taurean women I'm pretty sure. LOL And we tend to be good nurturers/shoulders to cry on etc. Hope is also my fatal flaw bc I too can be so naive. For example, weighing out the "good" and "bad" unequally, just clinging to that little bit of good. Hope is NEVER a bad thing, even if I curse my own frequently. I hope for the best and plan for the worst, but I guess that's a Bull security thing. I commend you for staying positive and taking this opportunity to better yourself and grow as a person! Time will tell. "But I have no concept of time other than it is flying" right? Be patient.
--heather
Posted by noonie1801
I have experienced this with every relationship. I've been with Cancer, Leo, and Scorpio. Each one constantly wanted to be with me constantly. I wouldn't complain until I felt I just couldn't breathe anymore. Every time I would take a day to just enjoy being by myself each one would think I was spending it with someone else. I think Scorpio was the worst with this situation. Cancer would just pout and Leo would act like she didn't care but then blow up my phone soon as I left the house. Scorpio would always think it was something against her and would just ignore me for double the days I needed to myself.
I hear you on the scorpio part, I never had a Cancer or Leo though. I did have a Cancer who was just a friend though it would feel quite the opposite all the time. Very needy but I think she was that way before I came into the picture. The Scorpio was great at first. Sex-wise, she was all sorts of submissive, it was like having a "plaything" that was at my every beck n call, even though I never advocated that type of relationship. It crashed n burned after she became rather possessive and promiscuous.
Posted by ellessquePosted by CappGuy6330
I would like just Capricorn opinions on this one, don't be offended if I overlook your post.
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As a Cap I can say that I've never relied on another man's money. I also do not like men spending money on me, it makes me feel guilty if I'm out on a date and the man is buying all the drinks. If he won't allow me to buy him one I'll slip in and grab him one just to try to even the score. The Aries did let me pick up the $ 3 tip last time we were out as I was insisting on paying LOL When I was with my ex-Cancer he purchased a $ 1200 bracelet for me one year at Christmas, he must have noticed the look on my face as he seemed let down; it was beautiful and I really liked it, but I was less than impressed that he spent that kind of money.
Worst I've met are Aquas (users to be sure) and Aries (love my 2 BFFs to death, but they do prefer men with a little money).
Worst I've met are Aquas (users to be sure) and Aries (love my 2 BFFs to death, but they do prefer men with a little money).
IM 46 AT ONE TIME WHEN I WALKED THROW THE VALLY OF DEATH I WAS THE MEANIST MOTHER FUCKER IN THE VALLY
I TRY TO STAY FIT BUT ITS STARTING TO CATCH UP TO ME.
HOWEVER I DON'T DO YOUNG BIRDS EVEN THO THEIR ARE SOME WHO ARE WILLING.
IF I DID YOUNG GIRLS IT WOULD BE CAPGRIL 69.
I TRY TO STAY FIT BUT ITS STARTING TO CATCH UP TO ME.
HOWEVER I DON'T DO YOUNG BIRDS EVEN THO THEIR ARE SOME WHO ARE WILLING.
IF I DID YOUNG GIRLS IT WOULD BE CAPGRIL 69.
WOMEN
AND FISH, GREEN VEGES
AND FISH, GREEN VEGES
SO I HAVE SEEN
Posted by TigerCap
Not sure about dating but I do attract the unstable and or clingy types. Even in friendships. My Scorpio friend and I would be texting practically every day.
I do remember however that the Sag girl I dated a while ago would be distant when I was with her. She would not be told what to do or owned in any way. True Sag fashion. She was possesive when we went out though.
This one time we went out I was talking to a friend that I hadn't spoken to in a while. She asked me if I was dating anyone. I told her I was. She immediatly picked out the Sag girl. Apparently she was watching me like a hawk. Her words btw.
I have in the past as well. Haven't had another scorp since my first one though.
Never had Fire either, though I've tried. My Virgal's like that. We were at a party last week, and her friend, who happens to be a cougar, Capricorn lady. She had eyes for me from the time I arrived, in her drunkenness told me the I show her my butt LOL!!!! She really started hitting on me right before we left, I felt as though I was about to be raped. We go to leave, n my gf slams the door shut behind me, n later tells me she told her friend "touch him n i'll kill you". that's just being protective though, doesn't have anything to do with clinginess, just wanted to share.