should only women feel insecure?
Posted by memyself
can/should men feel insecure too? what if woman decides to leave him because he is unable to make her happy anymore. what if she decides to leave him because SHE is bored of him? what if he is not able to make her feel the same way as before. what if he is not interesting anymore. could men have same insecurities as women?
i don't think women look to walk out of a relationship, but they can be pushed to, can they not? it takes two to keep a relationship going.
Strange you should bring up this topic, there are just as many insecure men out there as women, the difference, they rarely talk about it, adopting various 'societal' masks which are deemed proper and appropriate, when underneath it all may lie but an adult child, craving affection, craving to be nurtured, craving validation, craving for someone who thinks they are good enough as they are. Men simple suppress it, as 'society' deems it unmanly and not masculine for them to be sensitive, which I find a load of crock but there you have it, how warped could things be? Very it seems.
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Hahaha Sag guys can be onery fuckers
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Guys think it's cute to pit girls against each other, he knew it would get you riled up.
Definitely hard to find one NYAA! maybe we're all a bit too picky? LOL but I agree with everything everyone has said here!
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Yeah who cares about NJ
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@74 - Yeah I know I appreciate your honesty though. *sigh* I know I look like a crazy ass! Damn it!
@pssy - Even though I don't like some of your stupid ass advice cause you need a chastity belt on, um you're probably right I look like a fucking psycho talking shit. But sometimes I just don't give a damn you know? Damn me and my Gem mouth!
@Wynter - I don't know much about Sag men but I know enough that one pissed me off a long ass time ago and since then I just don't care to deal with them. He was all about slinging his d*** around wanting to "date" me but sleep with everyone else. At least he was honest? I still dumped him. Funny thing is he would call me wasted and be like "why cant I crash at your house" and Id be like "better call someone in that black book of yours to go crash at their house instead of mine" click...He just couldnt understand WHY I WAS SO MEANNNNN LOL!
@pssy - Even though I don't like some of your stupid ass advice cause you need a chastity belt on, um you're probably right I look like a fucking psycho talking shit. But sometimes I just don't give a damn you know? Damn me and my Gem mouth!
@Wynter - I don't know much about Sag men but I know enough that one pissed me off a long ass time ago and since then I just don't care to deal with them. He was all about slinging his d*** around wanting to "date" me but sleep with everyone else. At least he was honest? I still dumped him. Funny thing is he would call me wasted and be like "why cant I crash at your house" and Id be like "better call someone in that black book of yours to go crash at their house instead of mine" click...He just couldnt understand WHY I WAS SO MEANNNNN LOL!
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Yeah who cares about NJ
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Damn that was supposed to be
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I gotta lol at guys sometimes. I really do think they're clueless in what they do...
I have so much crap to do today. :/
I have 3 things that are potentially getting booked on Monday. First it was potentially going out with the Pisces friend. Also, maybe the Taurus friend to do something for her birthday. Now, it's the Scorp wanting to hit up Disney.
Nothing definitive about all 3, but I'm willing to say eff it and hit up Disney based on the fact that the Taurus and Pisces are in the air and almost guaranteed flakiness. Gotta love that about the Scorp- we talk about plans and they actually happen. He rarely flakes.
I just know if I go off of principle and say no because I already made tentative plans with the Pisces that the Pisces will flake or drag ass on when to actually go out, leaving me waiting all day.
That said, I think I'm gonna be a flighty bitch and go with Disneyland. Woot.
I have so much crap to do today. :/
I have 3 things that are potentially getting booked on Monday. First it was potentially going out with the Pisces friend. Also, maybe the Taurus friend to do something for her birthday. Now, it's the Scorp wanting to hit up Disney.
Nothing definitive about all 3, but I'm willing to say eff it and hit up Disney based on the fact that the Taurus and Pisces are in the air and almost guaranteed flakiness. Gotta love that about the Scorp- we talk about plans and they actually happen. He rarely flakes.
I just know if I go off of principle and say no because I already made tentative plans with the Pisces that the Pisces will flake or drag ass on when to actually go out, leaving me waiting all day.
That said, I think I'm gonna be a flighty bitch and go with Disneyland. Woot.
Posted by Wynter
Guys think it's cute to pit girls against each other, he knew it would get you riled up.
But see I havent said ONE word yet to either of them. And I won't im acknowledging it. Im not as stupid as he thinks and that is what's pissing me off. So I have half a mind to get all flirty with his boys and add them to my list here
