why is it so hard for Leo men and women to commit?

Posted by celticlioness
I'm very wary of others who "claim" commitment. When I love you I show you consistently and always, when others claim love they show you for the first while (weeks, months, years) and then slack off, change their ways in a very taking for granted manner. You are now theirs so no need to continue to make an effort. when I start to love I will show you with gestures, everyday for the length of that love, so even if its just a cup of tea in bed in the mornings because that's what you love then that is what you will get, for as long as we are together even during an argument, because it brings you happiness and you are the person I love and I want to bring you love, I will want no thanks or rememberance of this act (the tea is merely an example btw ). With others I have found they lavish the demonstrations of love for a while and then, because they think they have won me, it will slack off. Love is to be given freely without any expectation of reward in return. So I used to commit easily but get disappointed easily. Now commitment is to be debated with myself, is it worth it or not. Being alone with myself is not a scary nor undesireable prospect. Being with someone who tries to win you with their own unsustainable gestures is not required nor desireable.