never thought I'd get to say this...
Sounds to me like an epiphany. "Why am I hanging with you who teases and lures me in when I've got a babe at home that'll give it up to me?" That's you stepping outside of yourself and knowing you on your ass for being stupid.
What I'm about to tell you I learned the hard way and the solution I'm presenting I no longer practice but I have in a former life lol.
Dude, stop pining after unavailable women who could give a fuck less about you. They play the friend because they know you'll be accommodating. I know. I've been there. You think that by proving you're a good guy in the hopes that she'll get it and see that and then drop her hubby and run off with you is going to work? Why are you torturing yourself?? What will happen is either she goes back to him or she leaves...alone and without you. Probably with the next hot asshole who strikes her fancy and will forget all the times you were there for her. Why? Because ultimately she could care less about your feelings. Not all women are like that so find one who's worth your time.
In the meantime...you play the piano!!! Do you know how hot that is to a woman?! Get up off your ass, head down to the local bar with a piano, hop on that shit and play it like you own the place! You will have no less than five women after you. Live for once! When you do that, the special lady you want will come to you.
It's ok to be evolved and nice. Love people. But at some point you have to realize you're over reaching and enabling. Leaving doesn't mean you don't care. But if she ain't picking up what you're putting down...find someone who will. _???
What I'm about to tell you I learned the hard way and the solution I'm presenting I no longer practice but I have in a former life lol.
Dude, stop pining after unavailable women who could give a fuck less about you. They play the friend because they know you'll be accommodating. I know. I've been there. You think that by proving you're a good guy in the hopes that she'll get it and see that and then drop her hubby and run off with you is going to work? Why are you torturing yourself?? What will happen is either she goes back to him or she leaves...alone and without you. Probably with the next hot asshole who strikes her fancy and will forget all the times you were there for her. Why? Because ultimately she could care less about your feelings. Not all women are like that so find one who's worth your time.
In the meantime...you play the piano!!! Do you know how hot that is to a woman?! Get up off your ass, head down to the local bar with a piano, hop on that shit and play it like you own the place! You will have no less than five women after you. Live for once! When you do that, the special lady you want will come to you.
It's ok to be evolved and nice. Love people. But at some point you have to realize you're over reaching and enabling. Leaving doesn't mean you don't care. But if she ain't picking up what you're putting down...find someone who will. _???
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Posted by ScorpioLaday
So I noticed that most of these boards are mostly concerned with love/relationships
and not to sound like an asshole but YAWNN ::boring::
now that I'm off of that tangent.
Fellow Scorps, am I going through a crisis or are most people on this earth super boring?
like i just overheard people talking to each other for 5 whole minutes about how much they love their dog.
It seems like I can't relate to people unless I watched the latest episode of the Voice or Breaking Bad or have stupid conversations about the weather/animals/celebrities.
Which is why when I do find someone interesting that mentions books I've never heard of, moon phases, philosophy, new art, upcoming music events, etc. I grasp onto them for dear life.
is this why people think we are so "intense" because it is such a big deal when we find another person interesting?
Is it a good thing that some people are boring? are they just boring from my perspective, or do they bore themselves?
I'm not a scorpio but I agree 100% . It seems like people turn to astrology when they can't find any explanation for their failed relationships.It's so sickening to see all these women complain about how this sign did that to them and how they hate this particular sign because they broke up.Give me a break ! What can I say... people (women) are passionate and obsessed about love.The only worth of women nowadays is just based on how much love (or rather attention) she can get from a male .
I do love randomness though . I'm pretty sure you can learn a lot from talking about any topic be it dogs ,computers, books, food, sport etc. you just need to find the right person to make that "intellectual connection" .
Posted by NotYourAverageAquariusPosted by aquapiscescusp
OMG I get screwed over all the time, need you in my corner!
Hmm, you give me too much credit.click to expand
Noted.
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I have that demo or what I believe to be that demo.. I don't know all the details about it... my brother does. But what I thought was funny is I had started listen to this chick's CD more than my other stuff and I didn't even know her! Just some random girl my brother new from school who he performed with. I think she really has some great creativity.. in writing songs. I mean it is all guitar based half the time because she plays the guitar but on that CD things were a lot more studio formatted with all kinds of background music. Like the last song on that list I posted earlier.. the one called "Always Need You" that song sounds like an R&B song on the album.
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haha aquapiscescusp ^.^
cases
I was looking into a mirror today for quite awhile. Not fixing my hair, doing my makeup, admiring or critiquing myself, but just looking at my face. I wondered what how I appeared to other people, what I??d think about myself if I was another person. So I kept on staring at my face, for so long that it didn??t seem like I was gazing at ???me?? anymore. The image being reflected was just skin, eyes, a nose, lips, hair, it was just a face- it wasn??t me, it was an object. I felt as if I was encased inside this foreign body. I can feel my body dying all around me, when it someday wastes away forever and I fall into old age my soul will still remain ageless and eternal.
People say ???I??m fat.?? or ???I??m ugly??. No one is fat, no one is ugly- we aren??t our bodies or faces. Our bodies are simply mechanisms created to carry our souls around in order to complete their purpose. We are being carried around in moving cases whose only job in this world is to take us where we need to go, and accomplish what we need to accomplish. It's so saddening how all the while we are unaware that -we- are the important one, we let the appearance of our carrier slow us down, tear us up, and destroy our progress.
I was looking into a mirror today for quite awhile. Not fixing my hair, doing my makeup, admiring or critiquing myself, but just looking at my face. I wondered what how I appeared to other people, what I??d think about myself if I was another person. So I kept on staring at my face, for so long that it didn??t seem like I was gazing at ???me?? anymore. The image being reflected was just skin, eyes, a nose, lips, hair, it was just a face- it wasn??t me, it was an object. I felt as if I was encased inside this foreign body. I can feel my body dying all around me, when it someday wastes away forever and I fall into old age my soul will still remain ageless and eternal.
People say ???I??m fat.?? or ???I??m ugly??. No one is fat, no one is ugly- we aren??t our bodies or faces. Our bodies are simply mechanisms created to carry our souls around in order to complete their purpose. We are being carried around in moving cases whose only job in this world is to take us where we need to go, and accomplish what we need to accomplish. It's so saddening how all the while we are unaware that -we- are the important one, we let the appearance of our carrier slow us down, tear us up, and destroy our progress.
If a man wants to take you out, he will ask you out.
If he isn't taking the bait, he may be involved with someone or not interested.
If he isn't taking the bait, he may be involved with someone or not interested.
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Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by TheMoodyVulcan
Fine print--every contract comes with some and it should always be methodically scrutinized before a pen ever touches the paper. Unfortunately creative people get screwed a lot in this world. Deals like this occur everywhere, the music industry, publishing, and sometimes even art brokerages. They basically buy the rights to the artist's work against a point system in sales--notoriously leaving the artist responsible for many of the start up and PR costs--and then leave themselves ways out of the contract. It's a pretty hard case to sue for that and she would likely end up spending more in legal costs than she would earn back for damages.
I'm sorry that this girl was abused like that. She is very talented and I look forward to listening to more of her work.
Yep, people are kind of stupid, don't feel too bad for her...click to expand
I'm just giving her a little help that's all. You can feel bad or not
I just advertising her here case anyone finds they like her stuff. She does seems to be doing pretty decent on youtube these days so yeah can't feel tooooooooooooooooooooo bad for her anymore your right. I dunno guess I just feel like being nice today.. don't hate!
Personally from what I've observed, Virgo and Cancer get along really well. Usually for friendship in most cases, because sometimes Virgo may find Cancer's mood swings to be a bit tiresome and obnoxious. My sister is a Virgo and has a lot of really close Cancerian friends- they mutually understand the others sense of humor and I believe that Cancer can be calmed a bit by practical, sensible Virgo.
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Fuck sleeping til noon. Ugh. So annoyed with myself
I can definitely relate to you. I've found that regular, common conversations begin to bore and wear me out. Probably because most things like ruined relationships, celebrities, gossip, "the weather", and other trivial issues just don't appeal to me. I never think about them, I think mostly about why things are the way they are in the world- or simply soak in everything around me and stop questioning all together. People would probably describe myself, and other Scorpio's as quiet people, private, reserved, but the real reason a lot of us don't say much is because we find it exhausting to discuss something unless it's worth being discussed.
I like solitude because of this reason, the constant chatter and debates about things that will never make a difference in the long run. If I'm around too many people at once the sheer volume and amount of these conversations weighs on me until I need to be centered and alone with my thoughts. Constantly I take breaks from these forums because of this quality of my persona. Breaks are needed in order for me to think enough to come to understanding- at which point I'll have many things to say and I'll be passionate about them.
Trivial things, material items, and small talk drains our passion which is our most vital fuel in life.
I like solitude because of this reason, the constant chatter and debates about things that will never make a difference in the long run. If I'm around too many people at once the sheer volume and amount of these conversations weighs on me until I need to be centered and alone with my thoughts. Constantly I take breaks from these forums because of this quality of my persona. Breaks are needed in order for me to think enough to come to understanding- at which point I'll have many things to say and I'll be passionate about them.
Trivial things, material items, and small talk drains our passion which is our most vital fuel in life.