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Mar 13, 2010Comments: 4 · Posts: 339 · Topics: 34
I do have a fabulous life and friends and hope you do too... I'm glad you get me... It's just that you spend a lifetime trying to figure out whom to trust and let in and just when you think you've got it sorted a situation like this presents itself and you find yourself in a quandary...,hmmmmmm....doesn't bode well for me.... Don't care for surprises too much...
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Sep 26, 2012Comments: 1648 · Posts: 8573 · Topics: 67
Well, stick to your guns and back yourself,
'cos no one else will!
If you aren't comfortable with the situation etc it's in your best interests to walk away... basically look after yourself first and foremost.
You have a lifetime of strong, reliable connections as you say, so they are far more worthwhile for you...
Actually I'm not... Me saying that was trying to relieve his sad eyes and trying to make things stay between us... Our relationship *is* going to look different. It has to, if it doesn't we are both going to be miserable and hate each other. We actually just had an amazing and open talk which helped me realize that he does hear me he just needs his own time to process it. I'll post more on this later...
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May 03, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 106 · Topics: 35
how would this person act
The more you hold stuff in, it'll start to show up as body ailments. Let that negativity out. I rage in the bathroom with the door shut until I am calm to deal with the situation rationally.
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Mar 13, 2010Comments: 4 · Posts: 339 · Topics: 34
Thanks for your kind words.... And yes I know what needs to be done at this juncture... Life will go on as we know it... :0)
My first bf was a Cap, the longest relationship I had was with a Cap and the last guy I dated was another Cap, so what's with them? Or should I say what's with me? Lol! Cap guys are good people in general, I've seen different Cap traits with every Cap guys I had in my life. They are old fashion in many ways and are sweet in showing their affection. Communication is important to them. Don't try to read them coz most of the time you will fail so just be yourself and if something bothers you, talk it over with your cap since you're a Virgo it will be a lot easier connecting with him, I myself find it easy to connect with Cap guys than any other guys. Give them due respect and when I say respect, I mean RESPECT. They will treat you like a real lady and they expect you to be one. Public behavior is well criticized by a Cap guy (as far as my experience was). They expect you to be a real WOMAN most of the time. You are a Virgo and if you think the relationship is not worth it, stop it as early as now but if you think that it's worth something then go for it, I can tell you that it's really worth it and time wil prove that you didn't make a bad choice. Once you win their respect you will have it as long as you deserve it, once you have their love and devotion you will have it for as long as they live, I have my ex-cap and he honestly tells me that he still loves me even if he was with another woman now, see, even their emotion won't stop them from getting/having what they want or what their plans are. Just be yourself coz they are good at reading beneath the surface. True love with a Cap is the sweetest Love youll ever find. Good luck to you and your Cap!
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Sep 26, 2012Comments: 1648 · Posts: 8573 · Topics: 67
You sound like you have it together, good luck though =)Enjoy your day!