Have I completely lost Taurus male?
Posted by scorpchick76
(excerpt) It went down hill from there when after the friend said something to the taurus I pushed to know what his response was in return. He told me to leave it til today and I couldn't... I'm blaming him and making him feel bad and shouldn't but it comes out sometimes as a reaction to my hurt.
scorpchick76, Taureans detest being pushed... and to be honest, 99% of the time, you're not going to get anywhere doing so anyway with us... we can be stubborn to the point of being absolutely immovable and no amount of... well, anything ... will force us to budge...
And I don't know if it's true of other Taureans but guilt trips=no bueno.... I personally am my own worst enemy in that department. I recognize and internalize my guilt to the point of depression at times; and the last thing I need/like to hear is my mate drilling away at that which I so clearly understand and deal with daily about myself. Most importantly, I have been very hurt by people who choose to use that guilt to manipulate me...
I hope any of this helps hun... stay true to yourself and if he doesn't readily see your inner light, he doesn't deserve you. Best wishes.
--heather
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I will say this. Physical abuse is clear and not ambiguous. Psychological abuse exists in the part that can't be explained. But honestly, the latter is the root of the former as physical abuse is just a projection of ones thoughts. So which is worse? To me psychological is more dangerous.
Posted by ScorpioChica
U obviously confirmed what I stated, ur lil brother lost his mom unfortunately at a very early age & this did affect him no matter if u wanna acknowledge this or not. Children bond with their mothers from the womb & there after, it's not the same cause u stepped in to be a surrogate mom. I'm sure there was a lot of other influencing factors which made ur lil brother intolerable. What u fail to see is all this disruption in his very young years influenced his character or personality. I'm sorry for the loss of your mom, understand that children aren't born bad or evil something has to be triggered for the brain to respond to outside stimulus in which ever way fits. The human brain isn't fully developed until the early 20's therefore a young child couldn't possibly know right from wrong unless we "train" or guide them from a very early age.
A lot of what you are saying is correct. However we develop our internal working models as early as 18 months (based on our attachement to a caregiver-- it doesn't have to be the biological mother)and this shapes how we see ourselves, others and how we relate to them. We always take an "active" role in shaping our relationships with other people--even infants. "Push and pull" (e.g. temperament, style , demeanor). Now add astrology into the mix. If you now have a guardian or adult figure that does not know how to relate to a child in a way that fits/supports/gently shifts this model you then have a problem on your hands. As people continue to interact with the child and he/she pushes in a certain way and adults react it reinforces or challenges his/her working model.
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Appreciated, love you Scorpios too.
Libras get bored easily! We are some what of free spirits! I have been known to just "disappear!" Libras don't like to hurt other people's feelings ( but trust me if we have to we will) so rather then being honest with what is really going on, I will just ignore you! Your a Cancer, most cancer's are kinda clingy and possessive which is a big turn off! Honestly, leave her alone, stop texting her she has moved on. The Libra in me feels bad for you and hate that you got your heart broken! Sorry kid!
Most Cancers I know are extremely loyal and faithful, well thats for the women. Even so for the men I would imagine the rate with them to be pretty low.
Curious, what is it about her that keeps you there?